Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 38 Location: California
Anal Sex? Why Do Guys Want It? Posted: 11-05-06 01:58am
My boyfriend alway trys to have anal sex
with me everytime we have sex. I have no
clue why he wants it. I think that it is
really gross. (but thats my opinion) I
guess I could understand a guy wanting it
if the girls vagina was "loose" but im
not! Im actually really tight. He even
says so.
So what is it with guys and wanting to
have anal sex?
Can it hurt the girl? Does it mess up
your system?(like going to the bathroom?)
does it hurt? Why do guys want to do it
so damn bad?
Please. Any answers are appreciated.
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Kwaides2000
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2006 Posts: 10 Location: North Idaho
Men Are Weird Posted: 11-05-06 04:39am
I'm not real sure my husband likes it to.
I found it can be very intimate. He must
be very slow, lubbed. You may discover
you feel like yoou need to have a bm soon.
If thats the case it may be uncomfortable
until things are moved around. Many women
aren't loose its just a weird fetish many
men have. My husband which is 11 years
older had never done it or thought about
it untill we did it. Hes 37 i'm 26. My
prob the past few years has been him
messing with his own backside. I know
they have a g spot there or what not...
But we expecting #4 now and only will do
it alone. It makes me mad ands I say mean
things because it upsets me so much. I
don't care for it much and the various
things he uses. Never seems to be his
stuff and doesn't clean the item up after
himself. is this normal?
Sad nevada girl
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Honekaur
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 May 2006 Posts: 56
Posted: 11-06-06 16:31pm
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex too
but I haven't let him yet! He's always
sticking his fingers in my butt when we're
having sex, so one night I got mad and did
the same thing back to him! Boy was he
surprised!
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casidee
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2006 Posts: 16 Location: cardiff
Posted: 11-16-06 10:57am
I thinks its a man thing! They seem to
love it for some reason! First time I did
it it was painful now its okay... I dont
like it much and wouldnt do it out of
choice I only do it if the man really
wants it.... Take a tip tho... It can be
very messy and smelly.. Quite gross
really..... If you know your man is
going to want it that way .... Make sure
you have a good poo first so that you
anus is empty! Althogh it dosnt seem to
bother the man ... The stink is really
off putting!
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tex789
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Oct 2006 Posts: 29
Posted: 11-16-06 19:55pm
I've never had any desire for anal. Yes
i'm a guy.
Anal and huge breasts are just a turn off
to me.
I must be wierd.
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effertroy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2006 Posts: 6 Location: Auckland
Stick It Up Your Bum Posted: 11-29-06 22:28pm
People are of course free to do whatever
they agree to.
But i've never understood why a guy would
force his most sensitive parts into an
arsehole, with all the health risks that
implies, when just a couple of
centimetres away there is a beautiful
fresh moist warm enticing vagina just
waiting to be pleased into a shared
orgasm.
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