When me and my girl are together and we
are making out and kinda grinding on
eachother im horny as hell but when I try
to put a condom on I just sort of loose
it? Also im 18 if that means anything
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builder07
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Joined: 30 Nov 2006 Posts: 12 Location: Seattle
Posted: 12-01-06 23:46pm
Why don't you try having her put the
condom on and see what happens. And
have it within reach...Nothing ruins the
mood faster than having to dig through
drawers/cabinets tryin to find one.
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mxer108
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Joined: 03 Nov 2006 Posts: 6
Posted: 12-03-06 22:23pm
Ok well that sounds like a good idea but
then last time we tried I couldnt get it
up and I have to like masterbate till I
was about to cum just to get hard and then
I got the comdom on still staying right
there where I was about to cum so I would
be hard then I got in and in like 3
strokes it was over. It sounds bad but
that was all I could to becuz I was ready
to cum when I finnally got the condom on.
Somone plz offer some more advice I am
really freaking out about this.
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maia
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Joined: 12 Sep 2006 Posts: 49
Posted: 12-03-06 22:26pm
Try having her use a female condom. Try
that and then you will see if you have a
fear of condoms or a real physical/mental
problem with it.
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mxer108
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Joined: 03 Nov 2006 Posts: 6
Posted: 12-04-06 10:14am
So does it sound mental or more like a ed.
Im really worried about this and I really
cant just go to my parents and say hey sex
isnt working so well.
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maia
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Sep 2006 Posts: 49
Posted: 12-04-06 18:23pm
I'm not a doctor, but it doesn't sound
like ed since you can get and maintain an
erection until the condom comes into the
picture.
Lots of guys go limp when it's time to put
the condom on. Even if you don't think
that you're worrying or thinking about the
condom, somehow your subconscious is, you
know?
As long as you can get an erection and
keep it until you cum any other time...
Like masturbation or oral sex... Then
physically you are functioning fine, if
that's the case, then yes, it's all in
your head.
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throwier
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2006 Posts: 3
/ Posted: 12-04-06 20:07pm
Yeah, used to happen to me. I eventualy
got it up tho.
Next time you masterbate, start
masterbating then put a condom on and
masterbate with the condom, it make you
get used to it.
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fiona05
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Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 663 Location: , Norn Iron
Posted: 12-05-06 06:00am
Take some relief in knowing it happens to
loads of blokes. Every other post on this
forum is about ed, but dont worry, you are
still very young! I bet alll it is is
nervousness.
If you can masturbate by yourself no
problem, then it is not a physical
problem. So really, considering your age
and your level of experience, it's really
just a case of finding the best way to
calm yourself down, cos I think this is
just nerves. Take the pressure off
yourself by stopping focusing in sex
itself and instead on other things.
Sleep naked together for a while to get
used to each other's bodies. Have oral
sex instead, or touch each other. Once
you learn to trust her more, it'll all
just come naturally.
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mxer108
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Nov 2006 Posts: 6
Posted: 12-05-06 10:15am
Ok well that makes me feel better but
there have been times I cant get it up but
I have been able to have great sex to I
just cant keep it up when nothing is going
on as long as im in the girl moving im
good. Also what do u think about horny
goat weed? I saw somthing about it and I
have been taking it. Any advice on how to
take it or anything else I could take.
