Listen to My Weird Situation, Then Please Give Me Advice!!! Posted: 11-01-06 01:13am
Is it me or is it him? I can't figure it
out. I've been dating this guy for about
three months now but actually we were
having sex for about six (i guess you
could say that before we started dating we
were friends "with benefits"). Anyway,
i'm one of those rare women who can get
off practically every time and easily
(hooray for me). But I cannot get my
boyfriend off and I don't know what to do
about it.
The whole six months we've had sex
he's gotten off maybe six times. Don't
get me wrong, I play a pretty active role
in bed; I don't just lay there and take it
and he is amazing. It really bothers me,
but when I asked about when he
masturbates, he says it's hard for him to
get off doing that as well. He says he's
always been that way and I find it
annoying. He keeps telling me that I
have to "find out" ways to get him off
and, really, by now, i'm stumped.
I think his whole problem may be due
to the fact that he smokes weed on an
almost daily basis (can I mention drugs on
this post board?) and has a poor diet,
except when I cook for him or bring food
to his house, but that's not very often.
We have sex every time I stay over at his
house and then again in the morning, but
like I said, his not getting off is
upsetting me. Any advice, tips or
tricks? Thanks.
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 11-01-06 06:44am
Can he get himself off?
If he masturbates alone can he
finish/cum?
I've been with my fella for just over 5
years now, and in that time he had only
cum once when I was the one doing the
work.
It's nothing personal just that he spent
all his life before me doing it to himself
and knows exactly how to "hit the spot".
Until a couple days ago i've always been
happy to give head (so long as it is
clean).
Things happened as normal so I got to
asking him what he was thinking.
We went through a few things then did the
is this nice? Do you like this? Routine
(i'll point out i've been really turned on
for 2 weeks and can't do anything about it
so this for me was an "alternative
penetration")
finally figured out why it wasn't
happening, told him what to think (not as
bad as it sounds) and to moan or mumur if
he liked what I was doing.
Hey presto I got him off by giving head -
and completely suprised him lol.
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maralovesyou
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2006 Posts: 15 Location: tallahassee, florida
Same Problem Posted: 11-01-06 18:17pm
My boyfriend couldnt get off for the first
few months we started sleeping together,
finally I just asked him...What is going
to get you off...And I didnt quit till he
got off...So maybe ask him, and I found
that sex in the morning it is easier to
make him go and go quicker....
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Honekaur
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 May 2006 Posts: 55
Thanks For the Advice... Posted: 11-03-06 00:32am
My boyfriend says that he has a hard time
getting off when he masturbates a lot of
the time. Also, he said that he has
never gotten off when a girl went down on
him (believe me, i've tried!). I'm
really starting to think that it is just
the fact that he doesn't take very good
care of his body. He always wants to
have sex in the morning and that drives me
nuts because I hate it, but he says
there's a better chance that he'll get off
then. Well, he did like once. I hardly
ever get off in the morning!!!
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i've always been
happy to give head (so long as it is
clean).
