Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 3689 Location: vancouver island, bc canada
Sex... Posted: 11-24-06 17:45pm
Im on birthcontrol now, and my doc said my
stiches should take a couple weeks to
heal... So im woundering if sex wouldnt
be an ok thing until after my stiches or
if I get condoms for now if it would be
ok... I mean I had a 2nd degree rip and
im pretty scared its gonna hurt, but I
also wanna be close with shawn but its
kinda hard to get that close when im
scared, and hes scared of hurting me...
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amethyst eyes
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Posted: 11-24-06 17:54pm
I have never been pregnant but from what I
have heard it would be best to wait untill
the stitches are removed and you are
completly healed which could take up to 6
weeks. If you have any major concerns
you should call your doc and ask him/her
when it will be ok.
If you want to saty close their are other
things you can do
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oh_mommy
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Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 3689 Location: vancouver island, bc canada
Posted: 11-24-06 18:05pm
The stiches are disolvable
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arcadia
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Posted: 11-24-06 18:11pm
I'd call your doctor &ask. You're
supposed to wait to get the ok from your
doc before you start having sex again. I
think most women get the ok about 4-6
weeks after giving birth.
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oh_mommy
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Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 3689 Location: vancouver island, bc canada
Posted: 11-24-06 18:17pm
Well im getting a pap test in 2 weeks, so
if they can use the duck bill wouldnt it
be ok for sex??? Or I unno, what u girls
think
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Bridget
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Posted: 11-24-06 18:18pm
I think if you're scared it's going to
hurt you're probably not ready yet.
Definitely wait until you really feel up
for it. It would suck to mess things up
down there, don't you think?
But when you do go for it, use lots of
lube and take it slow.
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Bridget
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Posted: 11-24-06 18:20pm
oh_mommy
wrote:
well im getting a pap test
in 2 weeks, so if they can use the duck
bill wouldnt it be ok for sex??? Or I
unno, what u girls
think
well, they'll just insert that and take it
out, they won't be thrusting and whatnot.
But also that's in 2 weeks, maybe by then
you'll be ready?
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arcadia
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Posted: 11-24-06 18:25pm
I wouldn't do it without my doctor's ok.
I'd call &make sure it's ok. But if
you feel like you're ready, then go ahead
&try. But like .Bridget said, use
lots &lots &lots of lube.
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oh_mommy
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Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 3689 Location: vancouver island, bc canada
Posted: 11-24-06 18:25pm
iheartmybostonterrier
wrote:
oh_mommy
wrote:
well im getting a pap test
in 2 weeks, so if they can use the duck
bill wouldnt it be ok for sex??? Or I
unno, what u girls
think
well, they'll just insert that and take it
out, they won't be thrusting and whatnot.
But also that's in 2 weeks, maybe by then
you'll be ready?
good point.. I never thought about
that..... I guess ill ask my doc in two
weeks
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Sail Away
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Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Posts: 1170 Location: Missouri
Posted: 11-25-06 15:38pm
They will give you the okay on your 4-6
week check up if everything looks okay
when he gives you a pap smear.
I had sex about a week after I had the
okay, I got cut with brayden though and
didn't tear. Sex hurt a little bit at
first but it wasnt anything like omg
ouchhhh!!!
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jessesgirl
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Posted: 11-25-06 17:37pm
Isn't it funny how just a few weeks ago we
were begging for our babies to come out,
now we're all antsy to have sex again.
Lol
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oh_mommy
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Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 3689 Location: vancouver island, bc canada
Posted: 11-26-06 16:43pm
Lol yea it is, thou I cant have sex yet
anyways cause we dont have any condoms and
my bc wouldnt have kicked in yet....
*sigh*
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