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Lildreamer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003
Posts: 144
Location: CALI
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Did I Lose My Baby???
Posted: 01-28-04 23:29pm
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I dont know whats going on?? On monday I
felt really bad in class. I was having
the worst pains in my uterus. They were
so bad the pain had me bending over. I
went to pee and it was normal. Then the
pain started to act up again. I tried to
go to a teacher for help so I can call
omar to pick me up and take me to the
hospital. I called omar's mom to pick me
up after school. Then for 30 minutes I
kept getting real bad pains. I had to
pee so I went to pee and all of a sudden
there was blood in the toliet and it
appeared clotty on the tissue paper. I
was so scared. The pain was
unbelievable!!! A friend told me maybe I
lost my pregnancy. How could this have
happened?? I did everything right! I
felt exactly the way I was suppose to
feel! I had sharp cramps now and then
but my friend told me it was normal. I
dont know what happened! Was this a
miscarriage or just a period? Im still
bleeding heavy but I dont have pains like
on monday. Those pains were so
intense!!! Now I have sharp cramps a
bit, but nothing like when I started to
bleed. I couldnt go to the hospital
becuase my mother started to suspect my
pain I was in. I tried to calm myself
but I could'nt. I really want to go to
the hospital but now omar feels like I
should just relax and let it run its
course. He doesnt understand I need(in
caps) to go!! I need to know what
happened. If theres anything wrong?
Plezz someone tell me what happened. Im
so scared!!!! Thank you to everyone for
supporting me through this. I just cant
believe whats happening!!!!
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 383
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Posted: 01-28-04 23:36pm
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Sweetie it sounds like a miscarriage, go
to a doctor or the er its the only way to
know for sure, and I am truely sorry if
you lost your baby! 
kel
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Lildreamer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003
Posts: 144
Location: CALI
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Untimely Blessings.....
Posted: 01-28-04 23:44pm
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Do you really think so???? I feel so
bad....I dont know if its something I did
wrong. I cant explain how I feel. Thank
you for the reply! Much love to you!
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ERICA1121
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004
Posts: 252
Location: DETROIT
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Posted: 01-29-04 00:56am
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Dont worry. If it is a miscarriage it's
not your fault. It just wasn't meant to
be. And yes you should go to the doctor
asap. When heavy bleeding occurs during
pregnancy it's not something to ignore.
Btw, how far along are you?? Good luck
and best wishes. Kit. ~ erica.
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youngmomtobe
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Oct 2003
Posts: 728
Location: Illinois
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Posted: 01-29-04 09:28am
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Hey hun it could be a miscarriage..L..But
jess thaught she had one too and had the
same symptoms but shes still preggy!!!!
Sooo go to a doc and find out for sure
okay?? Hang in there hun were all here
for u!! Love u!!!
Jen &
river
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 01-29-04 10:44am
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-05-04 10:49am; edited 1 time in total
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 01-29-04 12:05pm
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Dont listen to omar and get to the doctor!
Listen to yourself not someone who knows
nothing about womens problems!
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shannonwatts
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Dec 2003
Posts: 46
Location: charlotte, nc
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Lildreamer
Posted: 01-29-04 12:29pm
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Hey girl- it sounds like it could be a
miscarriage. I had one a few years back.
It's normal to spot during pregnancy, it's
when you bleed heavy and there's tissue
that comes out. Please go to the er.
Call the hospital and talk with one of the
nurses. Tell her what happened. She'll
most likley recommend you go to the
hospital or see your doctor. Don't wait
any longer, go to the doctors asap!!!
Don't worry this is not at all your fault.
It just wasn't meant to be.
I'll be thinking of you
-shannon
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babyrae
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Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 01-29-04 13:19pm
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Hey girl
it sounds like it might be a
miscarriage... But don't ignore the
pain.. If it gets bad or if u are
bleeding, u should go to the hospital..
They're there to help u. And no its not
ur fault for the miscarriage. Sometimes
there's fertility problems at
fertilization and theres nothing u can do
to stop it.. But its not ur fault and if
u tried everything u could then defiently
dont blame this on yourself. When I had
mine, I tried to ignore the pain and not
go to the hospital but it can get real bad
and the hospital takes very good care of
you. So plz if it still presists or if u
are bleeding, see a doctor and hun, i'm
sorry if u lost ur baby  i'll be thinking of
u.
Shauna
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 01-29-04 14:17pm
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Where is she?? Come to us and let us
know!!
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 01-29-04 16:06pm
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That exact thing happened to me when I had
a miscarriage. I couldn't even stand up
but after a day the pain went away and I
kept on bleeding like normal. You can get
an infection if you have a miscarriage and
dont be seen by a doctor. So you should
really go asap. Also remember that
pregnancy test can come up positive for up
to 6 weeks after a miscarriage, just
something to keep in mind. I'm so sorry.
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Lildreamer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003
Posts: 144
Location: CALI
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Im Here!!!
Posted: 01-29-04 20:01pm
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Well today the bleeding is normal......It
slightly is getting light. I can't
believe this!! I don't know what went
wrong! The pain subsided except for a few
cramps which I guess is normal. Oh god it
would take a miracle that I can still be
preggy. I know that sounded wrong but my
baby was taken from me. What if I went to
the hospital right away after I started
bleeding? Uh......What could I have done?
I promise i'll go to the doctor....I need
to but im so scared. The more I wait the
more scared i'll be! I just don't want to
hear them say......I lost my baby.....Oh
god I dont want to hear that!! Thank you
gurls for supporting me.....Love you
gurls!
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 01-29-04 20:05pm
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Sweetie,u do need 2 visit the doc if ur
not feeling right-i understand ur worried
about what they might say but 2 b on the
safe side ur better off knowing.
Best wishes
liz x
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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 01-29-04 21:48pm
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U really need to go right now! And I mean
right now! Keep us posted..
Jordan
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 6623
Location: Louisiana
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Heyq
Posted: 01-29-04 22:51pm
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Go to the doc sweetie! You need to! If
you lost the baby you may need to be
cleaned out so you don't get gangreen....
Please keep me posted!
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KariM18
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Joined: 13 Jan 2004
Posts: 1436
Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 01-29-04 23:06pm
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Hey hun.. Im really sorry.. But if u
had a miscarriage, its not ur fault. .It
just means it wasnt your time to be
pregnant,. . . How old r u? And
how far along were u ? Also.. I agree.
. U need to go to the doc so they can
clean u out if u had one.. Thats very
important.
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Lildreamer
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Sep 2003
Posts: 144
Location: CALI
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Posted: 01-30-04 15:06pm
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Im 17 years old and I would have been 6
almost 7 weeks pregnant! My due date was
september 17, 2004. My birthday is july
6th and I would be 18 years old when I
give birth. Thank you everyone for
replying to my post and for your help.
I'll keep everyone posted!
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