Hi everyone,
I have a doctor that I have been going to
for the past 8 months... He started out
really nice, and then he turned into this
big flirt. At the very 1st visit he had
to say something that was sexual
undertoned... Or playful and he always
had a comment about how'good" I looked.
He schedules me for appointments I really
dont need. (i have an hmo insurance so
he isn't making extra money)
the last time I saw him he talked about
hanging out with me and I asked him if he
thought hanging out with your patients was
unethical. Thats when he changed on me.
He became short with me and he was not
all too friendly any longer.
Still and yet he rescheduled me for a
follow up and nothing was really wrong
with me. I started to feel like he was
intentionally playing with my mind, he is
50 im in my 20s.... So I called him up
and told him that I wantd to switch dr's.
He sounded a bit irritated, and then I
told him that I had developed a crush on
him because of the attention and all of
the time he would give me. I could have
kept on going to the visits but I knew it
was wrong and that he was married and I
felt drained because of the stress it put
on my life. I see why doctors are not
allowd to date patients...
He told that he wanted to thank me for
my honesty and that he thought that I had
made the right decision but why do I fel
so empty? I knew that if I didn't stop
it, he sure wasn't going to stop it, and I
would still be going to appointments every
3 weeks still... I couldn't do it any
longer... Did I make a mistake????
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Makoto
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jul 2006 Posts: 263 Location: Japan
Posted: 11-03-06 06:10am
I am not clear here.
Did you really have a crush on him?? Or
did you just say that??
What kind of remarks did he make, if you
could give more specifics?
Lastly, when you asked, did you make a
mistake, to what are you referring to?
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yblusky
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Oct 2006 Posts: 4
Posted: 11-17-06 02:01am
Leave the doctor alone, he is married, so
lets keep him married not divorced, not
dating(you), just married and happy to his
fmaily. You need to get your head out of
it and find someone avaliable there are
plenty of guys out there you re jsut not
looking hard enough. Be careful dont
start a relationship unless you re ready
to commit. And if you re but the other
person isnt then back off till he is.
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