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Alexandra_O
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Joined: 31 Jan 2004
Posts: 44
Location: Canada
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Odd Question
Posted: 01-31-04 19:12pm
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My friend, who has only been with her
boyfriend for a few months says she wants
to have a baby with him. I would be
somewhat fine with this if she had
discussed it with her boyfriend before
hand!! He doesn't know about this and
what she will do is give him a hand job
and then run to the bathroom and insert
the ejaculation into herself. I keep
telling her she will get pregnant this way
and she says that she won't....Am I wrong?
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jezzica04
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Location: Louisiana
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Hmmmmm
Posted: 01-31-04 19:21pm
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Well I think that she can get pregnant
from this. It just depends on how long
the cum is exposed to the air before she
puts it inside of her. It sounds like not
that long so I would say there is a
possibility of her getting pregnant if she
keeps doing this. I think she believes
she can get pregnant as well I mean why
else would she keep doing this? Im really
concerned about your friend b/c I dont
want her to make a mistake and then regret
it later. Try your best to talk to her
and point out the the cons of this action.
If you cant maybe you should warn the guy
b/c he might not be ready for a child.
Good luck and hope this helps. 
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Alexandra_O
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2004
Posts: 44
Location: Canada
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Posted: 01-31-04 19:35pm
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Thanks for the response  the ejaculation is
exposed to air for literally 10 seconds
and then she puts it in. I would warn her
boyfriend...I'm just worried about our
friendship but I think the possiblity of a
child is much more important right now!
~alex
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 01-31-04 19:36pm
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This is so bad! U must convince her to
discuss things with him because its not
fair to do that to a guy.If she wants a
baby,she shud see what his feeligs r
-either he'll agree or he will hate the
idea.
If she thinks she wont get pregnant by the
method shes using-why is she doing it?!
Are they actually having sex or just doing
hand jobs?
Liz x
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Alexandra_O
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Posts: 44
Location: Canada
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Posted: 01-31-04 19:41pm
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They are having sex as well but she told
me what she'll do is have unprotected sex
with him until he is about to ejaculate
and then he'll stop and pull out and she
will give him a handjob until he
ejaculates then quickly run to the
washroom like 5-10 seconds and put it
inside her vagina. I know this is
horrible and really wrong I just don't
know how to go about telling him...
~alex
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sparklypixie12
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Posted: 01-31-04 19:47pm
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Well....U need 2 weigh this up.I think u
shud talk 2 her first & try 2 convince
her 2 tell him.U may ruin your friendship
if u go and tell him straight away but I
suppose it all depends how good friends
you are.
Its irresponsible on his part to not be
using a condom because your friend cud get
pregnant whether he ejaculates in her or
not! I think its so unfair when a girl
does this to a guy so try talking to her
and maybe warn her that you might tell
him.
Good luck!
Liz x
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Alexandra_O
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
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Posts: 44
Location: Canada
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Posted: 01-31-04 20:08pm
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Oh I know she can still get pregnant if he
doesnt ejaculate! Which is why she plans
to tell him if she does in fact get
pregnant that it must have been his
pre-ejaculation (which it may well have
been) but it would most likely be the
ejaculation she had on her hands! I'm
going to talk to her because I can't let
this go on it would be so unfair to him
and I would feel awful that I didn't tell
him if I could have prevented an unwanted
child. Thanks for responding liz
~alex
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pInKpAnThEr
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Posts: 626
Location: Indiana
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Posted: 01-31-04 22:29pm
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Wow the tennis player scandel all over
again. I think ur friend might have a
security issue that needs some work- thats
scary stuff!!
Love mol
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mommabear16
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smith8500
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Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-01-04 02:15am
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Wow, you friend has a problem. That isn't
a good thing to do to anyone. You don't
try to get preggy or try to get someone
else preggy without discussing it....
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JillMarie
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Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-01-04 11:07am
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Omg! What is this home artifical
insemination? I'm sorry but tell her she
is going to far! Could he sue her for
misuse of his sperm?! 
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Mesmerizeu15
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Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-01-04 15:24pm
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This is beyond ignorant. Something should
be said. Give me a number ill call and
tell him myself!!
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