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Dean_p32
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Where Do I Go From Here
Posted: 10-05-06 12:50pm
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Ok ive been reading problems with ppl on
this site and they make mine seem petty
but to me it feels like the most painful
thing in the world
im 18 ive just split up with ma girlfriend
coz I didnt love her no more the same but
I rly loved her as my bestes ever friend
how ever I dnt wna stay friends coz I dont
think she can handel it or move on and it
would feel starnge. (we was going out for
6 months and living 2getehr and sleeping
together 2 weeks after we met) I just feel
like we wer so close. Im a very alone
person who likes no1 there but she changed
me. Now im alone n again and it sux and I
got word she likes some other guy or
summuts n even though im sort of happy
shes doing ok im so upset that she got
over it so fast coz even though ive done
the dumping im still ehre alone wollowing
in my room crying missing all the good
times we once had n how good my life was
looking in the future. Now it seems all a
blue with no future and like ive got no
energy or care in the world. I just dont
no what to do from here life is never the
same again after she came and went. Now I
just cnt go bak to how I was b4... Any
help???
i want the happy pround me back but will
it ever be the same again  once a fun
confident happy guy now alone in the dark
4ever??
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Laletta
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Re: Where Do I Go From Here
Posted: 10-05-06 13:08pm
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Well if you said you didn't love her I
guess you will eventually get over it..
But it is very hard once you recently just
get out of a relationship, there are
plenty of other fish in the sea, when you
had just broken up, all your giong to
think is that you will love this person
and miss this person forever and
everything is rueind, but it's not.. You
wont miss her forever like your thinking,
once you loose something good it just
means you will find something better, just
look around go out find something get
active more, you will find someone that
will make everything better, and as for
her just getting over it like that, shows
she wasn't very serious in the
relationship, so why be sad if she's out
there with smiles?
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Dean_p32
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Re: Where Do I Go From Here
Posted: 10-05-06 13:14pm
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| laletta
wrote: | | well if you said you didn't
love her I guess you will eventually get
over it.. But it is very hard once you
recently just get out of a relationship,
there are plenty of other fish in the sea,
when you had just broken up, all your
giong to think is that you will love this
person and miss this person forever and
everything is rueind, but it's not.. You
wont miss her forever like your thinking,
once you loose something good it just
means you will find something better, just
look around go out find something get
active more, you will find someone that
will make everything better, and as for
her just getting over it like that, shows
she wasn't very serious in the
relationship, so why be sad if she's out
there with
smiles? |
i think im sad coz I thought we ment more.
My rents think its just her way of
dealing with it and getting over it. But
my way seems to be locked up in my room.
And I feel so alone but when im with sum1
I just want to be alone. Your rite it
just feels like it will neevr get better
and the light at the end of the tunnle
just isnt shining. I not in love now but
I miss being in love.. So many happy
memerys , we would sit up til 3am looking
at the stars holding each other to keep
each other warm at the lake just me and
her bestes friends, lovers. Now thats all
gone. Life feels empty and not worth
living. Im a just starnge???
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Laletta
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Re: Where Do I Go From Here
Posted: 10-05-06 13:20pm
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Aw babe, you are definitly not strang
because I have been with my boyfriend for
a very long time now and we went through
so many problems and I felt the same way
you did when we constintly broke up, and
yeah you may be right, she may have moved
so fast maybe to get you jealous, or to
get over it.. If you stay in your room
all day depressed, it's not gonna help
nothing trust me I did that befor.. And
when I went out with my friends and
actally did something my mind got off of
everything, find a different girl.. It
will take time but when you do its totally
worth it, but the worst thing to do is to
stay inside and mourn about it
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Dean_p32
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Posted: 10-05-06 14:49pm
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Bt I just dont get why this happen I cnat
find the ansers? She was so perfect so
good looking so kind and to heart how
could I fall out of love with sum1 like
that sum1 who cared and loved me so much!?
I cnt make sence of it thats what hurts
alot
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Laletta
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Posted: 10-05-06 14:57pm
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Sometimes some people may think they dont
love them but they really do and when they
really think about it they notice they
made a mistake, if you really want her
back and can't stop thinking about her
maybe you do love her and you just don't
know, really think about it and if you
really do believe you have feelings for
her.. Try and get her back befor its too
late
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Dean_p32
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Posted: 10-05-06 15:17pm
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| laletta
wrote: | | sometimes some people may
think they dont love them but they really
do and when they really think about it
they notice they made a mistake, if you
really want her back and can't stop
thinking about her maybe you do love her
and you just don't know, really think
about it and if you really do believe you
have feelings for her.. Try and get her
back befor its too
late |
i was thinking about it long and hard for
a month... But I rly didnt what to stay.
As much as she loved me I didnt want to be
with her and I dont wna go
back... But why do I miss it so much?I
really belive there is something not rite
with me. I feel like I want change from
her and everything, but no change seems
good enough for me
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Posted: 10-05-06 15:39pm
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Sorry about your depression but this is a
joke.....You cant even spell a single
word. Worry about school more it seems
like the more important thing to
concentrate on.
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Dean_p32
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Posted: 10-05-06 15:44pm
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| emma2
wrote: | | sorry about your depression
but this is a joke.....You cant even spell
a single word. Worry about school more
it seems like the more important thing to
concentrate
on. |
just coz I cant spell and im disletsic
doesnt meen I dont have a heart unlike you
your the joke!
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Laletta
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Posted: 10-05-06 15:46pm
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You can doing it spell.. You just speak
in aol slang
becz u dun want 2 type out ery word!
We all do it, forget whatever the medical
question she said
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Dean_p32
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Posted: 10-05-06 15:47pm
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And as for that ive been out of school for
2 years and am in drum college and if
spelling was the most of my worrys I would
of made the effort to click the spell
check button below!
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Dean_p32
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Posted: 10-05-06 15:48pm
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| laletta
wrote: | you can !@#^ing spell..
You just speak in aol slang
becz u dun want 2 type out ery word!
We all do it, forget whatever the !@#^ she
said |
no I rly cant spell. My name is dean but
ill write it down daen and not even relise
so I type and write in txt and slang
now....
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Laletta
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Posted: 10-05-06 15:50pm
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No im saying.. If you didnt noe how to
spell we all wudnt be able to responde to
wat ure saying atleast we can read and
understand everythin ure sayin
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Dean_p32
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Posted: 10-05-06 15:51pm
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| laletta
wrote: | | no im saying.. If you
didnt noe how to spell we all wudnt be
able to responde to wat ure saying atleast
we can read and understand everythin ure
sayin |
yeah thanx I dont no why ppl would even
bother to make a comment like that on a
forum like this?? Maybie on an english
exam yeah but this..
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Laletta
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Posted: 10-05-06 15:57pm
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Yeah I noe thats why I just had to write
something that was a joke
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Posted: 10-05-06 16:16pm
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| dean_p32
wrote: | | emma2
wrote: | | sorry about your depression
but this is a joke.....You cant even spell
a single word. Worry about school more
it seems like the more important thing to
concentrate
on. |
just coz I cant spell and im disletsic
doesnt meen I dont have a heart unlike you
your the
joke! |
1st of all its dyslexic and dyslexia is
not at all the way u type. You type like
some internet fool with all these
abbreviations and shorten ghetto words.
Concentrate on school youre ignorant
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Laletta
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Posted: 10-05-06 16:17pm
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What are you a teacher? This isn't
school, shut the hell up already
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Posted: 10-05-06 16:28pm
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| laletta
wrote: | | what are you a teacher?
This isn't school, shut the hell up
already |
shut up, you ghetto idiotic fool
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Dean_p32
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Posted: 10-05-06 16:30pm
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| emma2
wrote: | | laletta
wrote: | | what are you a teacher?
This isn't school, shut the hell up
already |
shut up, you ghetto idiotic
fool |
i might not be able to spell and I may be
depressed but least im not mental
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Start Agian
Posted: 10-09-06 07:18am
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Why not talk to her.
Tell her how you feel.
If it that bad why not start from the
begining start with going on a few dates.
I.E:- pictures night outs.
If that does not work then I should say it
is over and start a fresh.
I hate to say this that you you should
think you are lucky to have some one who
loves you.
And you have to try hard to make it
work..
Every one who has a relationship have hard
times and may feel that they do not love
them but underneath they do.
Even think about going to a relationship
counselling to find out what the problem
is.
Good luck
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