So to make a story short. Im 22 years
old. Im a little overwight but work out a
lot. All the girls im with say im not fat
just a big bone guy but anyways im just
not happy with the way I look nor im happy
with my penis.
So I have been dating this beautyfull girl
for about a month now, she is the
prettiest girl and sweetest I have been
with so far. So last night I go over to
her place and we where watching tv on the
couch. Now so you guys have an idea of
how it was going, I have been in this
situation before with other girls since
this summer.
So we are watching the movie and she leans
on me and puts her head on my shoulder, I
started to caress her and gave her a head
rub which she loves and I started to feel
aroused (you know it starts to grow a
little) so im happy at this point because
I thought it would happen last night. So
she starts kissing me and we start getting
more and more passionate for eachother.
She sits on top of me and I get up and
carry her to the bedroom. At this point
other times I will have a boner already
but since the summer nope. So we laydown
on her bed and we get undress and all and
boom there it is, I completly lost my
erection, well never had one. So I start
getting frustated but dont let that bother
me I kept on going doing my thing. After
about 2 hours I made her come 2 or 3 times
with my hands, mouth, knees. But no
erection for me. She wasnt unhappy but I
was so unhappy at myself. I have been
wanting to be with her for the longest
time and now that I had one chance and
probably the only chance, I blew it.
This have happen to me with 4 girls
already after this summer and im starting
to get annoyed. Before I will get good
erections on my own but now not even that.
When I masturbate I have noticed that I
get only a full complete and nice erection
when im close to ejaculating.
By the reaserch I have done I can conclude
that my problems are either psychological
( since I have put myself down for my size
6.75 inches) and im affraid girls will
judge me.
Or physical that maybe I over masturbated
at some point. Or my testosterone level
is low.
My friend who is in good shape and always
goes to the gym has had this same problem
and he tells me its stress but how the
hell do I deal with it.
I know that I may have lost this girl
after last night and thats ok I wont blame
her but its me who im affecting. I feel
that im not a man at some times for this
issue.
Can anyone please help me on this im
really starting to get depressed about it.
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 11-26-06 14:39pm
Steroids give you limp noodle syndrome
so lay off the gym candy.
Past poor performance is going to be
giving you a psychological downer
anyways.
And i'm more than a bit worried that you
say you made her come with your knees
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006 Posts: 6221 Location: London, England
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Posted: 11-26-06 14:45pm
Lol me too kia! I wanna know how you can
do that
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juan3268
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Joined: 26 Nov 2006 Posts: 10
Posted: 11-27-06 06:47am
Well I dont take any enhancements. All
natural and work outs I do are cardio
based and not much of weights. I do judo
so I canot do heavy lifting or musscle
atrophy will give me a hard time on the
mat.
Yeah I figure that will happen about my
bad past experiences but how do I get rid
of them?
And the knee well I just use every part of
my body on sex. Put the knee in between
her legs and rub her parts, along with
lost of kissing, caressing, and lots of
oral sex that will do fore her. And even
thogh I couldnt get hard she still called
me yesterday and keeps talking to me so I
guess I will get another chance to make
her happy on bed one more time
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 11-27-06 08:00am
When the pressure isn't on to perform it's
likely he will make an appearance.
Rule out penetrative sex - don't even
entertain the idea.
Have a nice cosy relaxed romantic time,
allow her to masturbate you but rule out
penetrative sex until such time as
performace isn't an issue.
You can still get and maintain and
erection whilst masturbating alone?
If so then there's not much need to worry
- just confidence building.
If you used to and now can't get and
maintain an erection when alone, then i'd
say make an appt with your doc or .G.U to
rule out anything physical.
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juan3268
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Nov 2006 Posts: 10
Posted: 11-28-06 17:10pm
Well I have all good news. She didnt take
it bad and she actually wants to hang out
with me again on the weekend so we will
see what happens.
Also I am starting to get random erections
and they are increasing in number soo im
happy 4 that. Im starting to think that
my testosterone was low or something due
to masturbating or something but I havent
masturbated since last week and im not
planing to do since every time I do im
having this problems. Also I meassure on
a full erection and it has grown with the
excercises I have been doing so hopfully
my size concern which is another issue I
find when im with someone for the first
time may get resolved.
Im happy my penis is back.
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 11-28-06 18:21pm
Have fun
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higreen
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Joined: 22 Aug 2006 Posts: 3 Location: uk
Try This Posted: 12-10-06 05:30am
Juan all I can say is dont take too much
time on foreplay
it will help at least she knows now dat
you can make her com so take about 6
minutes to do your foreplay. And u will
be :d again
