Ok. I am now going through a
misacarriage. And i've already had that
talk with the family about what steps to
take next such as if I wanted to get on
birth control or if I wanted to still have
a baby. My family(along with my bf's
family) think I should wait because I am
only 18 and am going through my first
semester of college. Because of the
complications I missed alot of classes and
had to drop two throughout the whole
process.
Well the problem is that the more and more
I think about it I still want to have a
baby. Yeah I know it would be smart to
wait but my bf is about to graduate from
college and that kinda helps. I just
really want a baby. I took it so hard
when I first found out that the baby
stopped growing. And so did the rest of
the family. So I don't know what to do.
And anything anyone has to say will not
be seen as lecturing me I promise. I just
really want to know what others think.
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 11-17-06 03:31am
You really really need to see a doctor.
If you are still "just now going thorugh a
miscarriage" you need medical care because
you are risking an infection.
However, iirc, you hadn't actually had
medical confirmation that you were having
a miscarriage, just you were told that you
"might" miscarry.
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glycerine
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Posts: 72 Location: Texas
Posted: 11-17-06 09:39am
Oh sorry if I left that out. But I
talked to my doctor and I am having a
miscarriage as we speak. I start blood
work next week to make sure that my level
goes back down.
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seksiHily
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Apr 2005 Posts: 1015 Location: MN
Posted: 11-17-06 11:15am
How long have u been miscarrying?
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glycerine
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Oct 2005 Posts: 72 Location: Texas
Posted: 11-17-06 13:54pm
Well I was spotting the past two weeks and
this monday I started bleeding heavy like
at 4 in the morning. The pain was so
intense!! But it doesn't hurt as much as
knowing that i'm not having my baby
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Innchik18
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004 Posts: 247 Location: Oregon
Posted: 12-06-06 11:56am
Aww im soo sorry.. I know how you feel..
I already posted my short miscarriage
story in another post. But I understand
you and know how sad you feel for losing a
baby. After my miscarriage whenever I saw
another baby in real life...Movie..
Anywhere I would almost start crying! But
let time heal everything.. Go to a doctor
to see what exactly is going on.. And if
you relly did have a miscarriage then just
wait to heal and clear your mind of
everything and then see how you feel about
trying again. I know I wanted to get
pregnant right away also because you think
that this will fill the empty hole.. But
another pregnancy right now wont.. So
give it some time and see how you feel in
a few months!!.. Good luck..
