Joined: 23 Aug 2003 Posts: 18 Location: Houston Tx.
!!help Me Be a Better Boyfriend And Maybe a New Dad!!! Help Posted: 08-23-03 01:11am
Im 18 and have a 17 year old girlfriend.
We been date for a year and a couple
months. And this month she is late big
time. I dont need any talks of "your dumb
and stupid why did you do that" ill hear
that from my mom bet you. We are going to
take a p.Test soon to make it for sure.
?What should I do to give her surport and
let her know that we are going to work it
out? And to top it off what should I do
about my and her parents. My mom kicked
me out long time ago and not the best of
friends. Her parents are nice her mom had
a kid at 16 and her dad is pretty big...
How should we tell them?
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SweetCheeks
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2003 Posts: 12
???? Posted: 08-23-03 15:20pm
I bet your a great boyfriend..Just let her
know that u'll be there for her no matter
what happens or what the outcome may be.
Make sure u show her that u love her..Yall
will be just fine. I know she loves u a
lot. I would just wait for the results
first before u worry to much about
anything else. :d
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 08-25-03 15:50pm
Take a test to be sure. Do it sooner than
later. Sorry to say this but use condoms!
You are too young to have kids! Ok
there. Continue to be by your girlfriends
side. Be there for even the little things
to make her feel better that you will be
there for her. She will much appreciate
it. When you are positive shes pregnant
then tell your mom nicely:
"congratulations! You are going to be a
grandma! I would love you to be in our
babies life despite our conflicts." thats
a start. For her parents, the both of you
need to tell them calmy that you are
expecting and you are working on planning
out your future together. Good luck ok!
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-25-03 23:44pm
Hey I read what u posted on the other
thread about u loving to see ur girlfriend
with a baby. And u sounded very loving!
Of course that being a teen is hard, and
being a dad would be super hard.
U then have to bare any responsibility
that comes with the baby...Etc..And I am
sure u know that.
And no I am not gonna tell u "u r
stupid...Blah blah blah." I never do that
on this website! And I dont like ppl
doing that!
How to show ur girl that u will support
her? Well action says lot more than
words..So besides having a serious talk
with her, show her how responsible u can
be by starting to look for jobs that pay
more, getting good grades at school, be a
very patient man.
And her parents.....Well that's her job to
tell them, but u will have to help her of
course. Be a man and step up, discuss
this with her and see what she thinks,
know that her parents might dislike you,
but you just have to not give up and show
them how much you love thier daughter and
u will do anything to make it work, in
other words...Think of a plan, a living
plan, a plan that in case she is really
pregnant, to show them that at least you
are making a plan, not just empty words
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Santacruz85
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2003 Posts: 18 Location: Houston Tx.
Posted: 08-26-03 01:30am
Thank you everyone I looked at what
everyone had to say and all I ask is that
yall hope for the best for me and
sweetcheeks.
Sweetcheeks I need you, help me, I love
you
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SweetCheeks
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2003 Posts: 12
My Baby! Posted: 08-26-03 18:08pm
Everythings gonna be alrite babe..I love
you no matter what happens. We need each
other in this..Im happy im not by myself
and that I have u here to give me
strength, comfort, and support. U have no
idea how much all of that means to
me..We'll get through this together..I
love you very much
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 08-26-03 18:20pm
Are the both of you together? Good luck
to you both then.
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-27-03 00:19am
I am confused??!! Sweetcheeks and
santacruz are together or are they just
online buddies? Hehe...
anyways, best of luck
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Santacruz85
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Aug 2003 Posts: 18 Location: Houston Tx.
... Posted: 08-27-03 00:26am
Yeah yall are right santacruz and
sweetcheeks are togeter. I told her about
this site we both go here...
