Why Is He Playin Games With Me Posted: 10-08-06 23:45pm
My ex-boyfriend is always playin around
with me. First he wants me then he
doesn't I mean its drving me crazy. I am
really in love with him, he say he loves
me but I dont think he really means it
just like when he says he misses me. He
tells me every time he is about to get
back with me I mess it up but I dont think
I do only 1 or 2 times b4. I dont get it
will someone help me please
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oneSMALLcoOkie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Oct 2006 Posts: 11 Location: Brooklyn, New York
Re: Why Is He Playin Games With Me Posted: 10-09-06 02:03am
If he knows he can keep on getting you
back just when he feels like it then he
will just keep on doing it.... This
time put your foot down, tell him..
Either you want to be with me or not..
If you ask me out again but then reject
it, theres going to be no more returns so
make up your mind so I wont be wasteing
time all confused and sh!Z ... And dont
be scared at what he says your a women be
strong, if he's going to say fine its like
that then forget it, dont be scared at
that you can get someone who can actually
make up his mind stay with you and not
keeping you wondering.. Just put your
foot down and dont be scared just because
you love him, you wont love someone
forever once you find something sooo much
better who treats you 100% opposite and be
happy... Takes time but be strong and
confident, never let anyone especially
someone you love step all over you because
they will just keep on doing it, and for
some people once you leave em and put ure
foot down and show them that, they
eventually want you back but still be
cautious
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Stu
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Posts: 39 Location: United Kingdom
My Thoughts Posted: 10-09-06 03:55am
Hi,
i must say I agree largely with
onesmallcookie's advice. At the moment
you are allowing him to play games with
you. So he has all the power and you are
kept dangling on a string like a puppet.
If you take back the control you may risk
losing the relationship but what you will
regain is your pride and self respect and,
believe me, these things are a lot more
important in the long run.
Force his hand. Ask him to make a
decision on what he wants to do. If he
can't do that then walk away. But have
enough faith in yourself to know that
whatever happens you will get through
it.
At the end of the day if someone truly
loves you they should not enjoy torturing
you. And you should not keep torturing
yourself.
Try to weigh up the positives and
negatives of your current position. If
the negatives are outweighing to positives
then it's definitely time to call it a
day. Find yourself a decent guy, there
are a lot more of us about than you might
think.
Hope everything works out for you. Take
care...
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Re: My Thoughts Posted: 10-11-06 14:58pm
stu
wrote:
find yourself a decent
guy, there
are a lot more of us about than you might
think.
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