This is a on going question with me (but I
know what I am going to do). This is a
poll for cheaters, if you know for sure
that your spouse or boy/girl friend was
cheating and lying to you. Would you take
them back. Be truthful and use the point
in your life you are at right now. (kids,
just married, long term relationship, and
etc.) I am just curious about other
peoples feelings on this.
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izzysue
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2007 Posts: 21 Location: Long Island, N.Y US
Posted: 08-18-07 02:34am
Well no.
Because the trust would be gone and
without trust there's know relationship.
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Willa Weintraub
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Joined: 05 Mar 2007 Posts: 3399 Location: The Beach!
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Posted: 08-20-07 10:19am
I have before. after I went through all
that, I woudl have to say no. I would
never take them back again. If someone
truly loves you, they don't cheat.
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change is good
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2007 Posts: 112 Location: Mesa AZ.,
Posted: 08-20-07 11:42am
i have taken my wife back. we are working
on the trust issues. things are going good
so far. i think it is much easier for the
cheater to forget than it is for the one
cheated on. but that is true with
everything. the guilty are ready to move
on when the victim has a hard time
forgetting and forgiving and for letting
go. by no means am i a saint. i'm no
cheater. i have done other wrong things
and this is why i can speak from both
sides of the coin.
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DPantelones
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
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Re: Cheating Posted: 08-22-07 15:57pm
Stugling
wrote:
This is a on going question
with me (but I know what I am going to
do). This is a poll for cheaters, if you
know for sure that your spouse or boy/girl
friend was cheating and lying to you.
Would you take them back. Be truthful and
use the point in your life you are at
right now. (kids, just married, long term
relationship, and etc.) I am just curious
about other peoples feelings on
this.
I have 2 small children, found out my wife
of 12 years cheated and I moved out soon
after confirming it. Never hesitated, I
knew I could never trust her again (she
lied about the affair, promised it was
over once she couldn't lie about it
anymore, then lied when busted
again)....without trust, for me anyway,
there can be no relationship....I would
never lower myself to that.
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Painfulcard
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2007 Posts: 3 Location: California
Posted: 08-25-07 17:03pm
i might take her back. This would depend
on if she loved him more then me. If she
apologized she can be forgiven.
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