I have a situation similar to that of "melissa" and the forum titled sperm. Although I was not drugged, I had a friend involuntarily have sex with me while I was passed out drunk. Luckily, I did come to during all of this and pushed him off of me. He did not ejaculate inside me, but I do know that there is pre-ejaculate. I am now 3 months pregnant. But that's not the worst of my problems. My fiance works on an oil rig which means he is home for 14 days and gone for 14 days. The day that he came home from work was the early morning of june 11. All this happened with what I thought was a friend on the night of june 13, early early morning of june 14. My fiance knows that I took this friend home so he wouldn't have to drive after he had been drinking and he knows that a group of our friends were all sitting around drinking and having a good time. He doesn't know, however, what my "friend" did. My fiance wasn't there. He had to visit some family. The doctors say I conceived anywhere from june 11 to wouldn't ya know june 13. I am soooo scared, because I know that if this baby isn't for my fiance, he will leave me and I wouldn't blame him, although I did nothing wrong because I was passed out. My fiance has always ejaculated inside me because we have been trying for years to have a baby and it hasn't been easy with his work schedule. I'm sorry that this is so long, but I need you to get the whole picture. Now, the way I see it, there is about a 5% chance that this child is for the "friend", seeings as how he didn't ejaculate inside me, but still leaving that 5% due to pre-ejaculate. I'm hoping that someone will reassure me that I am right. I don't want to lose my fiance, especially over something I had no control over until I finally came to. Please help!