Joined: 26 Nov 2006 Posts: 2 Location: Massachusetts
She Wants to Play Family With My Kids! Posted: 11-26-06 18:17pm
I have been divorced from my verbally
abusive husband for about 2 years now.
Immediately (4 days) after I left he
started seeing a girl 10 years younger
than us. They have broken up and
reunited too many times to count. Now she
wants to be "a part of" my daughters'
lives. She has never met them because
their relationship was "not serious". Now
she is insisting that she be a part of my
ex's family and he part of hers which
includes my daughters. My daughters are
only 5 years old and love everyone that
talks to them. I am torn apart by this
and am having so much difficulty dealing
with this that I can't sleep and at night
and I obsess about it all day long. I
don't know why it bothers me as badly as
it does. I wonder if anyone has had
similar feelings in the same situation or
if anyone can offer some advise. Please.
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missymoo2007
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Nov 2006 Posts: 10 Location: England
Posted: 11-26-06 18:25pm
Heya hun.
Im so sorry for whats going on with you.
Your ex's girlfriend has no right on
seeing your daughter. Even if she never
meet her too. It's going to upset your
daughter and you so its a big mistake.
You need to talk to your ex about all this
and sort it out with him. If you cant
then take it to court and get it done that
way but she has no right too be apart of
your daughters life.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 11-29-06 11:06am
Did she walk into a wall?
She sounds like a total fool to me, I
think in this case it would be in your
daughters best mental health not to
associate with the "other woman"
personally I think you should bring it to
court!
Im going through custody issues right now
and its killing me so I understand the
pain abit except I dont have another woman
trying to play "mom" to my kids, that
would send me into a rage!
Another thing to look into is seeing if
you can get supervised custody when the
kids visit their dad(if he was abusive.)
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