I was just wondering if anyone has ever
been in a situation like this?
I have before, twins dad even stabbed me.
I dont know why I ever stayed when I could
have been with jesse who is great. I
guess I learn things the hard way.
Sorry but i've been thinking about the
past and I just wanted to share it with
you ladies.
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 02-02-04 06:40am
I wouldnt call it abusive he only got
violent when he was drunk. And he only
ever hitme 2 times but I smashed him back
no guy pushes me around! :d
i'm so sorry to hear what you went through
darling!
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-02-04 08:35am
Larry only pushes me away if I hit him, if
I get really really mad, and I have only
done that once, when he cheated on me.
Larry does the alternative to hitting,
when he gets real mad. He spits on me.
Well he used to.
Sorry to hear what you went through. My
mom hit my mom real bad.
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-02-04 08:36am
What I meant was my dad hit my mom..
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 02-02-04 11:00am
Hey jill,
i think we talked about this before, but I
was in an abusive relationship a year ago,
I actually called it off on the 19th of
last year, so it'll almost be a year...He
was obsessed with control and tried his
best to overpower me, well he did at one
point, but i'll never let myself be that
vulnerable to someone ever again...He
would restrain me, but never actually hit
me, he'd constantly put negative things in
my head about the way I looked or
something idiotic like that....He also
took advantage of me in certain ways and
always got upset when I didnt spend all of
my time with him..He cheated, lied,
manipulated, you name it, he did it..Major
problem..Now he's got a 9 month old baby
girl(yeah he got his ex preg when he was
with me)...I feel for that kid, cuz she's
gonna grow up the same way he did, but im
just glad I got out before it was too
late.
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Untimely Blessings
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004 Posts: 383
Posted: 02-02-04 13:44pm
Yes I was in one, my daughters father beat
me for the first 5 months of my pregnancy
with her, trying to make me miscarry. He
finally left until recently. I am sorry
about your ex, jill.
Kelly
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JillMarie
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Dec 2003 Posts: 3022 Location: Iowa
Posted: 02-02-04 14:34pm
I'm glad to see that i'm not the only one.
My oldest son's dad would slap me and he
choked me a few times, but it was mostly
when he was drunk. Then when I started
dating anotherguy I brought in the abuse
when ever I would get mad so I take the
resposibility.My twins dad was so mean
though. I can't tell you how many black
eyes i've had. I have scars on my neck
from him trying to slit my throat. There
is so much more but I hate even talking
about it! I hope all of us make good
decisions in the future!
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mommabear16
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2004 Posts: 1222 Location: illinois
Posted: 02-02-04 15:12pm
I suppose i'm lucky. The only thing that
happend to me was my boyfriend grabbed my
shirt when he got ticked..And I started
crying...Then he finally realised what he
was doing....
That only happend once..So im lucky...I
hate people who hurt other people
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Posted: 02-02-04 19:58pm
Hey,
i have been in one too. Joe use to beat
me. It sux..I would kick her ass back too
haha
