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AlliE_18
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Location: uk
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Ahhhhhhhhh
Posted: 11-08-06 04:18am
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Today sucks...Ive got to see my ex this
afternoon, im really dreading it. I feel
so nervous seeing him again...Im in a bit
of a state over it. Cant help it. I just
dunno what hes going to say, I dunno what
to say to him...I think i'll just try sit
there quietly as much as I can, and let
him do all the talking. I know we need to
discuss things about the future, but I
still dont know what I want to do for
sure...So I dont know what to tell him.
And ive got morning sickness again and a
really bad headache (probly cos im
stressing over this) which I took some
painkillers for an hour ago and they arent
working. I feel like total cr@p. My
friend nikita just took lucas for the day
which is good cos I can *try* to relax a
bit but I dont like other people having
him cos I feel like he needs his mum and
they wont look after him as well as I do,
or know what he needs, or tell me if
something bad happens like he hurts
himself etc. I trust her I just
dunno....I need to breathe 
Vent over 
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Becky
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Posted: 11-08-06 05:53am
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Lol. Its ok allie.Everyone needs to
relax from time to time. Just make the
most of it.
I know how you feel about seeing your ex.
Every time I see neil now its just
horrible- on the plus side the new guy is
taking me out to the cinema tonight :d
i hope your headache gets better- I find
those kool and soothe strips work great
for me- the migraine ones for adults
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AlliE_18
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Joined: 20 Dec 2005
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Location: uk
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Posted: 11-08-06 05:57am
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Thanks becks, I dont have any of those
cool n sooth strips. I might get some.
Your going out with him again already!
Lol have fun 
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channy-leigh
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Oct 2006
Posts: 66
Location: Australia..
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Posted: 11-08-06 06:08am
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| beckster06
wrote: | | on the plus side the new
guy is taking me out to the cinema tonight
:d |
woot woot loverssss !! Nahh lol just
joking! Have fun :d haha im in such a
"mood" tonight!
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006
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Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 11-08-06 08:49am
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Again with the pain killers????
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AlliE_18
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Location: uk
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Posted: 11-08-06 08:55am
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | again with the pain
killers???? |
hahaha I wish!! Lol im jk, no just
regular paracetamol tylenol? Which does
nothing....Codeine is better but I know
not when pregnant so I havent taken those.
Still got this headache, im sure its cos
im stressing. Got to leave in 30 mins
ugh... I dont even know why it seems
like such a big deal, just cant help it, I
dunno how hes going to be like about it
all or what he'll say. Like I dont know
what I want to do for sure but I dont want
him tp pressure me into what he wants ya
know? Hes that type of guy.
Someone come with me....
Lol
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 11-08-06 09:25am
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I'll go with you and if he gives you lip
i'll bust him one.
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AlliE_18
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Location: uk
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Posted: 11-08-06 09:38am
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Lol! Aw thanks gen
ok im off.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 11-08-06 10:17am
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Good luck allie. Don't stress too much
it's not good for you or the lil one. :d
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Melissa_20
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AlliE_18
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Location: uk
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Posted: 11-08-06 12:42pm
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Like crap to be honest. He kept saying we
should get married which I expected cos he
went on about it last time. But he
actually cried! I dont know if that was
to try make me feel sorry for him and say
yes or if he was genuinly upset cos I said
its not what I want. How can u be with
someone u dont trust anymore?! He knows I
dont trust him, but he thinks im making a
big deal out of nothing. If we dont get
married he said he'll be 'forced' to find
someone else to be with, and that he wont
have time to see our baby or help much cos
he'll be too busy with his 'real family'.
I was pissed but didnt show it. All I
really said was what do u think about
adoption? He said no one gets to have
something that belongs to him. Ugh im
seriously done with relationships. I
never want a boyfriend again and im not
getting married ever or living with a guy.
All guys are good for is sex! Thats it
im done, im fine single forever. Got my
friends and my lil boy, im good! Men just
screw u over and ruin your life. (unless
they are just friends) ive got to see him
again tomorrow at my first doctors
apt...Joy
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Sail Away
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Oct 2006
Posts: 1170
Location: Missouri
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Posted: 11-08-06 12:56pm
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| allie_18
wrote: | | like crap to be honest. He
kept saying we should get married which I
expected cos he went on about it last
time. But he actually cried! I dont
know if that was to try make me feel sorry
for him and say yes or if he was genuinly
upset cos I said its not what I want.
How can u be with someone u dont trust
anymore?! He knows I dont trust him, but
he thinks im making a big deal out of
nothing. If we dont get married he said
he'll be 'forced' to find someone else to
be with, and that he wont have time to see
our baby or help much cos he'll be too
busy with his 'real family'. I was
pissed but didnt show it. All I really
said was what do u think about adoption?
He said no one gets to have something that
belongs to him. Ugh im seriously done
with relationships. I never want a
boyfriend again and im not getting married
ever or living with a guy. All guys are
good for is sex! Thats it im done, im
fine single forever. Got my friends and
my lil boy, im good! Men just screw u
over and ruin your life. (unless they
are just friends) ive got to see him again
tomorrow at my first doctors
apt...Joy |
he sounds like a little 12 year old to be
honest, what 40 something year old man
says that type of stuff? Seriously..
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 11-08-06 13:17pm
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| dalicialovesyou
wrote: | | allie_18
wrote: | | like crap to be honest.
He kept saying we should get married which
I expected cos he went on about it last
time. But he actually cried! I dont
know if that was to try make me feel sorry
for him and say yes or if he was genuinly
upset cos I said its not what I want.
How can u be with someone u dont trust
anymore?! He knows I dont trust him,
but he thinks im making a big deal out of
nothing. If we dont get married he said
he'll be 'forced' to find someone else to
be with, and that he wont have time to see
our baby or help much cos he'll be too
busy with his 'real family'. I was
pissed but didnt show it. All I really
said was what do u think about adoption?
He said no one gets to have something
that belongs to him. Ugh im seriously
done with relationships. I never want a
boyfriend again and im not getting married
ever or living with a guy. All guys are
good for is sex! Thats it im done, im
fine single forever. Got my friends and
my lil boy, im good! Men just screw u
over and ruin your life. (unless they
are just friends) ive got to see him again
tomorrow at my first doctors
apt...Joy |
he sounds like a little 12 year old to be
honest, what 40 something year old man
says that type of stuff?
Seriously.. |
thats what I was thinking.How can you say
"well,i'll have a real family sometime,and
when I do I just wont have time for this
anymore".Thats a little messed up.I would
tell him either adoption or he has to be
in the childs life no matter whats going
on in his own unless he wants to pay child
suport!
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AlliE_18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005
Posts: 2129
Location: uk
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Posted: 11-08-06 13:28pm
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Hes trying to make me feel like I should
be with him for the babys sake otherwise
he/she wont have a dad, to make me feel
guilty. I dont think its my fault if he
chooses not to be around just cos I wont
marry him.
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Melissa_20
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Location: Florida
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Posted: 11-08-06 13:42pm
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| allie_18
wrote: | | hes trying to make me feel
like I should be with him for the babys
sake otherwise he/she wont have a dad, to
make me feel guilty. I dont think its
my fault if he chooses not to be around
just cos I wont marry
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AlliE_18
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Location: uk
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Posted: 11-08-06 13:51pm
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I said whys it so important to get
married, he said because then we'll always
be together and we're having a baby....I
think he just wants to be in a marriage
and have a family, not be alone. I dont
think its about how he feels towards me.
Hes said he loves me, but I dont believe
him cos of how he acts.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 11-08-06 14:05pm
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He is quite old anyway, I dont' think that
you need someone that old to be married
to. I thought about seeing a 48 year old
but I just didnt' think that I would want
to marry him and I just don't think that I
should even date someone that I am not
going to intend on marrying someday. You
know????
Just let him get over himself....He will
soon.
I wouldnt' let him go to your
appointments.
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Kia
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Posted: 11-08-06 14:08pm
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | i wouldnt' let him go to
your
appointments. |
me either.
Girl, you did just fine so far without him
and you will continue to do just fine
without him.
I'll come "borrow" your baby lol
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Becky
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Posted: 11-08-06 14:38pm
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If you get married just because you have a
baby together it is a recipe for disaster!
Its hard enough as it is to make a
marriage work. If you are not compatible
a child isn't going to solve anything.
It is better to be alone than with someone
who isn't right for you.
Chin up girl, if I can do it then so can
you 
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 11-08-06 14:42pm
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | he is quite old anyway, I
dont' think that you need someone that old
to be married to. I thought about
seeing a 48 year old but I just didnt'
think that I would want to marry him and I
just don't think that I should even date
someone that I am not going to intend on
marrying someday. You know????
Just let him get over himself....He will
soon.
I wouldnt' let him go to your
appointments. |
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