Hey girls,
i just wanted to let you all know that I
won't be coming to this forum much
anymore..It's become more stress than fun,
and it shouldn't be that way. Nobody in
here should feel like they're being downed
for anything or be made to feel like they
need to prove themselves(*i'll pass on the
belly pics)...Funny how everyone posts
openly on this forum, but only certain
people get picked apart about it by
certain people...Oh well, people will be
people...I truly wish the best for all of
you and hope you guys can get past all of
this petty junior high drama and get this
thing back to the way it was eventually.
*jennifer-i love you girl, you have been
my backbone since the day I came here and
i'm so glad I met you. You have not only
given me great advice and input, but
you've instilled in me the determination
and even stronger will power than before
that I can do absolutely anything I put my
heart into. I look at all you have
accomplished and it truly makes me push
forward. Keep yourself happy okay? That
comes first, always. And keep your head
up for your grandmother. No matter what
she's there and she hears you, so talk to
her. Don't be afraid to grieve and to
cry. It will get easier, I promise... I
hope we can keep in touch and eventually
meet up...Maybe once I start to show more
so you can rub my belly )...I'm gonna miss you hun!
*jess-i love you girl! You are so
incredible, I don't even know what to say
you leave me at a loss for words!
Cheyenne is so lucky to have you as her
mommy, and baby bean! Baby bean is going
to be even more lucky to not only have you
and austin as mommy and daddy, but chey as
big sister! You have become a true role
model for every person, not even teen, out
there. I hope we can stay in contact so
we can go through the ups and downs of our
pregnancies together....Keep yourself
stress free and happy...Keep that little
one safe and sound for me!
*meg-another inspiration for me! Keep up
the good work and stay strong...You can do
this! Throughout all of thats been going
on I recieved a teddy bear, from my uncle,
that's holding a golden star and on the
star it says *when in doubt, look up* I
want you to remember that...If ever you
feel like you are falling behind or can't
find the strength to push forward, just
look up. Everything will come together, I
promise. Keep your head up and never lose
sight of your dreams and goals.
*kari-you're going to be one of the most
devoted mothers I know! That little
munchkin of yours is so lucky to have a
mommy like you! As for sperm donor, don't
let him get to you, if anything, be
thankful that he gave you the most
precious gift anyone could ever
give...Cherish it, I hope you and jason
grow into something amazing...And keep up
the strong fight against mia, you're doing
such a great job, keep your head up and
know that you can do absolutely anything
you strive for!
*jordan-my belly girl! Lol that belly of
yours, so cute! It's been fun getting to
know you and sharing our stories..You're
such a sweet girl!I hope you get your
little baby girl, you've got to keep me
updated on how that appt goes!
*liz-hey hun! You have got to be one of
the most sweetest,down to earth girls I
have ever had the privilege of getting to
know. You give me hope that there really
are people who care out there! I hope you
and mike continue on strong and eventually
start making babies! You'll get there
soon enough....Stay sweet!
*tanya-hey girl!! I've missed talking to
you but hope we can keep in touch through
e-mail...I've been thinking about ya and
hope you and b/f concieve soon! *baby
dust* love ya hun!
*kel-raising your daughter since you were
13...What more can I say? Incredible,
motivating, breath taking. Christina is
such a sweet heart and she has such a
bright future ahead of her, all because of
you. The integrity that you carry on your
shoulders is something that you should
never let be broken. You deserve
everything you've worked hard for. Keep
it up hun, you're amazing!
*chanda-another sweetheart! Such an aura
about you, always positive. Stay sweet
and never change!
*jen-hey hun! Rub that tummy for me!
River's going to be such a little prince,
I can already tell!
*stacie-keep being an astounding mother to
that little cutie of yours! He's gonna be
a heart breaker when he gets older!
*melissa-i'm so happy for you and jake and
the life you guys have started with
eachother. Have fun on that farm and keep
those babies safe!
*alison,erica,hanna,danielle,molly,jill,an
sley,christina,babyrae,ash and anyone else
that I may have forgotten-stay sweet
girls! You've all been so wonderful and
so helpful to me..To those mommies and
mommies to be, never give up, no matter
how hard somebody tries to pull you down,
never lose sight of who you are and what
you want out of life. You can overcome
any obstacle and any hurdle that may come
your way as long as you believe in
yourselves. You're all going to make
wonderful mothers(if you arent already!)
one day...Stay smiling and stay true.
*~*reach for the moon, and if you fall, at
least you'll land among the stars*~*
i love all of you!
Much love,
vanessa(and tom & peanut)
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dominicksmommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2004 Posts: 279
:( Posted: 01-26-04 17:37pm
Hey hun...
Aww I am sorry that u had a bad experince
on here I wish it hadnt happened that
way... I wish u luck with everthing and
keep in touch.. If u have msn add me unavoidabledamage@hotmail.Com or if
u have yahoo coome and leave me ur yahoo
thingy I m in the middle of getting
yahoo..Ur a sweetie keep in touch hun
love
christina&dominick
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Wings are blue
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2003 Posts: 435
Posted: 01-26-04 17:47pm
Vanessa,
I think it's really sad that your
leaving. You've been on here for months
and you're gonna let one girl that shows
up outta nowhere chase you off? Look at
all the girls that you said goodbye to and
all the friendships you have made here.
Your gonna leave all that? You don't have
to prove yourself to anyone. Why do you
care what some girl that doesn't even know
you thinks? Have any of your friends here
ever questioned you? I guess it's none of
my business but I just hate to see you let
her win.
Best wishes,
angie
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Yazmine
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Oct 2003 Posts: 156
Posted: 01-26-04 17:50pm
Vanessa~
aw sweetie!...I havent been on in a
while...Sorry I dont really know wat is
going on....But we will really miss u!...I
luv reading ur advice, I hope everything
works out 4 u...If u get a chance stop in
and let us know how everything is
going...We will really miss u!!!
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 375 Location: georgia
Posted: 01-26-04 17:56pm
Vanessa I thought you were stronger than
that. You will get no were in life by
worrying about what others think. You
will always have to run away. From
problems. Its sad youre going to leave
just because someone gave their opinion of
you. I with you tom and your baby the
best of luck
chrystal
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 375 Location: georgia
Posted: 01-26-04 18:00pm
I didnt mean to sound harsh in my first
post its the military in me coming out,
but why leave that truesouls hasnt been on
today.
the girls here love you. I just dont
understand help me to understand
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 01-26-04 18:01pm
The reason for me leaving is not because
i'm running away...No matter where you go
or what you do in life there's always
going to be people who you don't care for,
i'm well aware of that...But this is just
a forum, and it shouldn't be so
petty...Just a little too stressful for me
right now, I have enough to worry about..I
don't want to have a knot in my stomach
everytime I come on here, and right now I
do...Chrystal I think you're an amazing
person and I respect your words, because
it's the truth...Don't think i'm weak
because i'm not, I just need a breather.
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adormer221
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Sep 2003 Posts: 309 Location: colorado
Posted: 01-26-04 18:16pm
Hey well its me ~~~~~~~~~~ashley (remember
me from emailing eachother) you probally
dont-- or you just dont care - - but
im am sorry that you feel this way I wish
you much happiness and love - and success
in your life k -- rub your belly for me
k--
please take care--
ash
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 01-26-04 18:28pm
Sweetie-u shouldnt let one person's
opinions force u out of here-we've all had
2 deal with crap-look at erica-ppl were
trying 2 get her banned in the abortion
forum for having opinions.Another woman
was sending me pm's saying I had
childish,pathetic writing and wud I please
write properly! Its horrible but this is
r place isnt it?!
On the other hand,its up 2 u what u want 2
do.If u think leaving is going to be
better for u then so be it.But,u need 2
keep us all informed about ur
pregnancy-the scans,every flutter,every
bump,every docs appointment etc! And I
wanna see pics of ur growing bump 2!
Good luck and best wishes
liz :d
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
Posted: 01-26-04 19:58pm
Thats so sweet of what u wrote hun thanks
alot! But please dont leave! We all want
here .. And that one person has left I
think and u shouldnt let them make u
leave. .. Ur needed here! Is that the
only person???? We want u to stay!
Vanessa,
i'm sorry you feel you have to leave.
That's what happens though. People in
this forum get ran off. Wish it didn't
happen. It's a choice you make though.
Good luck in whatever you choose to do and
please keep us updated on the pregnancy.
Always,
chanda
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Ansleyt2004
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Dec 2003 Posts: 355 Location: MS
Posted: 01-27-04 01:40am
I hope that change ur mind and decide to
stay!!! If not then goodluck and I hope
everything goes great for you!!! And
check in everynow and then to let everyone
know how u r
goodluck
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Ansleyt2004
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Dec 2003 Posts: 355 Location: MS
Posted: 01-27-04 02:17am
I would like to talk to you do u have a
yahoo name?
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 01-27-04 08:22am
Wow, vanessa that made me cry! Thank you
so much for everything. Your going to be
a wonderful mother, and when you catch you
breath I want you to come back!
Kelly and christina
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Darling
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Sep 2003 Posts: 875
Posted: 01-27-04 08:27am
Nessa....I love you so much girl.....Drop
me a line sometime, we haven't had a good
chat in awhile. I wanna know how that
little peanut of yours is doing!
Lots of love
tanya
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003 Posts: 728 Location: Illinois
Posted: 01-27-04 09:43am
Noooo!!! First jess then mel now u!!!!
Im going to miss u girlie!! You are such
a great girl!!! You are going to be an
amazing mommy! I know u will!! And u and
tom will be great parents!!! Stay strong
and come back and visit!!! I know how it
is to be under a lot of stress and its not
good for u or the baby!!! So rub that
tummy for me!!! Girl we are always here
for u and u are always a part of our
family!! Love u girlie!!!
Jen & river
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 01-27-04 11:51am
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Jessika Adriana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2003 Posts: 133
Posted: 01-27-04 12:38pm
Ok, well first off, I don't know whats
going on, but your such an incredible
person vanessa! Secondly I am literally
in tears right now, because I miss you all
soooo much and when I get a chance to come
see you all, I am missing one more person
and its so sad! You had better email me,
or my big pregnant behind is gonna trot
over there and kick your big pregnant
behind! aww
you know I love you girls so much and I
don't want to see you hurt, so keep in
touch with me ok?
)...I'm gonna miss you hun!
the girls here love you. I just dont
understand help me to understand
aww
you know I love you girls so much and I
don't want to see you hurt, so keep in
touch with me ok?
