18 With a None Normal No Erection Posted: 11-26-06 09:04am
Ha i'm confident bout my style and ways
but when I get with a beautiful,real sexy
girl ...Its like I go brain dead down
there.....I can get hard some times but I
mean jackin off hell it takes me 10
seconds to get up ..I was wonderin if
testtosterone pills will help....In gettin
up right then and there if not...Whats a
pill that is so strong it will make me
have a hard on even when I dont want to
have one .....
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Downer
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Nov 2006 Posts: 2
Posted: 11-26-06 15:53pm
Ok yea I wasnt sayin it in a bad way when
it takes me 10 min i'm meanin why so quick
with that and when i'm with a girl I get
up none .....
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levirobbinz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Oct 2006 Posts: 8
Posted: 11-29-06 06:42am
The reason is definitely psychological.
The fact that you have no problem
achieving an erection stimulating yourself
manually proves that there is no physical
cause. While it's nice to know
everything is fine
physically...Psychological problems can
often be very difficult to understand and
overcome. You can be comfortable with
a girl, be extremely attracted to her,
want to have sex with her, and things just
don't work properly. Once this happens
it makes it even more difficult the next
time because you have this worry that
it'll happen again in the back of your
mind. It's an endless cycle that has
to be broken.
I suggest masturbating less (no more than
2-3 times/week) and finding a partner
you're comfortable with to help you get
through the problem. The more you
think about it the more it'll become a
problem. You need to relax and enjoy
the moment. Once you get past it you
should be fine.
I strongly advise against taking hormones.
If you need a pill to get past the
problem initially go see a gp and get a
prescription for viagra. If it helps
you can slowly wean your way off of it by
lowering your dose each time you have
intercourse until (hopefully) things work
without it. This is a method I used and
have had some success with.
