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msminnamouse
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What Am I Then???
Posted: 11-21-06 13:19pm
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If i'm not attracted to women, so i'm not
a lesbian, but i'm attracted to men, but I
don't want anything to do with them, what
does that make me?
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Mommy35
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Posted: 11-21-06 13:30pm
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Smart?
Just kidding. Maybe you are just taking
a break? Maybe your brain knows this
isn't a good time for you to be involved
in a relationship for whatever reasons and
it's making you lose interest.
Believe me there are worse things.
Concentrate on you and what makes you
happy
good luck to you
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siansanderson15
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Posted: 01-12-07 16:31pm
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I am 15 and female and b4 I dnt fink dat I
wud eva be cum gay or bi- but---- I met a
gal bwt 2 wks ago- and she is kinda like a
boy- eg:she wont hit gals, she looks
mostly like a boy, but shes betta- she
respects gals and is not a person like
most ladz- dont gt me wrong I love lads,
but do I like gals to? Help me!
I mean--surely I cant b bi???!!!! 
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Bittersweet_Symphony
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Posted: 01-15-07 15:16pm
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I had the same problem a while ago. But
really, it comes down to who would you
rather sleep with? A man, a woman, or
both?
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Color of Paper
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Posted: 02-08-07 23:09pm
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I think alot of people forget we can be
attracted to other "humans"
that really sums it up...Its not like you
have to lable your sexuality. ^_^
people that ask me I say im "open" ^_^
whom ever I find attractive is whom I find
attractive be it male or female.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-26-07 23:03pm
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I wasn't particularly attracted to males
or females in highschool.
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The Godly One
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Re: What Am I Then???
Posted: 05-07-07 17:38pm
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| msminnamouse
wrote: | | If i'm not attracted to
women, so i'm not a lesbian, but i'm
attracted to men, but I don't want
anything to do with them, what does that
make me? |
Hetrosexual.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 05-07-07 17:43pm
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| siansanderson15
wrote: | I am 15 and female and b4 I
dnt fink dat I wud eva be cum gay or bi-
but---- I met a gal bwt 2 wks ago- and she
is kinda like a boy- eg:she wont hit gals,
she looks mostly like a boy, but shes
betta- she respects gals and is not a
person like most ladz- dont gt me wrong I
love lads, but do I like gals to? Help
me!
I mean--surely I cant b bi???!!!! |
Oh, please write this in english. I have
no idea what you are rambling about. And
I seriously hope you did not just use the
word "person" (sorry for repeating) in
your post.
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sillyakchick
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Posted: 05-07-07 17:46pm
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Imagine homosexual being at one end of the
spectrum, and heterosexual being at the
other end. Most of us fall somewhere
close to one end or the other. Some of us
fall somewhere in the middle. Just try to
be at peace with who you are. Personally,
I think ladies are much more attractive
than men froma visual standpoint.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 05-07-07 20:48pm
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| siansanderson15
wrote: | I am 15 and female and b4 I
dnt fink dat I wud eva be cum gay or bi-
but---- I met a gal bwt 2 wks ago- and she
is kinda like a boy- eg:she wont hit gals,
she looks mostly like a boy, but shes
betta- she respects gals and is not a
person like most ladz- dont gt me wrong I
love lads, but do I like gals to? Help
me!
I mean--surely I cant b bi???!!!! |
Okay, first, only you know if you like
girls.
Do
you like girls?
Basically what I've gotten from your post
is that there is a tomboy you met who is a
really cool girl. So what? Are you
attracted to her? Do you think she's hot?
Do you want to date her or kiss her or
somthing?
If you don't have any of those feelings
then no, you're not bi.
As someone else said, it's like a sliding
bar. It's like the rainbow (ha ha) and
there's a lot of colors. One end is
totally straight and one end is totally
gay. The middle is bisexual. Personally,
I'm straight but floating towards the
middle.
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Ichigos_Passion
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Posted: 03-14-08 18:35pm
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You'll eventually find out... Like most
people said, you're just taking a break.
You're allowed to do that.
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homerx
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Posted: 03-24-08 17:57pm
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| Color of Paper
wrote: | I think alot of people
forget we can be attracted to other
"humans"
that really sums it up...Its not like you
have to lable your sexuality. ^_^
people that ask me I say im "open" ^_^
whom ever I find attractive is whom I find
attractive be it male or
female. |
good answer...2 each his or her own...
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Ani_stasia
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Posted: 04-17-08 12:29pm
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I'd say you sound alot like me. I am
attracted to both sexes (find people of
both sexes hot or pretty), but not
sexually attracted to either. I just don't
really like all the physical part of a
relationship. I just don't enjoy it. I
like to please my mate, and I like to feel
close to him, but I don't really enjoy
sex. Yes it feels pleasurable, but it just
is not my favorite thing. I consider my
asexual.
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homerx
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Posted: 04-17-08 12:36pm
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Ani_stasia, me 2! I would rather cuddle
and watch a movie and make dinner and talk
and laugh and enjoy life...sex isn't that
big a deal to me any more...not like when
I was 20...maybe its because I am in my
40s now ...I'm not asexual but I could be
very easy, if my partner wasn't such a
horn dog!!!!  I
am flattered that he wants me but couldn't
we just snuggle and not have to "do it"...
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Ani_stasia
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Posted: 04-17-08 18:18pm
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I know! I just find it messy, and I hate
how my body looks (that was before my
pregnancy, I"m due in September), and
afterwards I'm always sore or develop an
infection. I get all sweaty, my hair gets
dirty...it's just not for me!
I LOVE to cuddle though.
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homerx
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Posted: 04-17-08 20:04pm
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congrats on the baby! How cool is
that?!? You will make a
great mom! You will ...I can tell
already!
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Ani_stasia
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Posted: 04-19-08 08:45am
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OH thank you! I'm super excited,
definately not planned, but I've already
started to count the ways to make this the
best hippy, organic, granola chick
fighting for rights and equality possible!
lol, just being silly now! But seriously,
I've decided to only surround this baby by
organic everything, and all kinds of
people and ideas!
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homerx
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Ani_stasia
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Posted: 04-20-08 09:38am
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=)) This baby will have so many
godparents! I have like 20-25 members of
my glbt group who all say they are too!
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homerx
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Posted: 04-20-08 18:30pm
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 awesome
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I
want to be the Godfather Of Love... 
