I
have a situation similar to that of
"melissa" and the forum titled sperm.
Although I was not drugged, I had a friend
involuntarily have sex with me while I was
passed out drunk. Luckily, I did come to
during all of this and pushed him off of
me. He did not ejaculate inside me, but I
do know that there is pre-ejaculate. I am
now 3 months pregnant. But that's not the
worst of my problems. My fiance works on
an oil rig which means he is home for 14
days and gone for 14 days. The day that
he came home from work was the early
morning of june 11. All this happened
with what I thought was a friend on the
night of june 13, early early morning of
june 14. My fiance knows that I took this
friend home so he wouldn't have to drive
after he had been drinking and he knows
that a group of our friends were all
sitting around drinking and having a good
time. He doesn't know, however, what my
"friend" did. My fiance wasn't there. He
had to visit some family. The doctors say
I conceived anywhere from june 11 to
wouldn't ya know june 13. I am soooo
scared, because I know that if this baby
isn't for my fiance, he will leave me and
I wouldn't blame him, although I did
nothing wrong because I was passed out.
My fiance has always ejaculated inside me
because we have been trying for years to
have a baby and it hasn't been easy with
his work schedule. I'm sorry that this is
so long, but I need you to get the whole
picture. Now, the way I see it, there is
about a 5% chance that this child is for
the "friend", seeings as how he didn't
ejaculate inside me, but still leaving
that 5% due to pre-ejaculate. I'm hoping
that someone will reassure me that I am
right. I don't want to lose my fiance,
especially over something I had no control
over until I finally came to. Please
help!
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-21-03 17:49pm
First off, I want to tell u that u really
did something wrong---------drinking too
much! I wish this teached u that no one
is to be trusted 100%
ok, now the real problem is that u can
still get preg with only a slight amout of
pre-ejeculation, but it's not likely at
all though
and how sure are u that that "friend" did
not really ejeculate inside u?
Let's say the baby is not ur fiance's, are
u going to tell him? I think u should!
I think u should even tell him now!!
Asap! Why? Because how would he react
if u told him after the baby is born? He
would feel way worse!!!
I know that he might leave u becoz of
this, but I suggest u to do that though.
And when u do, really talk to him or
communicate with him.
Tell him what really happaned and it was
not ur fault. If he loves you truly and
wants to spend the rest of his life with
you, I believe that he will try to
understand the situation.
Good luck to u and I am here for u if u
need me
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MeganMcD
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Aug 2003 Posts: 7 Location: Ontario, Canada
Posted: 08-21-03 19:36pm
I say tell your fiance the whole truth of
what really happened. No matter how hard
it may be for you or him. He deserves to
know and it is not healthy for you to keep
this bottled up inside. Plus "friend" is
getting away with this big time. Good
luck!
I
have a situation similar to that of
"melissa" and the forum titled sperm.
Although I was not drugged, I had a friend
involuntarily have sex with me while I was
passed out drunk. Luckily, I did come to
during all of this and pushed him off of
me. He did not ejaculate inside me, but I
do know that there is pre-ejaculate. I am
now 3 months pregnant. But that's not the
worst of my problems. My fiance works on
an oil rig which means he is home for 14
days and gone for 14 days. The day that
he came home from work was the early
morning of june 11. All this happened
with what I thought was a friend on the
night of june 13, early early morning of
june 14. My fiance knows that I took this
friend home so he wouldn't have to drive
after he had been drinking and he knows
that a group of our friends were all
sitting around drinking and having a good
time. He doesn't know, however, what my
"friend" did. My fiance wasn't there. He
had to visit some family. The doctors say
I conceived anywhere from june 11 to
wouldn't ya know june 13. I am soooo
scared, because I know that if this baby
isn't for my fiance, he will leave me and
I wouldn't blame him, although I did
nothing wrong because I was passed out.
My fiance has always ejaculated inside me
because we have been trying for years to
have a baby and it hasn't been easy with
his work schedule. I'm sorry that this is
so long, but I need you to get the whole
picture. Now, the way I see it, there is
about a 5% chance that this child is for
the "friend", seeings as how he didn't
ejaculate inside me, but still leaving
that 5% due to pre-ejaculate. I'm hoping
that someone will reassure me that I am
right. I don't want to lose my fiance,
especially over something I had no control
over until I finally came to. Please
help!
