Do You Ever Look In the Mirror And Think... Posted: 12-02-06 10:55am
''wow how ugly am i?'' because I do a lot,
i'm an 18 year old guy and have never been
in a serious relationship with a girl, I
think this has made me paranoid over my
looks, I don't know. Sometimes I look at
myself and my body language in the mirror
and get really frustrated over how I look,
I have a big head, fat face/mouth and
blotches/spots on my skin which dont seem
to damn well go away. Honestly sometimes
I feel like pushing my head through a
glass window its that frustrating, and
makes me feel like I don't even deserve a
girlfriend. Guess I will have to learn
to live with it, I know people say its not
all about looks but it is still annoying.
Sometimes I even look different say like
in the morning compared to the evening, I
dont know if thats just me. I know most
people would say its self confidence, but
there is a fine line between that and to
judge if you are simply good looking or
not.
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RedDelight
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 131 Location: I'm a Yettie!
Re: Do You Ever Look In the Mirror And Think... Posted: 01-18-07 15:30pm
jimmyeth
wrote:
''wow how ugly am i?''
because I do a lot, i'm an 18 year old guy
and have never been in a serious
relationship with a girl, I think this has
made me paranoid over my looks, I don't
know. Sometimes I look at myself and my
body language in the mirror and get really
frustrated over how I look, I have a big
head, fat face/mouth and blotches/spots on
my skin which dont seem to damn well go
away. Honestly sometimes I feel like
pushing my head through a glass window its
that frustrating, and makes me feel like I
don't even deserve a girlfriend. Guess
I will have to learn to live with it, I
know people say its not all about looks
but it is still annoying. Sometimes I
even look different say like in the
morning compared to the evening, I dont
know if thats just me. I know most
people would say its self confidence, but
there is a fine line between that and to
judge if you are simply good looking or
not.
you are young! 18?? Believe it or not,
some of those things are going to change.
For the blotches/spots, may I suggest
clearasil ulta vanishing acne treatment
cream? It works awsome- and you only
need to put it on the blemished spot- zits
disappear faster than anything else i've
ever used. It's alittle pricey- but that
goes along way.
Go join a gym- you can get rid of the
"so-called" fat. Be patient, but results
will start to show in a couple of weeks.
If you are truefully that disappointed
with your looks- there are ways to "mask"
imperfectations.. Clothes, is a great way
too. Try something different- style
wise. Or join a class- like kickboxing,
or dancing- you'de be surprised- at how
much fun you are having while losing those
pounds.
Plus- you could just meet someone while
having that fun- you just got to go out
there and do it!
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jimmyeth
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Jul 2006 Posts: 22
Posted: 02-05-07 17:12pm
Hey thanks for the reply, i'm not fat,
infact im very thin its just my face thats
fat lol, weird huh? Ive tried clearasil
in the past but found my skin is allergic
to it so I got prescribed a cream from the
doctor, that has run out now, and im using
anti-bacterial soap. Its more or less
just blotches on my skin now *touch wood*
but I seem to bring it down to blotches
and it just stays that way.
