Any1 In the Same Boat???? Posted: 11-14-06 14:32pm
My partner and I have been trying for a
baby for 14 months with no such luck...
I always have presumed that the problem
lies with me, I was with a previous
partner for 4 years and in the last 2
years of our relationship we were trying
to concieve for a baby (this was about 5
years ago). Again nothing happened...
Eventually the relationship came to an end
due to other factors but not being able to
concieve always played on my mind. I was
only 19 at the time and my partner at the
time was 33.
I am now older and my current partner is
the same age as me.... So age doesnt seem
to be a problem. I went to the doctors
afew months ago and decided to have some
tests. I dont have any
sti's/chlymidia... My uterus the doctor
said had slight erosion but nothing to
worry about. My partner is now going to
get some routine tests done next
week....
Its really frustrating as I am reading so
much information on the net... I try not
stress about it and when we have sex we
dont think about making a baby. I have
tried everything from noting mucas
changes, temperature, periods, ovalation
etc.... Now we have just resorted to
having sex every 2nd day regardless if its
when am ovalating or not... But nothing
seems to happen.....
I was just wondering if anyone is going
through this as well. Its soo
frustrating but trying not to let it get
to me... And let nature take its
course... The doctor said she could
transfer us to fertility clinic but I dont
want to go down this route and be drained
over it if there doesnt seem to be
problems with us at the moment
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 11-14-06 14:35pm
Have you thought that maybe its just not
suppose to happen yet? Just a thought
it takes the average healthy couple at
least a year to conceive (some are a
little more lucky) and its only been a
couple of months more than that,give
yourself a break hun! Try not to think
about it at all. I know its hard but it
will happen when the time is right.
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Posted: 11-14-06 14:43pm
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Posted: 11-15-06 15:16pm
melissa_20
wrote:
have you thought that maybe
its just not suppose to happen yet? Just
a thought
it takes the average healthy couple at
least a year to conceive (some are a
little more lucky) and its only been a
couple of months more than that,give
yourself a break hun! Try not to think
about it at all. I know its hard but it
will happen when the time is
right.
my main worry is with my previous partner
we were trying for 2 years... And this
time round again with my current partner
its over a year... And still not getting
anywhere.
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lainey00001
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Posted: 11-15-06 15:17pm
allie_18
wrote:
your uterus has slight
erosion...What does that mean? Never
heard of it before.
my mistake I meant my cervix.
It is caused by using the contraceptive
pill quite alot of women experience this,
apparantly.
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Posted: 11-15-06 15:26pm
Surely if this is stressing you out so
much maybe you should be referred to a
clinic, if theres nothing wrong it might
put your mind at rest and help you relax,
if there is a problem you will be able to
get the help you need.
This happened to me I was stressing alot
even when I tried not too! Then after a
while with nothing happening I was
referred and diagnosed with pcos. Its not
great but I feel alot more relaxed about
everything now because I am getting the
help I need and I understand whats going
on!
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lainey00001
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Posted: 11-19-06 04:42am
jolie_3110
wrote:
surely if this is stressing
you out so much maybe you should be
referred to a clinic, if theres nothing
wrong it might put your mind at rest and
help you relax, if there is a problem you
will be able to get the help you need.
This happened to me I was stressing alot
even when I tried not too! Then after a
while with nothing happening I was
referred and diagnosed with pcos. Its
not great but I feel alot more relaxed
about everything now because I am getting
the help I need and I understand whats
going on!
thanks for that, I dont think I stress out
about it ... I always just wanted nature
to take its course .... But the 3 years
now and am still waiting. Yes my doctor
said she is referring me to a fertility
once she has done all the investigations
on my partner.
But stress is one thing I dont do... More
concern... I understand already that
stress is main cause in not getting
pregnant.
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Posted: 11-19-06 15:38pm
Wishing you loads of luck! Let me know
how you get on!!
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