Dont Really Know What to Do Posted: 11-08-06 16:01pm
Uh oh...Well im not yet sure if im
pregnant but today ken, my boyfriend,
broke up with me because we were having a
ridiculous fight about food. Which is
retarded because he knows i've been having
mood swings.
He's being such an @$$.I dont know what to
do, because we've done this before and he
always comes crying back to me.I dont know
what to do, if I am pregnant I dont want
my baby to be fatherless but I hate going
thru this time and time again and its so
stressful!!! He's such a child.
I dont know if I should take him back, or
if I should just say im done forever, but
I do not want my baby not to have a
father, and I know if I was pregnant and
didnt take him back he'd try to take away
my baby. He's threatened that before,
he said he'd get it taken away because I
"wouldnt" be able to take care of it.
Yeah i'm 15, but so is he! As if he
would be able to take care of it anymore
than I would. And i'd be its mother.
Just dont know what to do, because I
know he's problem enough to try and take
away my baby.Ohmylord what am I gonna
do?
I wish I wasnt so stupid.
Last edited by oliviathomas on 11-08-06 16:15pm; edited 1 time in total
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Sail Away
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Posted: 11-08-06 16:09pm
It sounds like you need to ditch
him...Your baby might be fatherless but I
think it's better off anyways
your really young, so if you plan on
keeping this baby I consider the both of
you grow up fast..And if he takes your
baby he'll go to jail. That's illegal.
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oliviathomas
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Joined: 03 Nov 2006 Posts: 19 Location: Nanaimo
Posted: 11-08-06 16:14pm
Wow I didnt know it was illegal,
but ughgh. I dont know why we were stupid
enough
to ever have unprotected sex
what kind of retards to that at 15!!!!
I just hope im not pregnant,
but I have a lot of symptoms and my period
reeeelly
should have been here by now.
And your right, it would be better off,
he's never treated me very good.
I know if I am pregnant thats going to
cause me to
grow up in a flash, but I am just so
angry
that he is so childish and has to do such
ridiculous things
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arcadia
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Posted: 11-08-06 16:25pm
You should take a test so you can know for
sure.
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oliviathomas
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Joined: 03 Nov 2006 Posts: 19 Location: Nanaimo
Posted: 11-08-06 16:27pm
arcadia
wrote:
you should take a test so
you can know for
sure.
getting one today at 6:30, but not too
sure if it will be right
or it might be too soon, because at the
clinic they use these weird
pregnancy test that are like little pieces
of cardboard in a wrapper.
It detects the hgc or w/e in your pee, but
it might not work until
later...Like, more days after conception,
cuz it might be too soon.
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Kia
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Posted: 11-08-06 16:29pm
If your period is late it is not too soon.
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arcadia
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Posted: 11-08-06 16:29pm
If your period is late, it *should* be
able to show up positive if you are
pregnant. Good luck! Let us know how it
goes.
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oliviathomas
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Joined: 03 Nov 2006 Posts: 19 Location: Nanaimo
Posted: 11-08-06 16:32pm
Ahhh and last night when I was brushing my
teeth my gums started to bleed!
Is this a sign of pregnancy?
Its never happened to me before, but I
think I heard before that it is a sign, or
symptom...
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wr17
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Joined: 20 Oct 2004 Posts: 287
Posted: 11-08-06 16:33pm
15 year old drama...Wow. Go take a test
and find out for sure. If you're not,
please get on some form of birth control
because the world is sooo not ready for
you to reproduce lol.
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oliviathomas
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Joined: 03 Nov 2006 Posts: 19 Location: Nanaimo
Posted: 11-09-06 13:15pm
Yay! Got my period today, what a relief!
Going to pick up some pills later...
Just thought i'd let everyone know. Lol,
how lucky am i...
Unless theres something wrong with me or
ken, we must have some
guardian angel watching over us!!!
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diamondsz
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Posted: 11-09-06 13:27pm
oliviathomas
wrote:
yay! Got my period today,
what a relief! Going to pick up some
pills later...
Just thought i'd let everyone know. Lol,
how lucky am i...
Unless theres something wrong with me or
ken, we must have some
guardian angel watching over
us!!!
i dont think there was a guardian angel or
else you would be without a boyfriend, as
far as im concerned to need to ditch
him!
I dont let anyone walk on me,never will im
not a doormat so why are you being one?
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 11-09-06 14:39pm
oliviathomas
wrote:
yay! Got my period today,
what a relief! Going to pick up some
pills later...
Just thought i'd let everyone know.
Lol, how lucky am i...
Unless theres something wrong with me or
ken, we must have some
guardian angel watching over
us!!!
im glad you got your period! Do you
seriously want to be with a guy who makes
u feel like that tho? Threatens to get
your baby taken off u...Doesn't sound like
a nice guy. Like everyone else said, I
think you should ditch him.
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oliviathomas
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2006 Posts: 19 Location: Nanaimo
Posted: 11-09-06 20:37pm
If it were easy as that...
I donno, we've just built a lot with each
other
and im going thru a lot right now
and hes helped me thru the worst times.
I think he only says stupid stuff when hes
mad
