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Kaylathecoolest
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I Want Some Insight
Posted: 10-16-06 19:11pm
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I want to know that why in the world do
most people that are not fat at all become
anerxic or bullemic like half the people
on here are like people tell me I aint fat
but I feel it that sure is my story I see
fat but they dont... Why are we stuck
with this stuff if people dont see fat plz
someone give me some insight on this I go
on this starving diets for a few days then
go on a healthy diet and then I splurge
and I feel bad so I go on this cycle or
something like that but this has been
going on for two months-3 months someon
give me some insight
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Kaylathecoolest
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-16-06 21:26pm
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You need to talk to a counselor. This is
not something you can handle on your own.
And the longer it goes on, the more damage
you will do to your body. We're talking
about *permanent* damage, and it will
affect you for the rest of your life.
This isn't just an innocent thing to lose
a bit of weight, this is neglecting your
body of the nourishment it needs to keep
you moving, breathing, thinking. It will
find that nourishment somewhere, even if
it has to break itself down. This damage
is not reversable.
You should try to concentrate more on
getting help on this and less on dieting.
I know that's hard because it's all you
think about, but you *need* *help*. And
you need it now. Talk to your school
counselor, or maybe a teacher. They can
put you in contact with someone that can
help you.
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Kaylathecoolest
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v00d00cita
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Posted: 10-18-06 03:53am
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It's all inside our minds... That's why
it's so hard to deal with these kinds of
problems. It begins with the whole
society prototiping this ridiculous
concept of female beauty and it ends with
the death of so many of us...
But together we can overcome that, I know
so.
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Kaylathecoolest
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Posted: 10-18-06 15:18pm
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I know people are like you are skinny you
aint fat but I am gosh I thought about it
like only 50% the time like last year now
it is all I think about I think people
somtimes think that I do it to get
attention but I dont I want to lose like
ten pounds & I will know I will feel
better I just know I weigh 112 right now
and I am 5'1 I know I can lose soooome
weight even if it aint but 6 pounds but I
still want to lose 10 pounds
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Kaylathecoolest
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Posted: 10-22-06 12:48pm
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| kaylathecoolest
wrote: | | i know people are like you
are skinny you aint fat but I am gosh I
thought about it like only 50% the time
like last year now it is all I think about
I think people somtimes think that I do it
to get attention but I dont I want to lose
like ten pounds & I will know I will
feel better I just know I weigh 112 right
now and I am 5'1 I know I can lose soooome
weight even if it aint but 6 pounds but I
still want to lose 10
pounds |
i know... I'm dealing with this now.
I've been sick, intestinal problems, and
huge constipation. So my weight rose a
few pounds, like 4 pounds. It's creeping
me, i'm killing my head and my nerves over
this and I don't kno what else to do or
think about, because it's constantly
coming to my mind...
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Kaylathecoolest
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Posted: 10-25-06 20:25pm
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I wish that I wouldnt be so weight
concious I weight 109-110 right now I lost
a few pounds
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v00d00cita
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Posted: 10-26-06 08:56am
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I'm so tired right now. I'm with this
awful constipation and it's simply
horrifying. My tummy aches and it's as
big as a balloon. I know my weight is
highet and I can't stand this!
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jessfanem
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a Little Bit of Help
Posted: 10-30-06 12:13pm
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I don't know if the two of you will feel
any better from this, but I joined this
site after being released from an
inpatient clinic treating eating disorders
and self injury. I am 23 5'6" and
120-125 lbs. I have an eating disorder.
I also have a personal trainer. I am
extremely muscular and most people would
say I have the ideal body. However, I
have recently become obsessed with loosing
weight and restricting. Despite what my
trainer says and I already know, women
fluctuate up to 10 lbs a month due to
water retention associated with our
menstraul cycles. Therefore my constant
weighing of myself is inacurate. I
fluctuate between 120-125 lbs all day
long. I know the feeling that you have
and I have a hard time staying away from
the scale as well. I learned from the
clinic about how bloated you get when you
finally do start eating, but this is so
temporary compared to the long term damage
you will cause not eating. When you
starve your body you cause it to convert
everything that you do eat into fat,
whereas if you eat healthy foods in
smaller portions you keep your body
metabolizing all day and utilizing the
nutrients correctly. Then excercize to
burn uneccessary fat. I don't know,
maybe I am rambling or being a know it
all, maybe you don't want to hear any of
this or already no this information and
that doesn't helup you. It doesn't
always help me either, but I find that
rationalizing brings me back down to earth
when I feel no hope and want to starve
myself. Let me know if you want me to
shut up or if you find this helps you 
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v00d00cita
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Posted: 10-31-06 06:33am
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Jessfanem,
thanks for your post, I found it very
useful. Every single story that every
single person tells here is interesting
and important, so, thanks again.
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jessfanem
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Posted: 10-31-06 09:34am
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| v00d00cita
wrote: | jessfanem,
thanks for your post, I found it very
useful. Every single story that every
single person tells here is interesting
and important, so, thanks
again. |
good
btw...I see you post here alot and I would
love to talk to you and know your
story...I want to find someone safe to
talk too and yesterday when I joined I had
a strange experience with pm. Anyway...I
can tell you are a safe person to talk to
and i'm sorry for what happened to
mxgurlie...Please pm me if you wouldn't
mind helping me out with some issues and I
would like to be there for you as
well...If you want to know more about me
check out my new member story
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Kaylathecoolest
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Mar 2006
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Posted: 11-14-06 21:04pm
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How do you view a new members story???
Ok I am eating regular now and am trying
to realize that not eating hurts you more
than helps you but I have started
excercising and like today was my 1st day
of my new diet plan and I excercised like
a lot well at least for me I did one 30
min pilates workout and one 37 min pilates
workout and walked a mile and I am bout to
do 50 sit-ups am I trying to do too much
excercise plz tell me idk I just want some
abbs and to be skinny and like in inches
is the average size for someone 5'1
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v00d00cita
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Posted: 11-15-06 04:29am
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| kaylathecoolest
wrote: | | trying to realize that not
eating hurts you more than helps you (...)
I trying to do too much excercise plz tell
me idk I just want some abbs and to be
skinny and like in inches is the average
size for someone
5'1 |
hhi, how are you doing? I'm trying to eat
more and to do four meals a day. And you?
Aren't you exercising too much? And
how's your eating? You can do your abs
and push-ups at home while you're watching
a movie or so, but you don't need to do a
lot of them to be fit.
And what size do you think that someone
who's 5'1 should be? You can be mistaken
about that...
Get better, kisses.
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Kaylathecoolest
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Posted: 11-19-06 17:55pm
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Lik I did 2 miles today and 50 sit ups and
30 min of pilates I did more miles of
walking and just did less pilates but it
still is as much as the other nites cause
I did an extra mile do you think that I am
doing to much excercise plz someone tell
me if yall think I am????
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v00d00cita
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Posted: 11-20-06 08:05am
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Maybe you are.. Maybe it could be better
for you if you did less and kept improving
it every day... Just an opinion! :s
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