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KariM18

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Baby Name Dilemma~ Cant Hurt the Grandparents...
Posted: 01-27-04 17:19pm

Hey everyone* I am 14 weeks n 5 days pregnant as of today* anyhow.. As some of u may know. .If its a girl I am going to name her jaiden, and if its a boy, I was going to name him carson. But there is a big problem. When I first got pregnant and was thinking of names, I told my mom I was considering the name grant, (my grandpas name) so she told my grandparents.. Well, I had changed my mind because for some reason I cant see me calling him grant if its a boy. . But yesterday I went to lunch with my grandparents and to the hospital with them to visit their friend.. And they were bragging and all excited telling them how happy they were that if its a boy it will be a baby grant. My grandpa looked so thrilled about it and they looked all glowy and I can tell my grandpa felt real good that I was going to name my baby after him..I guess after talking to my mom they thought I was going to for sure.. . Sad . . I dont want to break their hearts!! Their so set on the name grant now if its a boy... What do I do?? And what do all of u honestly think about the name grant?? Thanks*
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babyrae

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Posted: 01-27-04 17:22pm

I think grant is such a cute name but if u dont feel comfortable about it.. How bout asking them if they woujld mind it as a middle name? What if the baby doesnt look like grant? They shouldnt be too upset over the name once they see the beautiful baby... Just talk to them and make name suggestions and see what they do/say... I hope everything works out Smile
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smith8500

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Posted: 01-27-04 17:39pm

Grant is a good name. But you have to like it. Choose what's right for you. By the time the baby comes, they will be so excited they'll forget it.
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kitty_55

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Posted: 01-27-04 17:59pm

Hey,

why dont you just call your baby if it is a boy carson grant? It might not be hios first name but its still in his whole name..?
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KariM18

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Posted: 01-27-04 18:15pm

Hey everyone thank you for replying. I wish it was that easy to give it his middle name if its a boy, but its not because my cousin already has the middle name grant and my grandpa says "thats just not the same" he is sooo thrilled. Also, ive decided on the middle names marie for a girl, and matthew for a boy, its a chain now, my dad and brother have matthew, and me, my mom and my sister have marie...But anyhow, its like I made them so happy saying I would name it grant.. But I do like the name. .Its just maybe I cant see calling him that because its old fashioned being it is my grandpas name. .Do u guys think its a cute name tho? Would anyone else ever name a son grant? I just dont want to name it sometihng I will regret and I loved the name carson.. Im not sure yet. .Maybe I will get lucky and have a girl like I orginally hoped tho!
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kitty_55

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Posted: 01-27-04 19:01pm

Hey,

i have another idea! You could name him carson matthew grant? Is that a better idea!?

Alison xoxo
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mommabear16

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Posted: 01-27-04 20:22pm

Well it's really not there place to tell you what to name your child....But whatever you do..Do it because you feels its right
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PregnaJordan

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Posted: 01-27-04 21:11pm

I went through this with my mom! But I was like I dont want to name it taht and im not! She didnt like the names I picked out and I was just like, whatever I dont care..It is my child!!! Laughing
jordan and baby(2 b determined in 36 hours!)
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JillMarie

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Posted: 01-27-04 22:51pm

Hopefully you have a girl! Laughing just kidding! How about giving him a name that sounds like grant or the middle name grant!? Idea

i think you should really do what you like because my sons dad picked out the name efrain and I picked out javier so we decided to call him efrain javier but he promised we would call him by his middle name-nobody did and now I have this awful name for my son!
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insurancegirl

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Posted: 01-28-04 10:20am

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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-05-04 09:59am; edited 1 time in total
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Mesmerizeu15

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Posted: 01-28-04 10:26am

It is not our place to tell you what ot name your child, you have to do wha tyou think is right, they are all beautiful names.. Good luck darling!!
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