Alright. So I have irregular cycles.
Lately they are between 37-45 cycle days!
I never get my period on time. So
technically depending on my cycle length
this month...I could be anywhere from 2
weeks to 2-5 days late.
I don't have any prego symptoms just sore
breasts.
Whenever I have sex it really, really
hurts when my bf penetrates me. The doc
said it just hurts some girls more, but it
is a lot of pain.
Could ihave a infection that is causing
my period to be so late or miss? I only
sleep with my bf and he only sleps with
me. We dont use condoms or bc
so I could be pregnant but I am irregular.
I just notcied as the pain gets worse
during sex is when I have a really delayed
period.
Is it possible to not have any ectopic
signs? For some reason because I am not
on bc I have a fear ill have one!
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effertroy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2006 Posts: 6 Location: Auckland
Posted: 11-29-06 23:39pm
Irregular cycles are pretty normal.
Anything from 25 to 45 days seems to be
within the borders of what happens. Your
eggs will appear when your body decides!
Depending on how old you are, sore or
tender breasts aren't all that unusual.
Have you talked to your medical adviser
about this? There may be some medication
that could help.
Pain on penetration can be caused by
several things:
your vagina is too small. This is most
unlikely, because it's the most stretchy
part of your body.
Your bf's penis is too big. This is also
most unlikely because really big penises
are as rare as, well, really big penises.
Your vagina is too dry. This can happen
because you have little moisture glands in
there called bartholin's glands that are
supposed to make you all wet and friendly.
They don't always work the way they
should, so you might want to think about
using a lubricating gel that you can
easily find at the drugstore. The most
popular one where I live is called ky gel,
but there are other brands too.
Learn about arousal, and foreplay, where
you and he play with each other's sexual
parts to get you both ready for what's
going to happen. Stroking kissing,
nibbling, licking, touching are all good
ways to start.
Good foreplay lasts for half an hour or
so. One deep throat kiss and a thirty
second clinch is no preparation for a
beautiful girl to be ready to accept a
penis. She needs much more time, and then
those glands will start pumping away.
If he is cirumcised, his penins will be
dry even when it's hard. He needs to use
a gel or be sure that your own body has
moistened you enough, so that he'll slip
and slide inside you with that beautiful
feeling that you can't describe until you
have experienced it but is very fulfilling
when it happens.
