Premature Ejaculation And Sterility Posted: 11-05-06 16:06pm
Sexual health - men<br />
about my sex life....
1) I lost my varginity at the age of 17+,
uptill now I never even touched any girl
with the intention of sex, I am very loyal
towards my girlfriend(age 20),with whom I
will marry.
We usually have sex once or twice in a
week, and its been almost more than a year
that we both are enjoying like this...
2) I normally start with kissing,biting
nipples,some finger playing, but the
moment I insert my manhood into the doors
of heaven, my penis starts prompting me
like I will discharge. I find myself
unable to start slowly or gently,and I
stroke very fast. After 15-20 fast
strokes(10-15seconds) I discharge, which
makes my partner feel low.
3) now I found a solution for this, the
solution is, after discharging or
ejacuation, I start doing it once again
within a span of time or even sometimes I
continue stroking,which makes my partner
feel good.
Obviously my manhood gets very loose and
decreases its size, "but just for the sake
to make my girlfriend feel complete &
I am the best man for her", I somehow
manage to continue with my strokes,and
then I ejecuate once again(after
4-5minutes), which is again too early.
But I dont think so that this should be a
solution for our whole life?????
Now after adapting this step, I think so
that I satisfy my girlfriend, but I
sometimes I feel that she needs more but
by that time I am exhausted, (she told me
this when we were having some
discussion.)
most important thing....
4) my manhood is curved towards the left
side, its size is 6inches+,
i mean my manhood is not perfectly
straight like a pole, it is twisted
towards my leftside, which makes me feel
low. I dont think that my girlfriend ever
notice that, but I want to know "is it the
reason why I ejacuate so fast or early."
5) I never use condom nor I ever
used...(it was once or twice), but its
been more than an year that I am having
sex with my girlfriend without using
condom or any other precaution, and uptill
now I have never come to know that my
girlfriend is pregnant,
we both share a very good understanding
& I know that she can never
hide/escape anything from me,
i know that she is also not using any
precaution, eg. Cakes...
Now the situation is, we both are least
bothered about any precaution,as we both
are doing this for an year and uptill now
there is no negative results,
but I want to know that why uptill now she
is never been pregnant,
which prooves "either she is impotent or I
am lacking somewhere."
please advise me how to increase my
ejacuation level?
How to make my girlfriend feel complete?
What is the state of my penis?
Why she havent been pregnent?
Am I poor to have a twisted penis?
Please do advise me, as I love my
girlfrien very much & I dont want to
loose her just because of the reason that
I cannot be a father in
future????<br>
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Sexual Health - Men Answer A1817 Posted: 01-08-07 04:21am
According to the description of your sex
life it seems that you have 2 problems:
1. Premature ejaculation (ejaculation
praecox). You ejaculate only 10-15 seconds
after inserting your penis in the vagina
of your partner which is not enough to
satisfy her. Fortunately, your erection is
still strong enough after the ejaculation,
so you can continue penetration until she
reaches orgasm. Premature ejaculation is a
functional sexual disorder, not organic
(structural), so curved penis is not a
reason for it. Inexperience and anxiety
are considered possible reasons for
premature ejaculation. You can try to slow
down stroking or to use a condom to avoid
premature ejaculation.
2. Sterility. If you both are not using
any kind of protection (condom, IUD,
contraceptive pills, diaphragm…), you
ejaculate inside her, are having sex
regularly and trying to conceive for more
than a year without success... then it
seems possible that you are suffering from
sterility. But first I have to tell you
that having sex once or twice in a week
could not be enough to conceive. It is
very important to have sex during the
fertile days of your partner's cycle. The
fertile days are 2 days before and after
ovulation (ovulation happens about 14 days
before her next period is due to start).
You should speak with your girlfriend to
make sure that she is not using any kind
of contraception and to try have sex every
day, if possible. Than she might be
sexually satisfied and maybe get pregnant.
If this doesn’t help you can ask help
from an urologist and your girlfriend may
need to visit a gynecologist.
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