Why Do So Many Girls Love Guys Who Treat Them Bad Posted: 11-06-06 13:37pm
I have just joined this forum, and have
read a few posts and am feeling a little
relieved to know I am not the only person
in this situation.
My boyfriend is not treating me very well,
he shows no respect for me, says we are
broken up and then when convenient will
want to spend time with me. I love him
so much (will I think I do) and so I
always give into what he says.
I know he does not care about me, our
relationship has no future, but I dont
want to go thru the depression of losing
him.
Why do so many girl love guys who treat
them bad?
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Melissa_20
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Re: Why Do So Many Girls Love Guys Who Treat Them Bad Posted: 11-29-06 14:39pm
rach7676
wrote:
i have just joined this
forum, and have read a few posts and am
feeling a little relieved to know I am not
the only person in this situation.
My boyfriend is not treating me very well,
he shows no respect for me, says we are
broken up and then when convenient will
want to spend time with me. I love him
so much (will I think I do) and so I
always give into what he says.
I know he does not care about me, our
relationship has no future, but I dont
want to go thru the depression of losing
him.
Why do so many girl love guys who treat
them bad?
hun I was there. . .
You don't want to be alone.You want someoe
to love and someone to love you back and
at the moment he;s the closest thing you
have to it.You need to get out and get
away.You deserve much better than that.My
boyfriend acted like yours and he ended up
hitting me.I knew our relationship was
going no where and it was going to end
sometime,but I didn't want to be
depressed.All your doing is brushing it
off when you really need to deal with
it.When I broke up with my man I was
severly depressed for a while but
realized,hey,i feel better. . .I now met
a new guy who is a total gentlman and i'm
much happier without my ex! If you want
to talk you can pm me!
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Spirit
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Posted: 11-29-06 21:59pm
Listen to
melissa.........................She has
alot of wisdom for a young
lass.......................If he doesn't
treat you well or respect
you.................It'll only get
worse........................Get rid of
the dead
weight...................................Y
ears of experience talkin
here..................Nobody deserves to
be disrespected.....................It may
not seem like it now but, one day you'll
wake up and say, "now, why didn't I ditch
him a long time ago??"
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 11-30-06 14:58pm
spirit
wrote:
one day you'll wake up and
say, "now, why didn't I ditch him a long
time ago??"
exactly! I know because thats how I feel
now! There is so uch better out there. .
.Thank you spirit!
so spirit,you've been through this right?
If so please pm me,i have a couple of
questions to ask you deary!!!
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Spirit
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Posted: 12-09-06 08:16am
Through it, but not through it
...................If ya know what I
mean?!.....................One
hit......................I was
gone.....................Its the mental
abuse.................The more subtle
abuse...................Where your
thinkin, is it me?/whatd I
do?.................That took longer to
realize that perhaps this dude isnt the
right choice.......................Old
enough now to say "ya know
what?....................Keep the
b.S................I'd rather be alone and
happy than with someone who'll treat me
worse than the stuff they step
in??..........................Ya wanna
play games?!...................Keep
moving!!
if you act like you deserve the best, then
you will get it................I
did!!...................................An
d now that ive had a "taste" of a quality
man...........................I .Will not
go back to the duds
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