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Q: Help! Going Thru Hard Times During Pregnancy!!!
asked by: claudiacs76 on August 21st, 2003
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Hi im 6 months pregnat, my boyfriend and I work at the same place, we have been working together for two years, I was having a great pregnancy, he was being a very nice person with me,but two days ago I found out he was cheating on me with someone at work. I feeling terrible right now, I don't know what to do, I have been crying for the past 2 days, I can't eat, I dont know what to do, cause people tell me im hurting my baby with my pain, but I lost control I dont know what to do to stop feeling like this!! Please help!
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HongKongChick
replied on August 21st, 2003
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Oh sweetie.....Stop crying u are making me sad too!!! And I hate cheating boyfriends who will become fathers. Mad

ok, first, let's look at why he would cheat? Well he is a human being, he is a guy, he has sexual needs, and his woman is preg!

Have u been emotional even since ur preg? Have u been withholding sex becoz of the pregnancy? Have u changed since being pregnant?

All these things might trigger him to the road of cheating! But it's not an excuse for him to cheat on u though.

And have u talked to him or confronted him yet? My guess is no. So before u confront him, I think u should calm down first for ur own sake.

Now no matter what his reason is to cheat on u, are you going to take him back or break up with him? And please really think about this, becoz I just wanna tell u that u can survive without him, and the baby can survive without him too. So if you have lost trust in him and know that it cannot be recovered, then do not stay with him for the child's sake.

I am here for you if u need more help and sweetie, not all men cheat, so maybe u will find a nicer, better guy in the near future
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MeganMcD
replied on August 21st, 2003
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No matter what he should not have cheated on you even if you were not pregnant but what's done is done now and you and your boyfriend can't change that. I understand why you feel so badly but keep in mind you have to live a life that is best for you and your baby. Eat well and maybe even talk with a professional (doctor or therepist). I am sure you want what is best for you and your baby. Don't make an emotional descision make a rational descision on what is best for you and your baby. If your boyfriend does not love you or acts like he dosen't he isn't worth crying over. Trust is the foundation to any relationship. If you truly still want to work things out with him after what he did, talk this out and if he tries to gain your trust back then good luck. Stress isn't what you need right now but it has arrived in full forse. Try to relax. Concentrate on the future and your physical and mental health. I wish you all the best! Take care of yourself hun! Wink
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HongKongChick
replied on August 21st, 2003
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meganmcd wrote:
trust is the foundation to any relationship. If you truly still want to work things out with him after what he did, talk this out and if he tries to gain your trust back then good luck. Stress isn't what you need right now but it has arrived in full forse. Try to relax. Concentrate on the future and your physical and mental health. I wish you all the best! Take care of yourself hun! Wink


trust really is the base!

And I totally agree with megan... If he wants to work things out with you, do give him a chance, with before he can actually show u some actions, do not just let his sweet talk soften u.

Best of luck
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always_late
replied on August 25th, 2003
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You can do so much better. What 1 wont do 10 more will. Think about your baby. I know you wouldnt want anything to happen to the most important thing in your life would you?
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lego
replied on March 2nd, 2009
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Bad pregnancy!
My girlfriend is 6 months pregnant.she has two girls,one of which is only going a year old in a few days.We found out we are having a boy but she says she has never felt so bad as she does now.Have u any tips on any type of vitamins etc. she could take that could help her through..
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