Ok ive been reading problems with ppl on
this site and they make mine seem petty
but to me it feels like the most painful
thing in the world
im 18 ive just split up with ma girlfriend
coz I didnt love her no more the same but
I rly loved her as my bestes ever friend
how ever I dnt wna stay friends coz I dont
think she can handel it or move on and it
would feel starnge. (we was going out for
6 months and living 2getehr and sleeping
together 2 weeks after we met) I just feel
like we wer so close. Im a very alone
person who likes no1 there but she changed
me. Now im alone n again and it sux and I
got word she likes some other guy or
summuts n even though im sort of happy
shes doing ok im so upset that she got
over it so fast coz even though ive done
the dumping im still ehre alone wollowing
in my room crying missing all the good
times we once had n how good my life was
looking in the future. Now it seems all a
blue with no future and like ive got no
energy or care in the world. I just dont
no what to do from here life is never the
same again after she came and went. Now I
just cnt go bak to how I was b4... Any
help???
I want the happy pround me back but will
it ever be the same again once a fun
confident happy guy now alone in the dark
4ever??
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 10-05-06 15:01pm
It soudns like everything was great for
you guys,why did you break up with her?
You can't expect her to just sit around
and feel like crap all the time. Maybe
she is trying to forget you.My boyfriend
and I just broke up about 3 weeks ago.I
loved/love him dearly but had to try to
forget about him.Well I hung out with a
guy (as a friend and I did not like him
like that at all) just to get my mind off
of him.I now talk to my x every day still
and we are not togehter but we are working
on things.We care for each other and are
willing to fix it
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Dean_p32
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2006 Posts: 16 Location: lincoln
Posted: 10-05-06 15:20pm
melissa_20
wrote:
it soudns like everything
was great for you guys,why did you break
up with her? You can't expect her to
just sit around and feel like crap all the
time. Maybe she is trying to forget
you.My boyfriend and I just broke up about
3 weeks ago.I loved/love him dearly but
had to try to forget about him.Well I hung
out with a guy (as a friend and I did not
like him like that at all) just to get my
mind off of him.I now talk to my x every
day still and we are not togehter but we
are working on things.We care for each
other and are willing to fix
it
i broke up with her coz I felt like its
not what I wanted any more. It was
somehting I always wished having but now I
had it 6 months later I thought I dont
want it any more. I feel like im to
young.. What do I no about love.. I dont
feel ready and she needs better then me
coz we both want diferant things.
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 10-05-06 16:06pm
Opposites attract, nobody is exactly the
same. Sometimes things happen for a
reason. Yes, you are young . Maybe you
might have taken things a little bit fast
but something like melissa said above, you
cannot expect her to sit around and throw
herself a pity party, she might just be
hiding behind the hurt, have you tried
talking to this girl. Sometimes we all
think that the grass is greener on the
other side of the fence and it might have
been just a sign for you both to just to
move on, after being with someone and then
being alone is not easy and you are still
young. You might try to talk to her and
see if she has feelings for you and if not
then you know that it is time to move on
and start enjoying life and meet other
females and leave the past behind you.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 10-06-06 09:35am
sandyallen
wrote:
you might try to talk to
her and see if she has feelings for you
and if not then you know that it is time
to move on and start enjoying life and
meet other females and leave the past
behind you.
and if you talk and she
does miss you, why not try again? So what
if your different.Like ingi said,opposites
attract.Maybe you really did want a
relationship but you were just scared?You
shouldn't expect yourself to know about
love.Its something you have to experience
for yourself,thats how you will know.I
also must say,are you missing her because
it seems that she is not missing you, or
do you really genuinly(sp?) mis her?
