Wow, so if you havent read me up in
"adoption" please do. Well, my sister
called from florida really excited about
planning a baby shower for me when she
comes here in march. maybe its a sign?
Or maybe i'm jus sposed to make this
decision soon. I dont know? Any fortune
tellers around?
Love mol
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1705 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 01-30-04 23:57pm
Just do what your heart wants. Follow
your gut instinct...Its usually right.
This may sound bad, but you can always
give things a try. If it dosen't work
out, then maybe give the baby up for
adoption before he/she gets too old. And
if you become too attatched..Then i'd say
it's meant to be!
~sara~ good luck in your
decision
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004 Posts: 626 Location: Indiana
Posted: 01-30-04 23:58pm
@sara--
hey thanks! Is that your lil beebee in
the pic? Awww too cute!
Love mol
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1705 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 01-31-04 00:04am
yes thats my
little girl jayden danielle-eileen she
will be 6 months on the 7th!
Thanxxx.....Shes my lil angel. My
miracle baby..She almost died when she was
born.
~sara~
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pInKpAnThEr
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004 Posts: 626 Location: Indiana
Posted: 01-31-04 00:11am
Awww, well she looks good and healthy now,
and shes adorable might I add. I see all
of you girls do this yet i'm so scared I
can't be the mommy that alyvia(the name I
picked) loves. So, to let ya know more
about me...Lol...I could talk for days
without stopping..But..Here goes
(another reason why im "overwhelmed")
well this woman called me that somehow
found out I was pregnant, and shes 29
years old and her husband is in remission
from prostate cancer. They are unable to
adopt now, and called first "dibs" on
alyvia. They have tried everything and
not one agency will allow them to adopt.
So i've been considering the option, when
today...My sister called me telling me
about the shower she planned, like I
said... I do want to keep her, but i'm
just scared I can't give her the life
she's guna need. Maybe it's the jitters,
or mayb its real..I don't know, but life
is nuts...
(well, that felt good)
hehe
love mol
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1705 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 01-31-04 01:22am
Why wouldn't you be able to provide what
your daughter needs? She needs
looootttssss of love, shelter, and food.
You provide that for yourself. Ya know I
have to say being a mother is not as hard
as many people made it out to be. I
mean yes its stressful and can be
difficult, but so far I have just had a
blast and I wouldnt trade it for anything
in the world!!!!
~sara~
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metal_girl76
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Dec 2003 Posts: 62 Location: Illinois
Posted: 01-31-04 03:33am
Hey mol! Dont forget if you ever need to
talk to me i'm on your msn list so feel
free to say something anytime! But back
to the post. Either way you go we'll all
support you through it. If you absolutely
think you cannot handle it, then adoption
would be the good choice. But if you
really want to keep the baby then do so!
I know its a very hard decision, but which
ever one it is i'm sure it will be for the
best. Like what sara said...Follow your
heart, it will never fail you! Bye
girlie!
maybe its a sign?
Or maybe i'm jus sposed to make this
decision soon. I dont know? Any fortune
tellers around?
