Problems With Premature Ejeculation Again Posted: 10-27-06 11:44am
Hello guys, long time ago I posted here
that I was having problems with my wife
because of pe problems. I was
ejaculating 1-2 mins after intercourse.
After doing researches online and buying
books about pe I learned that everything
was mentally. I started practicing and
talking to my wife about how I felt about
the situation and her not helping me.
After all the talk we had I felt relaxed
and confident that she was going to help
me. Guest what? It worked, I started to
last 10-20 mins intercourse and with a
very hard erection, I noticed I wasn't
anxioust nor worry about ejaculating
quick. She was very happy and we where
making love very often, I was the happiest
man on earth. Until one day we lasted two
weeks without having sex and when we did I
lost control again. She got really upset
and started acting the same way she did
when I was having the problem.
Now i'm in the same place where I started,
i'm feeling afraid to ejeculate early and
frustrated that she will get mad if I do.
I don't know what to do, I love my wife
as I started before, but this situation is
driving me crazy.
She doesn't want to make love with me, and
we are lasting weeks without trying. I've
been asking her to try to help me again so
we can both enjoy it as we did not long
ago. But her answer is that I should put
my self in her possition and that i'm not
pleasing her. Those things she's telling
me are getting into my head and is making
my problem worse.
I know if she put her part and understand
me I can relax and last longer but is hard
with her.