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Posted: 10-26-06 14:34pm
ayamiyaki
wrote:
well, men will be men. I
have zero tolerance for *anyone* who
cheats, and personally would never take my
man back if he ever did it. And .I've
been with him over eight years.
But I have so little respect for any woman
who *knowingly* gets into bed with a man
who just split with his wife and is
blowing off time with his kids to get
laid.
Great place to visit, but I wouldn't want
to live
there.
why would you not respect someone who has
a right to love just like you, wouldn't
that make you abit hypocritical, not
trying to be rude, if my mil didnt do that
my kids wouldnt be alive/born.
I'm sorry but everyone has a right to love
or leave a relationship without all the
name calling, especially when there is
kids involved who do you think your kids
will turn to when you turn them down?
The girlfriend in this case isnt to blame
as your ex is allowing it but why should
she be civil when you guys arent together
sorry not trying to be rude
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 10-26-06 14:35pm
ayamiyaki
wrote:
well, men will be men. I
have zero tolerance for *anyone* who
cheats, and personally would never take my
man back if he ever did it. And .I've
been with him over eight years.
But I have so little respect for any woman
who *knowingly* gets into bed with a man
who just split with his wife and is
blowing off time with his kids to get
laid.
New .Orleans *is* bad though! You have
to be super careful out there. People
will walk right up to your car at a red
light and jack you! I'd have a knife
handy too if I lived there.
Great place to visit, but I wouldn't want
to live
there.
yay thanks guys! Lol my friend wanted to
take me into new orleans when I got there
but damn,i do't wanna go! There gonna
have to take me kickin' n' screamin'! Ima
be all paranoid, especially if I smoke. .
.Damn,nope I ain't doin it. . . .
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 10-26-06 14:36pm
I wonder if he has even told her all the
details....He may not have.
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Becky
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Posted: 10-26-06 14:43pm
He told me he has told his mum that he has
a new girlfriend so when she rang this
morning I mentioned it- his mum went
balistic! Turns out she didn't know at
all
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-26-06 14:56pm
diamondsz
wrote:
ayamiyaki
wrote:
well, men will be men. I
have zero tolerance for *anyone* who
cheats, and personally would never take my
man back if he ever did it. And .I've
been with him over eight years.
But I have so little respect for any woman
who *knowingly* gets into bed with a man
who just split with his wife and is
blowing off time with his kids to get
laid.
Great place to visit, but I wouldn't want
to live
there.
why would you not respect someone who has
a right to love just like you, wouldn't
that make you abit hypocritical, not
trying to be rude, if my mil didnt do that
my kids wouldnt be alive/born.
I'm sorry but everyone has a right to love
or leave a relationship without all the
name calling, especially when there is
kids involved who do you think your kids
will turn to when you turn them down?
The girlfriend in this case isnt to blame
as your ex is allowing it but why should
she be civil when you guys arent together
sorry not trying to be
rude
i didn't take offense to that but I will answer
your question.
If a woman knows that the dude she's
messing with .J.U.S.T stepped out of a
committed relationship that produced
children, the classy thing to do (in my
opinion) would be to wait until he's sure
he's done before sleeping with him. I'm
of the opinion that you shouldn't start
something new until you've finished with
what you already have. And the guy
bounced back and forth between the two of
them. Even if she didn't know .T.H.A.T,
she surely should at least assume that
just because he's been out of the house
for a week or two doesn't mean he's 100%
sure of his "single" status.
It all comes down to morals. I don't
think it makes me a hypocrite, because I
have never done anything like that. I
don't agree with cheating, I don't sleep
with people I barely know, and I value a
happy home much more than a one-night
stand. And by happy home, I don't mean
two people staying together who don't love
each other. I mean, having a father
around who isn't too busy screwing his new
girlfriend to see his children. Even if
he's living somewhere else, he can be a
productive father, and that makes a happy
home.
If another woman chooses to do such
things, fine. But I will not have respect
for her, because I don't think she's
respecting herself, her "mate", or her
"mate"'s rocky family situation.
It might not be nice, but hey. That's how
my mind works. I don't respect either one
of them. Unless the girlfriend is 100% in
the dark about .Neil recently leaving his
wife (who just lost a child) and two small
children. I still think it's a bit s|utty
to sleep around with people you don't know
well, but whatever.
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arcadia
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Posted: 10-26-06 15:52pm
Plus they are still technically married.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 10-26-06 16:08pm
melissa_20
wrote:
ayamiyaki
wrote:
well, men will be men. I
have zero tolerance for *anyone* who
cheats, and personally would never take my
man back if he ever did it. And .I've
been with him over eight years.
But I have so little respect for any woman
who *knowingly* gets into bed with a man
who just split with his wife and is
blowing off time with his kids to get
laid.
New .Orleans *is* bad though! You have
to be super careful out there. People
will walk right up to your car at a red
light and jack you! I'd have a knife
handy too if I lived there.
Great place to visit, but I wouldn't want
to live
there.
yay thanks guys! Lol my friend wanted
to take me into new orleans when I got
there but damn,i do't wanna go! There
gonna have to take me kickin' n'
screamin'! Ima be all paranoid,
especially if I smoke. . .Damn,nope
I ain't doin it. . .
.
girl, don't make me hurt you!!!
Ahhahahhaa...It'll be great!!! I
promise!!!!!
You're friend will be *mad* if you pull
out!!! Lmao! You sooo silly!!!!
Sarah
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 10-26-06 16:15pm
I agree with laura.
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Sail Away
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Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Posts: 1170 Location: Missouri
Posted: 10-26-06 17:22pm
ayamiyaki
wrote:
diamondsz
wrote:
ayamiyaki
wrote:
well, men will be men. I
have zero tolerance for *anyone* who
cheats, and personally would never take my
man back if he ever did it. And .I've
been with him over eight years.
But I have so little respect for any woman
who *knowingly* gets into bed with a man
who just split with his wife and is
blowing off time with his kids to get
laid.
Great place to visit, but I wouldn't want
to live
there.
why would you not respect someone who has
a right to love just like you, wouldn't
that make you abit hypocritical, not
trying to be rude, if my mil didnt do that
my kids wouldnt be alive/born.
I'm sorry but everyone has a right to love
or leave a relationship without all the
name calling, especially when there is
kids involved who do you think your kids
will turn to when you turn them down?
The girlfriend in this case isnt to blame
as your ex is allowing it but why should
she be civil when you guys arent together
sorry not trying to be
rude
i didn't take offense to that but I will answer
your question.
If a woman knows that the dude she's
messing with .J.U.S.T stepped out of a
committed relationship that produced
children, the classy thing to do (in my
opinion) would be to wait until he's sure
he's done before sleeping with him. I'm
of the opinion that you shouldn't start
something new until you've finished with
what you already have. And the guy
bounced back and forth between the two of
them. Even if she didn't know .T.H.A.T,
she surely should at least assume that
just because he's been out of the house
for a week or two doesn't mean he's 100%
sure of his "single" status.
It all comes down to morals. I don't
think it makes me a hypocrite, because I
have never done anything like that. I
don't agree with cheating, I don't sleep
with people I barely know, and I value a
happy home much more than a one-night
stand. And by happy home, I don't mean
two people staying together who don't love
each other. I mean, having a father
around who isn't too busy screwing his new
girlfriend to see his children. Even if
he's living somewhere else, he can be a
productive father, and that makes a happy
home.
If another woman chooses to do such
things, fine. But I will not have
respect for her, because I don't think
she's respecting herself, her "mate", or
her "mate"'s rocky family situation.
It might not be nice, but hey. That's
how my mind works. I don't respect
either one of them. Unless the
girlfriend is 100% in the dark about .Neil
recently leaving his wife (who just lost a
child) and two small children. I still
think it's a bit s|utty to sleep around
with people you don't know well, but
whatever.
i agree with you all the way girl!
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Becky
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Posted: 10-26-06 17:58pm
I know that I wouldn't go with a married
man- even if he'd be seperated a year! If
he was still married then I wouldn't go
there. Especially when theres kids
involved.
I was dying to text him today cause the
kids where playing up and logan was up
most the night but I didn't do it and i'm
so glad I had the will power not to!
I was deliberating whether to go back to
college or not but i've decided not to.
Layla's routine has been messed up since
we came back from holiday. Its midnight
over here and she's tooked up in a blankey
on the chair watching playhouse disney. I
think its going to go off air in a few
mins
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diamondsz
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Posted: 10-26-06 18:31pm
ayamiyaki
wrote:
diamondsz
wrote:
ayamiyaki
wrote:
well, men will be men. I
have zero tolerance for *anyone* who
cheats, and personally would never take my
man back if he ever did it. And .I've
been with him over eight years.
But I have so little respect for any woman
who *knowingly* gets into bed with a man
who just split with his wife and is
blowing off time with his kids to get
laid.
Great place to visit, but I wouldn't want
to live
there.
why would you not respect someone who has
a right to love just like you, wouldn't
that make you abit hypocritical, not
trying to be rude, if my mil didnt do that
my kids wouldnt be alive/born.
I'm sorry but everyone has a right to love
or leave a relationship without all the
name calling, especially when there is
kids involved who do you think your kids
will turn to when you turn them down?
The girlfriend in this case isnt to blame
as your ex is allowing it but why should
she be civil when you guys arent together
sorry not trying to be
rude
i didn't take offense to that but I will answer
your question.
If a woman knows that the dude she's
messing with .J.U.S.T stepped out of a
committed relationship that produced
children, the classy thing to do (in my
opinion) would be to wait until he's sure
he's done before sleeping with him. I'm
of the opinion that you shouldn't start
something new until you've finished with
what you already have. And the guy
bounced back and forth between the two of
them. Even if she didn't know .T.H.A.T,
she surely should at least assume that
just because he's been out of the house
for a week or two doesn't mean he's 100%
sure of his "single" status.
It all comes down to morals. I don't
think it makes me a hypocrite, because I
have never done anything like that. I
don't agree with cheating, I don't sleep
with people I barely know, and I value a
happy home much more than a one-night
stand. And by happy home, I don't mean
two people staying together who don't love
each other. I mean, having a father
around who isn't too busy screwing his new
girlfriend to see his children. Even if
he's living somewhere else, he can be a
productive father, and that makes a happy
home.
If another woman chooses to do such
things, fine. But I will not have
respect for her, because I don't think
she's respecting herself, her "mate", or
her "mate"'s rocky family situation.
It might not be nice, but hey. That's
how my mind works. I don't respect
either one of them. Unless the
girlfriend is 100% in the dark about .Neil
recently leaving his wife (who just lost a
child) and two small children. I still
think it's a bit s|utty to sleep around
with people you don't know well, but
whatever.
aya thanks for the explanation! I think
you may have cleared a few things up!
I dont agree on cheating but spereation
down here is divorce basically if you live
outside away from your husband besides
working duties(for 60+days) you are
considered seperated/divorced.
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candita_sky
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Posted: 10-27-06 11:32am
Beckster next time you feel the need to
talk or text him just come on here to chat
with us. It might help. Keep strong
girl.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 10-27-06 11:35am
What did .Neil's mom do once she found out
he had a girlfriend? He's living with
her, right?
I hope she tore him a new one.
serves him right for lying!
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Becky
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Posted: 10-27-06 11:59am
ayamiyaki
wrote:
what did .Neil's mom do once
she found out he had a girlfriend? He's
living with her, right?
I hope she tore him a new one.
serves him right for
lying!
I don't know cause he's been staying at
his friends house the last few days and
he's going out clubbing tonight so who
knows?
He hasn't bothered to text me to ask how
the ids are and he hasn't had them for a
week. That really upsets me.
I will come on here when I feel the urge
to text him and you can persuade me not
to! Lol
but I will answer
your question.
serves him right for lying!