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Q: Could I Be Pregnant?
asked by: missymoo2007 on November 26th, 2006
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Hey.


I'm new to this website so bare with me. Well im 19 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been having sex lately without using anything. We have been going out for about 3 months now.


Well I havent had my period for about a month and half maybe 2. I really dont know as I stopped taking my bcp and I didnt write down when I last came on. So I don't know. But well like I said I havent gotten my period yet and I have been getting a lot of white stuff down below and feeling ill. I have had tummy cramping, going off my food, feeling a little sick, boobs hurt a little bit, I jus dont feel myself really at the moment. I did do a test about a month ago and it came back negative but that was a few days after I had sex. I have had sex a lot since then lol.

I have gotten really sore and itchy down below too. I have used many creams and some are helping but I still have it. This has been going on for about a month too maybe longer.


What can I do? Does it sound like im pregnant or can be? I'm worried sick at the moment and really dont know what to do. Please reply asap xxxxx
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Kia
replied on November 26th, 2006
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It sounds like you need to take a test and stop having unprotected sex with a guy you've only been with a short time.
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missymoo2007
replied on November 26th, 2006
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Hey.

Yeah I know but does the way I been feeling result in pregnancy symptons? I'm worried sick and scared. I can't get a test yet as I don't get paid till friday and no way I can get any money.
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Kia
replied on November 26th, 2006
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Hang on and let me get my crystal ball out.

Oh whoops it's broken I guess that means the only way to know it the same as everyone else - .T.E.S.T!
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missymoo2007
replied on November 26th, 2006
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Ok I was only asking. I never been pregnant before or been in this suituation that's all. Need all the advice and help I can get.X
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Kia
replied on November 26th, 2006
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Well, you had unprotected sex - do you think you might get pregnant?? If you don't know the answer to that - you really should .N.O.T be having sex.

The best help you can get is to take a test and make a doctors appointment - whatever the out come because a) if you are pregnant you need pre-natal care and b) if you aren't pregnant you need to sort out some birth control.
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missymoo2007
replied on November 26th, 2006
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Ok thanks for your help xx
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Mabel
replied on November 26th, 2006
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I'm concerned you may have a sexually transmitted infection/disease. I know you are young and 3 months seems like a long time - but it isn't.

You need to go see a doctor. If you are in the states, you can go to planned parenthood and get a pregnancy test as well as get tested for other things. Perhaps the cause of your itching.

Good luck.
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Sandbox Party
replied on November 26th, 2006
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kia_breizzze wrote:
it sounds like you need to take a test and stop having unprotected sex with a guy you've only been with a short time.


lmao

well said.
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missymoo2007
replied on November 27th, 2006
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Hey.

Nope I aint in the states im in uk. Thanks for your replies tho Smile
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missymoo2007
replied on November 28th, 2006
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Hey.

Well just an update. I did a test today and it came back negative. I have another one but gonna do it later or tomorrow. I haven't told my boyfriend yet.

What can be going o then, if I aint pregnant? Please reply
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tigresacanela24
replied on November 28th, 2006
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missymoo2007 wrote:
hey.


Well just an update. I did a test today and it came back negative. I have another one but gonna do it later or tomorrow. I haven't told my boyfriend yet.


What can be going o then, if I aint pregnant? Please reply


sounds like an infection of some sort with the itching and discharge that you mentioned. Might want to test for that...
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missymoo2007
replied on November 28th, 2006
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Could it be to early that I tested?
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mommywannabe78
replied on November 28th, 2006
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If you've skipped periods, a test should be accurate by now. It really does sound like a possible std, for which you should see a doctor .A.S.A.P.
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on November 28th, 2006
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The reason why your periods are jacked up is beacuse, like you said, you stopped taking your birthcontrol.
Doing this can affect a woman in many many ways.

The itching your talking about may be from not peeing or cleaning yourself up after sex.

Did you have anal sex and then proceed to have vaginal sex?? This could cause .Thrush, which is generalized as the symptoms that you are describing.

3 months ain't sh't girl. 3 months isn't even enough time to establish a good relationship with his family.

Do you know his last name??

I wouldn't waste your time/money on anymore tests. Just go to your ob/gyn and tell them you stopped birthcontrol (you know as well as I do that they're going to be pissed)

does your boyfriend know you stopped taking your birthcontrol? I bet if he knew he wouldn't be coming inside of you. I'd be willing to bet money on it..

Sarah
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missymoo2007
replied on November 28th, 2006
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Hey.

Thanks for both of your replies. I'm going to make a doc appt and go from there. But yeah I do know a lot of things about him and everything, we have a very good realtionship. I did stop the birth control pill way before having sex. So it can't be that really. I stopped it about 2/3 months before I started having sex with my boyfriend.
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on November 28th, 2006
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Reguardless of when you stopped, it can mess your cycle up.

Before I had .Oni, I stopped birth control. It was about a year before my period got regular on it's own.

I would def let your Dr. Know that you abruptly stopped birth control and see what they say.

I'm sure they'll suggest that you get back on birth control...

Sarah
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lil_blaze2004
replied on November 28th, 2006
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Honestly sounds more like an infection or sti (std) than anything. I would really go and get checked out for that. Best of luck and please buy condoms.
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