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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003 Posts: 145 Location: Hmm
Posted: 08-21-03 20:53pm
I'm sorry to hear about whats happened but
there's no way of finding out for sure
unless you do an amnio and get a dna test
done. I'm sure your boyfriend would be
supportive and loving if you told him the
circumstances under which you might have
conceived.
Hope all goes well
tanya*xo
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-21-03 21:13pm
I also think like tanya, I mean unless
when the baby is born and u did a dna
test, but if u waited so long to tell him,
he might think u are lying.
So I think it's best if u told him
now...Asap!
I am sure what happened is not ur fault,
and if he loves u enough, he will
understand.
And honey, alone in mexico? No parties
for any girl! It's dangerous out there!
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kiran99
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Aug 2003 Posts: 1 Location: canada
Posted: 08-22-03 10:11am
Hi there...Well, if you say you are
reguler and your periods always come on
the 5th of the month, then I would say the
20th would have been right at your
ovulation point. I do not know for sure
of course. See, usually a person with a
regular cycle ovulates right in the middle
of cycle...Between 14 and18 days from the
first day of your last period. But, I
still think you should tell
him..Eventually it will come out somehow
anyway...And better to be honest from the
start and hopefully get support than to
suffer alone in silence and worry about it
throughout the pregnancy, right? God
bless you and I am so sorry for what you
went through.
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babe03
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 13 Location: Wisconsin
There Is Somthing You Can Do About It. Posted: 09-07-03 00:09am
I for got what it was called but my aunt
mary had got it done she was sleeping with
all types of males until one day she got
pregnant she went to the doctor told them
what happened. They sent her to another
hospital and made her wait until she was
15 or past 15 weeks then stuck a needle
through her stomach and got a dna sample
from the baby. She found out who the
father was she didn't like who here father
was put the baby up for adoption. But if
want I can call here up and ask her what
she did to get an early dna sample of the
baby while still in the womb just give me
an e-mail I can probley find out. But now
you know there is a possible way to find
out before the baby is born.
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Tanya
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003 Posts: 145 Location: Hmm
Its Called An Amniocentesis Posted: 09-07-03 10:59am
An amniocentesis is where they put the
needle through your stomach and take out
some amniotic fluid from the sac. However
this is painful, and there are some risks
involved.
Tanya*
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DELALUZHERNANDEZ
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Aug 2003 Posts: 2
Re: None Posted: 09-08-03 22:46pm
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sazz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 23
Posted: 09-09-03 21:09pm
It would be better to find out and tell
the father, so the two of you can sit down
and sort out what you plan to do for this
little helpless being. Me personally I
dont suggest and abortion because of what
it does to you emotionally to know what
you have done, but if that is the best way
for you to sort out this problem. Is the
guy who inpregnated you, your boyfriend or
some one that would be willing to suport
you and your baby?? Before you make any
decisions talk to him!!
God luck & god bless
