I Cant Believe This Happened to Me! I Feel So Hurt Posted: 10-08-06 15:31pm
Went over my girlfriends house the other
night and we hung out and watched a movie
and shot some pool....All was well, I
stayed all night there and in the morning
we got up and we had sex.
I had to work that day but didnt have to
go in till a little later....I am normally
gone very early in the morning but not
this day.
I am out with her in the kitchen about an
hour later and her phone rings....She said
hmmmm it says some kind of storage place
on my caller id and she answers it.
It was a guy on the other end talking to
her and I could hear the whole
conversation because the phone was on so
loud! He asked her is she wanted to go
out to breakfast and they had small talk
and he asked if he can stop over on his
way to work.......And she said yes while I
was standing right there!
I could not believe this was happeneing
while I was right there! I asked who that
was.....And she said it was her sister!
And she was askin her if she wanted to go
out to eat. I called her out on this and
said what the hell are you talkin about
that was a guy on the phone and said I
heard the whole conversation, well she
said I was crazy and that it was her
sister.
I sat down at the table then all the
sudden she said "well I am gonna take a
shower and go to the store are you leaving
for work now"? I knew some guy was coming
over and I said no I am gonna hang out a
while because I do not have to work
yet.....She starts getting very nervous
and was pretty much pushing me out the
door and practically begging me to
leave....... So I did
i get in my car and back out of the
driveway and take off and I pass a white
truck with some guy in it on the way and I
just knew that was the guy going to her
house.....I circled around just to make
sure and sure enough he pulled in her
driveway and got out.
I couldnt believe this was happening, I
have only been with her for about 4 months
but this was just crazy! I immediately
called her up when I seen the truck and
asked her what the hell was going on...She
said she would call me back in an hour.
We talked about the whole thing for a long
time and the best answer I got from her
about this guy is that he is a "prospect"
and now all the sudden she doesnt wanna be
tied down and doesnt want a serious
relationship, supposedly nothing has
happened with this guy yet.....So she
says.
I am very tore up about this and I cant
stop thinking about it, she says she still
wants to see me but she just doesnt wanna
have a serious relationship and she wants
to take it day by day......Whatever that
means. I told her I wanna be with her but
I want her to only be with me....And she
said no.
This woman has told me she loved me and we
have spent a ton of time together.....I
just feel so lost.
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dead little me
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2006 Posts: 40
Oh My God¬!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 10-09-06 03:54am
Oh my god.
Im so sorry that she did that to you. I
wish that I could offer you some god words
of advice here but I lost some one who
said he dont love me. I would give
anything to get him back.
All I can say is that it seems she is
lying to you and will continue with you.
That she dumped you or ended it because
she is playing away with this other bloke
in the van.
I think that she is mean especially
considering that she did it while you were
there. Im sorry if im completely off the
mark but it seems that she was screwing
with you true feelings and you deserve
some one better some one who is true and
does not lie and is totally yours.
You seem like a great person so please
dont get hurt. Shwe sounds like she will
hurt you
sorry if you hate my advise. Love ej
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Makoto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jul 2006 Posts: 278 Location: Japan
Posted: 10-09-06 17:28pm
""""we talked about the whole thing for a
long time and the best answer I got from
her about this guy is that he is a
"prospect" and now all the sudden she
doesnt wanna be tied down and doesnt want
a serious relationship, supposedly nothing
has happened with this guy yet.....So she
says."""
the answer is simple. She is busted. You
caught her in a deception, and now she is
trying to save face by saying she does not
want a serious relationship. She should
have told you that in the beggining.
She is just using you, probably laughing
about it with white truck guy. Dump her,
dump her quickly. Tell her you met called
up an old ex and made a booty call, and
you realize you could have it better with
some one else.
Do not worry about burning bridges on this
one, you do not need her as a friend or
anything. Just let her go like you would
with a big bag of caca. That is what she
is.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 10-10-06 09:29am
makoto
wrote:
""""we talked about the
whole thing for a long time and the best
answer I got from her about this guy is
that he is a "prospect" and now all the
sudden she doesnt wanna be tied down and
doesnt want a serious relationship,
supposedly nothing has happened with this
guy yet.....So she says."""
the answer is simple. She is busted.
You caught her in a deception, and now she
is trying to save face by saying she does
not want a serious relationship. She
should have told you that in the
beggining.
She is just using you, probably laughing
about it with white truck guy. Dump her,
dump her quickly. Tell her you met
called up an old ex and made a booty call,
and you realize you could have it better
with some one else.
Do not worry about burning bridges on this
one, you do not need her as a friend or
anything. Just let her go like you would
with a big bag of health question. That
is what she
is.
