See I had sex before I got with this new
guy and I wouldnt know how to break it too
him see hes a virgin and well 14 and see
im 15 almost 16 and hell turn 15 bofore I
turn 16 but see I dont want too loose him.
So what could I do?
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SamanthaM
Supporter
Joined: 15 Dec 2005 Posts: 2079 Location: Mishawaka, Indiana
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Posted: 11-12-06 21:33pm
Being honest is the best way to go. If he
leaves you for that, it's going to happen
eventually anyway.
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 296 Location: Caldwell, Idaho
Posted: 11-12-06 23:34pm
You are way to young to be concerned over
loosing someone over being a virgin or not
a virgin this is not important in a
relationship at your age or his. Being
honest is the way to go for sure but
neither one of you should make a big deal
out of it or it could cause troubles!!!!!
Keeping absinant while being young is a
wise choice and he still chooses to do so
then respect him for that there is so much
that can be destroyed becuase of having
sex at a young age and I am not just
talking about loosing him!!! Stay young
and have safe fun you have a life time
ahead of you to concern yourself in sex.
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Shortfroggy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Nov 2006 Posts: 49 Location: Pinehurst, Tx
Re: Boyfriend Help? Posted: 11-12-06 23:49pm
lil moma 2 be
wrote:
see I had sex before I got
with this new guy and I wouldnt know how
to break it too him see hes a virgin and
well 14 and see im 15 almost 16 and hell
turn 15 bofore I turn 16 but see I dont
want too loose him. So what could I do?
be honest and up front with him. He
deserves the right to know , so if u two
do engage in sexual activity he can
protect himself, if he chooses to.. And u
should protect urself tooo...
But u are and u know everyone gonna tell
u this , way to young to be worrying about
sex.... Should even being a teenager,
school, friends, etc. Sex should be last
on ur list.... But at ur age u pretty
much make up ur mind if what u gonna
do...
Just protect urself... And remember with
sex comes baby's and responsiblity... And
adult problems
if u cant handle everything that comes
with sex, the asbentance is the key.....
