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Collegegirl18
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Late Period- Please Help
Posted: 10-11-06 07:43am
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I woke up this morning again hoping I
would have my period but it is offically 4
days late now. I have had sexual
intercourse since my last period, even
though it was protected I fear the
results. My period usually come between
every 26-29 days which is not a perfect
schedule. I know that stress can be a
huge factor, and I moved to college about
1 month ago, 7 hours away from my family
and boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have
had a few problems over the past month
regarding me being so far away, however I
don't know if this is enough stress or
not. We ususally work everything out very
quickly so it's not like I feel sad all
day on any occasion. I would just like to
now how many days is normal before I
should really freak out, which im already
starting to do. I really have no symptoms
of a period right now, just a little
tender breats.
Scared at college
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
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Posted: 10-11-06 08:12am
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Ok first things first.
What type of protection did/do you use?
If condoms has one broken recently?
If b/c pill have you forgotten to take any
recently?
Have you recently started or changed b/c
pill?
When was the first day of your last
period?
Have you recently lost or gained weight?
Have you had late or absent periods
before?
There are many factors affecting your
periods, and having recently moved away
from family could be a big contributor.
Also if for some reason you did not
ovulate this month, that would contribute
to your (as present) missing period.
If you use a "first response" pregnancy
test you can test as long as 4 days before
your period is due.
Most other tests are accurate from the day
your period is due.
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Collegegirl18
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Posted: 10-11-06 08:59am
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We used condoms and they have not broke.
I am not on the pill at all. The day my
last period started was 9/10/06 and it was
5 days long. Recently I really have no
changed by eating habits at all and I
exercise maybe once a week if that, so my
weight has stayed the same.
What would make me not ovulate this
month?
I might go buy a pregnancy test today its
just that I am very scared to find out the
results especially if there positive.
Do you need any more information?
Thank you for your help so far!!
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 10-11-06 09:30am
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Personally i'd wait a few more days, maybe
a week? Cos like you said periods can
often be a bit late and its fine.
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
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Posted: 10-11-06 11:23am
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If you have used condoms and they have not
broken or slipped off or anything like
that then your risk of pregnancy is very
low.
Most pregnancies that occur while using
condoms are down to either the condom
breaking or slipping off or other
"mis-use" of the condom.
Not ovulating could be as simple as the
body not having resources to sustain a
pregnancy (ie a very hectic and stressed
time) or could just be one of those
teenage hormone hicups.
I'd say give your period a few more days
4-7 to appear then take a test if nothing
shows up.
If the test is negative and you are still
worried make an appt with your doctor
otherwise wait and see if the next one
shows up, then take it from there. If
that one skips as well and you don't have
a positive pregnancy test then you will
need to see your doc anyway to rule out
any problems.
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Collegegirl18
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Posted: 10-11-06 11:43am
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Thank you, I will wait a few more days and
see what happens. This sunday I might go
buy a test and that way it will be a full
week late.
Hope all goes well..
If you know anything else please let me
know, I would like a lot of opinions..
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Ingi
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Posted: 10-11-06 19:13pm
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Well, opinions are just that, opinions.
No one can say whether you are pregnant or
not. Only a pregnancy test can say that
for sure.
As far as stress goes: did you know
starting college and moving away from your
family is one of the most stressful times
you'll go through? It is probably very
stressful for you! This is why there are
the freshman 15 (lbs) and the high rate of
college freshman who leave college and
return home after the first trimester!
This is more than likely your first time
on your own - even if you live in a dorm,
you still aren't living with your
family.
You are eating differently. You are
living differently. You are having
problems with your boyfriend. And all of
that adds up to stress.
There is more than likely a free clinic on
or near your college campus that you can
visit and get a pregnancy test done for
free. If it would put your mind at ease,
it might be a good idea. Either you can
stress about 'maybe' being pregnant - or
you could know for sure.
Good luck!!
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liwikiwi
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Collegegirl18
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Posted: 10-11-06 21:09pm
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Well thats really good to know that
college can be mostly related to my
stress..Makes me feel alot better..Im
going to wait a little bit longer to get a
pregnancy test (that will freak me out
more) but I will let everyone know
soon..
Hopefully I get it tomorrow!!
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Cambion
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Posted: 10-11-06 22:32pm
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I went through something very similar
recently - my period was late by about
four days, and I attribute it to me
stressing out over stupid crap, including
the chance of pregnancy when it was
extremely unlikely. I've had my period
get screwed up due to stress, especially
when I stress out around the time my
period should come.
Even if you miss your period entirely this
month I wouldn't even say to worry then.
As others have said, you may just have not
ovulated this month, or you're ovulating
later than normal. There are countless
factors that can affect your cycle, even
if you're fairly regular - the littlest
hormonal flux can knock your cycle out of
whack. Also, you're at that age when your
body is preparing for childbirth, even if
you don't want it to. Your periods may
still be weird for a few more years.
Lots of girls your age in college will
have cycle changes due to the stress of
being away from home and being on your
own. I wouldn't be shocked if you missed
your period for a few months (not due to
pregnancy). If you're extremely
concerned, does your school have a health
clinic? Are there any planned parenthood
clinics near where you go to college? You
can get free pregnancy testing at either
location.
Judging by your description, I would say
your chances of pregnancy are very nil.
Relaxing at this point is easier said than
done - you may be more relaxed if you have
a pregnancy test with a negative result in
front of you.
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Collegegirl18
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Joined: 11 Oct 2006 Posts: 11
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Posted: 10-13-06 13:31pm
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Ok so now it has been 6 days and im
starting to wonder because...
- my boobs feel tendered
- I have discharge
- I have cramps
they feel like period cramps although I
have never experienced cramps before my
period, I usually get them the 1st or 2nd
day into my period and there anywhere from
mild to hurting badly
so I was wondering if anyone could tell me
what this means??
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 10-13-06 13:33pm
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| collegegirl18
wrote: |
so I was wondering if anyone could tell me
what this
means?? |
your going to get the same answers you
have been getting.I think your just
looking for reassurance.
All you can do is get a test.We cannot
tell you what it is and we have already
told you what it can be.If you want to
know badly,go buy a first response and you
should get your answer soon! Please tell
us how it comes out! 
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-13-06 13:34pm
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All we can tell you is that you should
test. Anything more is speculation.
Test. Finding out one way or another is
better than driving yourself crazy
analyzing your symptoms.
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Collegegirl18
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Posted: 10-14-06 13:53pm
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Thank you so much everyone!! I just got
my period today, 6 days late but hey i'm
so glad!!
Thanks for you help!!
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 10-15-06 09:03am
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Great! 
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