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Kids By Different Dads- Your Opinion? Posted: 12-01-06 15:45pm
Just wondered what everyone's opinions
were on people having kids with different
fathers? (no i'm not planning on doing it
anytime soon before you start )
do you think it's bad or ok? Do you have
a 'half' brother or sister? How has it
affected you?
Opinions please ladies!
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Sail Away
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Posted: 12-01-06 15:53pm
It doesn't bother me unless there's like
10 kids and 5 different dads, then that'd
be kinda weird...But I have a 2 half
sisters and 1 half brother, one of my half
sister & my brother have the same dads
and I have the same mom with both of them,
and my other half sister and I have the
same dad and different moms.
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Becky
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Posted: 12-01-06 16:02pm
Do you all ive together?
Was there ever any jealousy/upset when you
all see your seperate dads and 'compare
notes'
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Sail Away
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Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Posts: 1170 Location: Missouri
Posted: 12-01-06 16:15pm
beckster06
wrote:
do you all ive together?
Was there ever any jealousy/upset when you
all see your seperate dads and 'compare
notes'
no we dont live together, chris, brayden
and I are the only ones who live in this
house. But my brother comes over daily,
we are very close. He's 22. My sister
and I don't get along so we never see
eachother. Both of our dads are pieces of
sh*t, the only good they do is send child
support checks every month, I have only
seen my dad in person a couple times, and
I dont even care to meet him. My brother
and sister's dad don't live in the same
state, and even if he did they would want
nothing to do with him because he's no
better.
we don't care either, because our step dad
has been there since we were all really
young, and he stepped up to the plate like
a man and we aren't even his kids. My
parents are divorced and my dad still
calls my mom everyday, they are still
really close and I see my dad almost
everyday aswell. I consider my biological
dad my sperm donor. Hahahaa.
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oh_mommy
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Posted: 12-01-06 17:38pm
Personally I rather have all my kids full
siblings, but sometimes things dont work
out.. If something were to ever happpen
between me and shawn (better not) and I
was with someone else and was stilll young
and they didnt have kids I would probably
have one, I wouldnt want to be the reason
why the guy im with dosnt have biological
kids because I had a kid with someone else
before..
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Sail Away
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Joined: 16 Oct 2006 Posts: 1170 Location: Missouri
Posted: 12-01-06 17:52pm
Brayden isn't chris's biological child,
and he says it makes no difference to him
because he has been there since brayden
was in my belly. He treats brayden like
his own and buys him things like any other
dad would to their kid. Chris and I plan
on having a baby together, i've always
only wanted 2 kids but there's a chance it
might be 3.
I have two half sisters. One of them (we
share dad) i've met once and the other
(share a mom) has been there since I was
born. I don't think of her as my half
sister though. My daughter has a
deadbeat dad, and i'm married to someone
else and we're having a baby. He's been
around since right after juliette turned
one (she calls him matt, but she's called
him daddy a couple of times recently).
He loves her and treats her like his own.
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 12-02-06 08:59am
It really doesn't bother me at all as long
as the child is payed for by the other
parent and has access if possible. My
sister has a step daughter who is 10 and
her own two kids.
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diamondsz
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Posted: 12-02-06 12:40pm
I dont see a problem with it!
A father is one who nurtures and loves a
child, even if he wasnt the sperm donor!
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