I had sex with my girlfriend almost one
month back. She says that day was nearly
14 to 17 days after her period started.
She was virgin and we started the sex
stuff for a while, she said it was painful
so after 8-9 attempts(here attempts mean
my organ entered her organ only 8-9 times)
to take my sexual organ into hers, we
withdrew the sex process for that moment.
I dint cum neither inside nor outside, I
even didn't pre-ejaculated, as we just
tried for around 1 minute because she said
it was very painful.
Later that day in the evening she was
again interested so I two or three times
entered my sexual organ into hers, she
said it wasn't that painful as earlier.
Fearing that I might ejaculate faster I
took off my sexual organ and masturbated
outside, completely not in touch with her
genitals. I threw my sperm outside in a
piece of cotton, I rubbed all my sperm
completely two three times. My sexual
organ was kind of not erect because I had
just cummed, so immediately after my
ejaculation after cleaning my organ with
cotton two three times, with my sexual
organ not even erect and a bit soft and
weary I attempted to enter my sexual organ
into hers. I pushed for a while 14-15
times ,slowly my organ started getting
erect and I felt her vagina was a little
moist and it became easier to penetrate
her but she told it was getting painful so
I withdrew. I dint cum the second time,
may be I would have cummed again, but I
stopped lot earlier before that stage.
When I withdrew I saw that there were two
spots of blood in the bedsheet, that might
have happened because she was virgin.
I dint use any contraceptives neither did
she, are there any chances of her getting
pregnant ??? I am afraid I pushed the
remains of sperms of my first ejaculation
into her vagina, which I am not sure
because I had cleaned my organ after first
ejaculation nicely with a cotton cloth.
Please help me as to how can I find out
whether she is pregnant or not. She told
she hasn't had period till now, but she
also told that her normal period routine
is generally one and half months that is
she often has period only in one and half
months or more generally.
In case she is pregnant what can I do to
avoid/stop this pregnancy if so ? She has
not used any emergency contraceptive pills
or etc.
Do help me
open boy
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AlliE_18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 2129 Location: uk
Posted: 11-13-06 04:54am
Firstly why didnt u use a condom??
Second theres a chance shes pregnant from
pre cum the first time, I dunno about the
second time cos if u cleaned it would that
be effective? Unless u actually washed
it? Also some coulda come out while u had
sex the last time. If it happened a month
ago then its too late to take emergency
contraception like the morning after
pill...Obviously. So abortion would be
the way to 'stop this pregnancy'. And
thats her decision not yours. You should
buy a pregnancy test to find out.
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006 Posts: 6217 Location: London, England
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Posted: 11-13-06 05:01am
There is a definate chance of pregnancy if
you had unprotected sex
What could be my immediate action ??
Which methods of abortion would be better
?
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basanta
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2006 Posts: 3 Location: Nepal
Posted: 11-13-06 05:37am
What would be the cost of different
possibilites of abortion in general ?
Will other people know if she has surgery
?
How much rest will she need if she goes
surgery ?
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AlliE_18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Dec 2005 Posts: 2129 Location: uk
Posted: 11-13-06 05:49am
You should post that stuff in the
'abortion' forum, not here. A lot of us
are against abortion.
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arcadia
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 4468 Location: Illinois,
what would be the cost of
different possibilites of abortion in
general ?
Will other people know if she has surgery
?
How much rest will she need if she goes
surgery ?
...................... take this
topic somewhere else..... Somewhere that
life isn't valued.... B/c in here (the
pregnancy forum) we value life! This
isn't the "ended pregnancy forum"... It's
called "pregnancy forum" for a
reason!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!!
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16 And A Mom To Be
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Nov 2006 Posts: 71 Location: Denver, Colorado.
Posted: 11-13-06 11:43am
#1- why was a condom not used, it helps
the woman exspecially if it is her first
time because there is lubrication, and it
will kill most of the chance for
pregnancy.
#2- you cannot usually tell if you have
pre ejacualtion, any one correct me if I
am wrong.
#3- she can get pregnant if it is her
first time or her 50th time.
#4- if symptoms appear take a pregnancy
test.
#5- also you should really talk to other
poeple because like the post above,
pregnancy is valued in these forums, most
of us are expectang mothers and I don't
even wan't to think about woman having
aboritions. It's wrong in my eyes. I am
fighting like hell to have a succesful
pregancy not just giving up an inncocent
life for a mnistake.
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take this
topic somewhere else..... Somewhere that
life isn't valued.... B/c in here (the
pregnancy forum) we value life! This
isn't the "ended pregnancy forum"... It's
called "pregnancy forum" for a
reason!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
!!!!!!!!!!!! 