It was so early in our relationship, we were definetely not prepared. Not financially stable, just felt we weren't ready. He now is making very good money, I just started a great new job. We knew we couldnt go through another abortion. We thought about the idea of having our own child and got excited. But unfortunately I misscarried today

but what helps us feel better about it is that we now have more time to prepare ourselves for the future. We are still planning our wedding and hopefully as soon as I recover and heal we can try to conceive again. Thanx everyone for the info, it was much help. I have learned a lot and will be much more prepared for the future.