Hey well I wanna thank all the people who
stuck up for me, I was to young at the
time I had the abortion, I was 16 and
scared, my parents made me have an
abortion, so I did, and now im 19 almost
20 and ready to have a child, with my guy
who is 25 in the army, and is verry ready
to have a child, so we are, and im so
sorry to u all if u dont belive in
abortions, I dont eather but I did only
what was right at that time, im sorry and
I wont ever do it again, that was a long
while ago and im sorry, god knows im
sorry, he forgives me, so sorry to u all
that are hateing me right now for havin an
abortion when I was young and dum,
jessicalynn
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-21-03 17:17pm
Jessica--there is no need to say sorry to
us for what u have done before, the past
stays in the past honey, and we r not ur
parents, and we sure dont want to judge u
for what u decide to do or not to do.
Congrats on keeping the child!!! Great
news!! I hope the baby's daddy is as
excited as I am!! U need to come back and
see us and keep us posted on how things
are going!
And remember, no need to say sorry for
what u knew was the right thing to do.
Dont put urself down, hold ur head up high
and no regrets!
Send our love to ur baby!!
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lhileman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2003 Posts: 79 Location: Griffin, Ga.
Jessicalynn Posted: 08-21-03 17:57pm
I agree 100% congratulations, keep us
informed,
:d lhileman
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003 Posts: 145 Location: Hmm
Posted: 08-21-03 20:51pm
Jessica darling there is no reason to say
sorry at all. You did what you felt was
right at the time and it's over with. I
wish you the best of luck with your
pregnancy and your life honey.
Love
tanya*xo
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cantwait2bmom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 24 Location: Toledo, OH
Dont Apologize Posted: 08-29-03 10:09am
You've said it all very well. You were
young and dumb, and it sounds like you had
no choice in the matter as far as what you
could do. However, you are grown up now,
and know what it's like to want a baby..
I am sure you learned from your mistake
just as all of us do. And yep, if you
have god in your life, he will forgive you
for your mistakes, like you know.
I am not for abortion, however, I lucked
out and didn't get pregnant at a young age
eventhough I was sexually active like
yourself. I was careful and just maybe
lucky. Well, good luck with the
pregnancy and don't apologize for
something you obviously were against..
Beth edd 12-25
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blu_eyes00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 96 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-02-03 10:50am
Jessica,
you did what was right for you at the
time. Just because it may not be the
choice of other people does not mean you
should appologize at all. What you go
through in life will make you stronger.
Your next child will be well loved, and
you and your partner will be ready.
best of luck!!
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 10-17-03 07:48am
No message
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 10-17-03 07:48am
No message
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smo1980
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2003 Posts: 15 Location: Canada
Posted: 10-17-03 08:25am
I really think that was a rather rude
comment "u dont have to
apologise to us 4 killing ur
child-apologise to it" people come here
when they are scared, or don't know, or
just need some support that thye can't get
elsewhere, and comments like that you
should just keep to your self! Tha's
what I think anyway, I know that if I
thought I was going to be judged for
comeing here for some advice and
comfort........ That is not what I would
want to be hearing and I don't think you
would care to much for it either it it
were you!
Anyway, what I am saying I guess is no one
has the right to judge other peoples
decsions that have to do with there life!
If you can't be nothing but negitive to a
post don't bother posting a reply.
Everyone has there own opinions on
different subjects and thats a good thing!
But it is not a good thing to put others
down for somthing that they have done or
are looking for advice on!
That's all I guess! I just thought t hat
comment was a little hurtful.
smo
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qriosity
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Oct 2003 Posts: 40 Location: U.S.
Yuck! Posted: 10-17-03 09:42am
What a terrible thing to say. This girl
is obviously already upset about the
decision she made (which is her's to make
by the way).
*and by the way jessicalynn, you made the
decision that was right for you at the
time.*
comments like that should be deleted.
Better yet, you should delete it
yourself.
~qriosity~
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 10-17-03 13:04pm
No message
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-17-03 13:07pm
Liz is right, everyone is entitled to
their own opinion and should not be
completely upset over it. Everyone can
disagree with anything but please dont be
rude about it. Liz is a very nice girl.
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qriosity
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Oct 2003 Posts: 40 Location: U.S.
Posted: 10-17-03 14:19pm
No one said you weren't entitled to your
opinion. But you'r comment didn't seem
like an opinion. It was more of a rude
jab at someone who is already upset
enough.
And in my *opinion* what you said was rude
and unnecessary.
~qriosity~
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 10-17-03 14:25pm
No message
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 10-17-03 15:05pm
That is so sad I feel like crying!!! I
remember hearing my neices heartbeat for
the first time, and it was a very happy
time, but to cut it off like that....How
sad. It makes me want to cry!
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 10-17-03 17:32pm
No message
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 10-24-03 11:39am
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prettychicky99
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Nov 2003 Posts: 21 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 11-02-03 17:40pm
Hahahahahahahaha you would kill a baby
jsut because your gay ass parents said so
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003 Posts: 1762 Location: Venice, Florida
Posted: 11-02-03 19:07pm
Prettychicky that wasnt avery nice thing
to say. My mom tried to make me have an
abortion. But I knew she couldn.T make
me, no matter what she said so I told her
no. You came on here looking for
sympathy, and I gave it to you, this is
not a very good way to treat other people
who are hurting. And some people do what
there parents say at the risk of being
disowned or shunned by their families. I
know this is not what families should do,
but some do it. So please, return the
kindness and treat jessicalynn with
respect.
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Mommy_2_b
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Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 11-27-03 15:19pm
Prettychicky that was a horrible thing to
say. If I had parents and I was young
again i'd probably do what they wanted if
I thought it was right to. She thought
that was what she needed to do and thats
what they wanted her to do. It was the
right thing for her! Amazingly enough
some teens do still have respect for their
parents. ~melissa
"u dont have to
apologise to us 4 killing ur
child-apologise to it" people come here
when they are scared, or don't know, or
just need some support that thye can't get
elsewhere, and comments like that you
should just keep to your self! Tha's
what I think anyway, I know that if I
thought I was going to be judged for
comeing here for some advice and
comfort........ That is not what I would
want to be hearing and I don't think you
would care to much for it either it it
were you!
