I Have a Sex Drive, But I Can't Orgasm Posted: 10-11-06 13:21pm
Hi, it seems I can never have an orgasm,
no matter what. The worst part about it
is that I start thinking about it during
sex which just ruins it. It just doesn't
feel good to have anything inside of me..
And it's not just a "them" thing. I feel
the same when I masturbate. It takes a
really long time to get off. It used to
be fine, but for about a year I just
can't. And the thing is, I want it. I
have the sex drive, just can't reach the
point of bliss. I just get aggravated
instead. I don't know what the hell is
wrong with me, but i'm sick of faking it
to please my s/o. What can be wrong?
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DLosGirl82
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 47 Location: NH
Re: Posted: 10-11-06 14:08pm
Hi chickie )
I think you might just be putting a
little bit too much pressure on yourself.
I went through a period of about a year
where I could never reach orgasm...Even
through masturbation, as you mentioned.
It definitely wasn't until I just relaxed,
enjoyed it and stopped thinking about
"finishing" that I was able to have them
again. If you're partnered with someone,
try out some new things...Have him touch
you in different ways and tell him what is
most pleasurable. Oral sex is a personal
favorite of mine...Just a tip. good luck sweetie!!
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good luck sweetie!!