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Becky
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Kids By Different Dads- Your Opinion?
Posted: 12-01-06 15:45pm
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Just wondered what everyone's opinions
were on people having kids with different
fathers? (no i'm not planning on doing it
anytime soon before you start  )
do you think it's bad or ok? Do you have
a 'half' brother or sister? How has it
affected you?
Opinions please ladies! 
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Melissa_20
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Re: Kids By Different Dads- Your Opinion?
Posted: 12-01-06 15:51pm
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| beckster06
wrote: | just wondered what
everyone's opinions were on people having
kids with different fathers? (no i'm not
planning on doing it anytime soon before
you start )
do you think it's bad or ok? Do you have
a 'half' brother or sister? How has it
affected you?
Opinions please ladies! |
well I don't have any half brother/sisters
but I thihnk if I did. . I don't
know.Looking at it from the inside out,its
ok unless your just a hooch who sleeps
with like 10 different dudes all the time.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 12-01-06 15:51pm
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I know that I am going to get bashed for
this but I believe that in devorce cases
it's not such a good idea becuase a lot of
time the children get the feeling that
they aren't loved as much.
In the case that the parent that the
children doesn't reside with it's a lot
harder on the children. Because they
come to visit the parent on vacation or
over the weekend and such but they have
their other baby or child all the time.
I think that it's harder on the children.
However in sitations where the parent has
passed away then yes it's fine.
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Kia
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Posted: 12-01-06 15:54pm
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My brothers have a different dad to me so
from an inside view I think it's fine.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 12-01-06 15:55pm
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Why would you get bashed .Gen? Oh yea,
cuz some people dont realize that it's an
opinion!
I, personally don't care. I live in .New
.Orleans, it's bookoo common!! Hahaha,
says a lot huh? But anyways, I personally
wouldn't go sleepin with people and having
different baby daddy's..
But if the parents divorce and move on,
whatever. It's just a new peron in my
life. My dad is re marrying to a woman
who had a baby when they met. So she's
not my dads, but he treats her as his. I
am a little jealous. But hey, whatever,
right?
Sarah
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 12-01-06 15:55pm
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | | my brothers have a different
dad to me so from an inside view I think
it's fine. |
your brothers are hot. . . So are you
kia lol
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Becky
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Posted: 12-01-06 15:57pm
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I agree with you .Gen. I just want to
know other peoples opinions.
*my opinion*
if the father has no access to the
child/ren at all (for whatever reason)
then it's fine but if the father of the
first kid/s still sees them then it's
unfair to split them up on visitations
etc. You also have the issue like .Gen
said of one feeling more loved than
another cause there dad is 'better'
i wouldn't have anymore kids cause of that
reason but if neil ever stopped seeing the
kids then I would.
I also have a 'half sister' (different
dad's) but I don't see her as anything
less than my 'full' sister. Mind you
there is 17 years between us and I have
never known my dad
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:02pm
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I'm a hooch 
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Kia
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:03pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | kia_breizzze
wrote: | | my brothers have a different
dad to me so from an inside view I think
it's fine. |
your brothers are hot. . . So are
you kia
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they are rather cute but i'm biased.
My mom is supposed to be sending me some
pics of them both - don't hold your breath
though - she can be a little long winded
on these things.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:03pm
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| chase4
wrote: | | i'm a hooch |
lmao! I'm sorry hun! It happens
sometimes I would just try to avoid it. I
know you probably didn't plan it out like
that either
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:04pm
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My dad had three boys from his first
marriage and when he re-married he and my
mom adopted only girls, me and my sister,
because my dad didn't want the boys to
feel like they were being replaced. I
really dont' think that they felt that way
but.....Divorce is hard on children....But
now my brothers dont even call my dad on
father's day....How horrible is
that.....It hurts my dad very much.....But
I know that wasn't what you were
asking....But I think it seems like to
some children that their father/mother
didnt' want them as much as they did with
the new guy in their life. You know I
think that it's really hard on
children.....Wait until they are 18 before
having anymore kids. I think that would
be the best thing to do.
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:07pm
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| sunflower_pie81
wrote: | | wait until they are 18
before having anymore kids. I think
that would be the best thing to
do. |
lmao .Gen! Well my mum waited til I was
17.. Lol! Only kidding. She was ttc for
8 years 
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:08pm
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | kia_breizzze
wrote: | | my brothers have a different
dad to me so from an inside view I think
it's fine. |
your brothers are hot. . . So are
you kia
lol |
they are rather cute but i'm biased.
My mom is supposed to be sending me some
pics of them both - don't hold your breath
though - she can be a little long winded
on these
things. |
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Kia
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:10pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | i'll be waiting! Lmao!
I'ma come visit you one day kia. .
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coolies
we're hoping to drive route 66 for our
holiday *cough* vacation I mean lol next
year so if you live within a couple
hundred miles of it then holla
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:10pm
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Hey I wanna visit kia too! 
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Kia
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:11pm
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Just let me know when lol
***edit to add***
both you and allie live in london don't
you???
Do you live anywhere near each other?
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:12pm
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | i'll be waiting! Lmao!
I'ma come visit you one day kia. .
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coolies
we're hoping to drive route 66 for our
holiday *cough* vacation I mean lol next
year so if you live within a couple
hundred miles of it then
holla |
maybe I could make atrip to england since
i'm the e-sh*t prostitute. . Lol we
could all hang out!
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Kia
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:13pm
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Really you don't know lmao route 66
chicago to los angeles 
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:14pm
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I dont see a problem with it as of right
now. Only thing my 7 and 6 year old said
was stop having kids there is enough lol
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:15pm
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | | really you don't know lmao
route 66 chicago to los angeles |
oh  I
live no where near there,
***roadtrip*** lol
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