Why Boys/guys Think About Sex? Posted: 11-27-06 16:27pm
I mean I noticed that alot of guys offline
and online persistant to talk about sex..
I mean do they never look on the good side
of life .. Like having a best girlfriend
or that kind of stuff .. But they think
about sex all the time. I mean I broke up
with my ex-boyfriend to show him that a
guy doesn't need sex all the time and
whenever I have the talk about our son..
He brings up sex into the conversation
which pissed me off but my question is..
Why though.
Does any of your ex boyfriend ask you that
or ...
(those who are single mom.. Because im a
single mom in a girl to girl relationship
though)
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taya
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Posted: 11-27-06 17:13pm
This is just my experience, but I find
that once you make it clear to a guy that
you're secure, confident, and not
intimidated by him, then he won't push you
to sex when you're not ready and what not.
But guys do think about sex a lot,
especially in teenage years, because it's
natural time to want to reproduce. My
boyfriend currently isn't exactly manic
about it, but yeah, they think about it.
If it makes you uncomfortable, then make
it clear that you are .N.O.T going to talk
about that with them.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 11-28-06 10:24am
I am in a new relationship because I am
not planing on having sex with him for a
while and he doesn't bring it up at all.
He is a real gentle man. I like that
about him.
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Becky
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Posted: 11-28-06 11:26am
sunflower_pie81
wrote:
i am in a new relationship
because I am not planing on having sex
with him for a while and he doesn't bring
it up at all. He is a real gentle man.
I like that about
him.
aw I didn't know it had developed into a
relationship! Good for you
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Posted: 11-28-06 11:31am
Sex is a normal part of a relationship,
sometimes men just talk about sex to
relieve tension. Now depending on the
circumstances some may not bring it up
because they feel that it can be prolonged
and like gen said they are gentlemen!!!
Hard to find lol!!
I am a single mom, have been for a few
weeks and I love it. I started seeing
someone and he respect my wish to wait
cause right now I just need a really good
friend and he has been there in every
aspect I dont understand how has the
patience cause I sure as hell dont lol!
He will sit there and tell me how it would
better to wait because it would benefit us
both to really get to know each other and
to let me heal!
If a man talks about sex just let it fly
by if it bothers you then tell them so,
sometimes you have to be honest/blunt with
them, they dont always undertsand our
little hints.
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Jolie_3110
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Posted: 11-28-06 13:14pm
diamondsz
wrote:
sex is a normal part of a
relationship, sometimes men just talk
about sex to relieve tension. Now
depending on the circumstances some may
not bring it up because they feel that it
can be prolonged and like gen said they
are gentlemen!!! Hard to find lol!!
I am a single mom, have been for a few
weeks and I love it. I started seeing
someone and he respect my wish to wait
cause right now I just need a really good
friend and he has been there in every
aspect I dont understand how has the
patience cause I sure as hell dont lol!
He will sit there and tell me how it
would better to wait because it would
benefit us both to really get to know each
other and to let me heal!
If a man talks about sex just let it fly
by if it bothers you then tell them so,
sometimes you have to be honest/blunt with
them, they dont always undertsand our
little hints.
i am sorry to hear things havent worked
out between you and your husband.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 11-28-06 14:59pm
beckster06
wrote:
sunflower_pie81
wrote:
i am in a new relationship
because I am not planing on having sex
with him for a while and he doesn't bring
it up at all. He is a real gentleman.
I like that about
him.
aw I didn't know it had developed into a
relationship! Good for you
yeah I like him a lot and I love his
baby....Well I guess he isn't a baby as
much as .Melia is.....Chad is a doll and
very loving it's really cute. Brandon is
a sweetheart.....We will see where this
goes....It's only been about 8 weeks....So
we will see.
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Posted: 11-28-06 18:43pm
jolie_3110
wrote:
diamondsz
wrote:
sex is a normal part of a
relationship, sometimes men just talk
about sex to relieve tension. Now
depending on the circumstances some may
not bring it up because they feel that it
can be prolonged and like gen said they
are gentlemen!!! Hard to find lol!!
I am a single mom, have been for a few
weeks and I love it. I started seeing
someone and he respect my wish to wait
cause right now I just need a really good
friend and he has been there in every
aspect I dont understand how has the
patience cause I sure as hell dont lol!
He will sit there and tell me how it
would better to wait because it would
benefit us both to really get to know each
other and to let me heal!
If a man talks about sex just let it fly
by if it bothers you then tell them so,
sometimes you have to be honest/blunt with
them, they dont always undertsand our
little hints.
i am sorry to hear things havent worked
out between you and your husband.
its all good im actually happier without
him, in my case it was a culture thing and
unfortunatly im not going to change
everything for him or anyone else!
