Hey all, let me tell you my story. I'm an
18 year old male from england who started
chatting to a girl from new york online a
bit ago, and over time feelings started to
develop and I planned on going over there
to visit. As time went on my happyness
turned into pain, pain from the distance,
I guess I came to the realisation of how
near impossible this actually would be. I
went into a mad state of depression and
even had to see a doctor about it, so we
stopped talking for a few days. The pain
calmed down a bit, but I didnt want to
make a mistake against her and break her
heart so I told her I couldnt stay
commited even though deep down inside I
didnt want anyone else. She accepted, her
feelings for me didnt change, she still
kept on saying that I was the only one for
her and she wasnt interested in other
guys, and it stayed like that for a while
until the other night... I found out she
is now in a relationship with someone
else, this has left me heartbroken because
I still had strong feelings for her and
never wanted what we had to die... Even
though it was so painful. I feel as if I
brought it up on myself for being selfish
for her love. Everything we could of had
is now all shattered and I hate this
feeling, I cant believe she told me she
wanted me and only me and now this
happens. What if she was the one.
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The Godly One
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006 Posts: 76
Re: That Broken Feeling... Posted: 11-21-06 18:53pm
jimmyeth
wrote:
hey all, let me tell you my
story. I'm an 18 year old male from
england who started chatting to a girl
from new york online a bit ago, and over
time feelings started to develop and I
planned on going over there to visit. As
time went on my happyness turned into
pain, pain from the distance, I guess I
came to the realisation of how near
impossible this actually would be. I
went into a mad state of depression and
even had to see a doctor about it, so we
stopped talking for a few days. The pain
calmed down a bit, but I didnt want to
make a mistake against her and break her
heart so I told her I couldnt stay
commited even though deep down inside I
didnt want anyone else. She accepted,
her feelings for me didnt change, she
still kept on saying that I was the only
one for her and she wasnt interested in
other guys, and it stayed like that for a
while until the other night... I found
out she is now in a relationship with
someone else, this has left me heartbroken
because I still had strong feelings for
her and never wanted what we had to die...
Even though it was so painful. I feel
as if I brought it up on myself for being
selfish for her love. Everything we
could of had is now all shattered and I
hate this feeling, I cant believe she told
me she wanted me and only me and now this
happens. What if she was the
one.
"broken hearts", as you people call them
are easily fixed.
Train yourself in the art of hypnosis.
After you have gotten over that, train
yourself to be emotionless when it comes
to romance.
Only then will you achieve unlimited power
with women.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Re: That Broken Feeling... Posted: 11-24-06 17:14pm
the godly one
wrote:
train yourself in the art of hypnosis.
After you have gotten over that, train
yourself to be emotionless when it comes
to romance.
Only then will you achieve unlimited power
with women.
thats the biggest load of bull i've ever
heard. Emotions are what keeps us
alive.If you have none,what is your
purpose? To go to work,sleep and eat
everyday,how fun.
Jimmyeth,you never saw each other in
person and people are totally different
sometimes over the net.Who knows if she
was your one true love. You are far far
apart and nothing will stop that (unless
you move of course).Not to be mean but I
suggest you move on and find someone who
you can actually be with.Love can be a
great thing,so experience it! You have to
just throw yourself out there sometimes
and forget about past hurt.Good luck!
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jimmyeth
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2006 Posts: 22
Posted: 12-31-06 00:38am
Hey guys, thought i'd update you on the
situation. Well we agreed to stay good
friends together, problem is, I really
don't get to talk to her much anymore now
and its quite upsetting you see, we chatted
on the im msn messenger, but the main one
she uses is aim and only really signed
into msn to chat to me, with only a few
other friends on her list... Now that she
has found someone else it seems as though
she isnt that bothered to talk to me
anymore, which really sucks as I still
really enjoy talking to her... Peoples
thoughts would be appreciated, thanks.
you see, we chatted
on the im msn messenger, but the main one
she uses is aim and only really signed
into msn to chat to me, with only a few
other friends on her list... Now that she
has found someone else it seems as though
she isnt that bothered to talk to me
anymore, which really sucks as I still
really enjoy talking to her... Peoples
thoughts would be appreciated, thanks.