I didnt really post the topic fully but I
am just concern with my mother's jealousy
because she really take it out alot on me
for the past two years. My mother never
really calls me out of the blue and say
how are you, instead of that she asked me
when she will see her grandson. I told
her soon as possible because me and my ex
have joint custody so we both share
visitation with our son. We told our
parent that we don't want to have a family
member fighting over their grandchildrens
for a stupid reasons.. So lately I just
found out from my brother that my brother
told me that my mother is pissed at me
because she wants more grandchildren..
Why would my mother be mad? She knows
that in the world that I have plenty of
time. I just don't know how to deal with
the situation but many time I told her, im
just 20yrs old and I don't want to rush
things right now.. Give it a time for me
whenever I am ready to have another but
who knows.
So I said enough to my mother but how can
I say to her about her calling me just for
grandson but she should call me and say
how are you doing.. Hows lifes treating
ya .. Like any normal mother would do.
Tell me what you think.
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-25-06 13:50pm
I'm actually sorry to break this to you,
but 'normal' mothers do not exist except
in some fantasy television programs.
Every family and relationship has it's own
dynamic. Maybe your mom doesn't feel she
can call you to ask you about you. Maybe
she feels it is easier to call you to ask
when she will get to see her grandson (who
is your son, so that also means she would
be seeing you!).
Do you call her just to 'chat'? And not
'chat' about your son?
I think your brother maybe took it a
little wrong when he told you that your
mom was angry with you for not having more
children. I'll be she would like for you
to have more - but only when you are
ready. No one wants to inflict children
upon anyone when they aren't ready to have
them!
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sweetdreamer1912
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2006 Posts: 74 Location: NY
Posted: 11-25-06 17:29pm
I totally agree but when I call her she
just dont really talk .. But I talk about
things like how my son is doing and how is
he capable of talking and ya know the
milestone of toddlers. I know she is just
seeing me too but she takes out all the
attention on my son. I know she loves me
too but she doesnt show it.
The reason why I dont bring him around is
because she is alocholic and doesnt
realize that its affecting the whole
realtionship in the family and I really
don't want her to lose it.
Thats another problem... I mean she isn't
the person I once knew when I was younger.
I knoe people change but it frustrate me
to deal with this situation.
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