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Q: Determining the Father
asked by: autumn16 on October 16th, 2006
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I am pregnant but is really confused right now coz I do not know who's the father. My last period started sept 11. I had a one night stand on sept 22 after some drinks. We had protected sex. I had sex with my boyfriend on sept 23, without any protection. Doctor says my estimated due date is june 18. Can someone tell me who's the father?
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Jules
replied on October 16th, 2006
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Well obviously no-one here can tell you 100% for certain but I would put money on it being your boyfriend since you used protection with the one night stand.
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arcadia
replied on October 16th, 2006
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It could honestly be either of them. Since you only had sex with the different guys 1 day apart. Since you had unprotected sex with your boyfriend, it's more likely that it's his.. But the only way to find out for sure is to have the dna tested after the baby is born.
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alexa84
replied on October 16th, 2006
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Yea in my opinion it would be your boyfriend.
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megums1211
replied on October 16th, 2006
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Not trying to stir things up, but I can't resist Twisted Evil .... Maybe, (just a thought) if people wouldn't cheat on their spouses and boyfriends, and would just stay with one partner... Maybe no one would have to worry about a dna test... But anywho... It's probably your guy since you didn't use protection with him... But in the case that it's not... How will you explain that to him ?
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Emma2
replied on October 16th, 2006
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The two enconters are too close together to determine....Dna is your only option..Next time u might wanna try using protection with one night stands.
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Melissa_20
replied on October 16th, 2006
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emma2 wrote:
..Next time u might wanna try using protection with one night stands.
she did smarty! :p

but why risk cheating. . . .People who cheat are just damn greedy!
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Sandbox Party
replied on October 16th, 2006
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People who cheat should be castrated.
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Melissa_20
replied on October 16th, 2006
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rainfire1424 wrote:
people who cheat should be castrated.

lmao,sandra,you think everyone should be castrated,lol
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megums1211
replied on October 16th, 2006
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I guess I wasn't the only one thinking about damning the cheaters... Yay for the castration sandra!
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oh_mommy
replied on October 16th, 2006
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Yeah I hate when people cheat on others I dont understand it....

See this is how I determined the father of my baby...... I've only touched / had sex with my boyfriend im with now... Nobody else in my whole life, so there is absolutly no way it can be somebody elses... Try not cheating next time and you wont have to worry.. But it does sound like it would be your bfs baby... But to make sure I would tell the doc and ask for a dna test later
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megums1211
replied on October 17th, 2006
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Lol ohmommy, its like tell the doctor "um, i'm too horny to have sex with only my boyfriend so now we have to get a dna test b/c I don't know which one is the father"... I couldn't imagine cheating on my hubby, let alone telling him i'm having a baby with the one night stand...
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Emma2
replied on October 17th, 2006
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melissa_20 wrote:
emma2 wrote:
..Next time u might wanna try using protection with one night stands.
she did smarty! :p

but why risk cheating. . . .People who cheat are just damn greedy!

oh I missed that part!! Then what the hell is she even asking this stupid question for? Gosh im getting really annoyed with people who have useless question!
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Mabel
replied on October 17th, 2006
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*asks a useless question*

hahaha! Twisted Evil
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lolita11
replied on October 5th, 2008
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confused about who the father of my baby is
Ok I had unprotected sex with my exboyfriend on April 9 and he definitely came inside me we were expecting to be pregnant but I got my period april 24 (it was very late) so then I thought I wasn't pregnant. Then we broke up and on May 11 I unprotected sex with another guy but we were more careful that he didn't came inside me. I know... bad idea, actually the worst idea for protection. Then I went to the doctor on June 19th and they told me I was 8 weeks pregnant according to the date of my last period and my baby would be born Jan. 29 so I thought it was my ex's. But then at the ultrasound they told me that the baby was actually going to be born Feb. 5. So now I really don't know because if it was my ex's would it be possible to be pregnant 3 weeks later after we did the deed? Or if it's the other guy's how could I be pregnant a week before we actually had sex? Someone please help!
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