Jules
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Potty Training
Posted: 12-06-06 01:38am
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Hi ladies!
My son max is nearly 21 months old and
still in nappies. I was just wondering
when you guys began potty training your
children? I think it's too early yet for
my son but was thinking of trying when he
is about 2-2 1/2?
Also, how do you get started? Just whip
the nappy off one day? I'm scared!!!
thanks!
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Becky
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Posted: 12-06-06 02:26am
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Layla isn't potty trained yet.
there is no set time. You need to wait
until they recognise that they have done
something. Without that it will be very
hit and miss. Once they become aware that
they are pooing/weeing then you can start
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foxy
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Posted: 12-06-06 09:07am
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I potty trained tre when he was 2 1/2.
At age 2 I started letting him sit on the
potty so that he could get comfortable
with it, and told him that that was where
big boys pee-pee and stinky, and for a
couple of weeks when he would pee or
stinky in his pampers...I would point out
that babies pee-pee and stinky in their
diapers and I would ask him where big boys
do it and he would tell me "potty" then I
would let him go to the potty (to show me
where the potty was) I did all of this
for a couple of week just so that he could
get used to the potty and the fact that he
was going to be a big boy soon and would
have to use the potty.
Then one day I made a fun day out of
getting big boy jockeys and throwing away
the baby diapers (all young boys and girls
want to be a big boy/girl, so they get
excited when its time to do big boy/girl
things).
Everyday without fail he wore his jockeys
and every 15 minutes I told him to go and
sit on the potty ( I also had his daycare
do the same thing) I also told him to let
me know everytime he wanted to pee or
stinky ...Sometimes he still peed/stinky
on himself and we would just clean it up
with a tissue and put it in the potty
(because that is where the pee/stinky is
supposed to go) after the first two weeks
he started to remember to go to the potty
because they do not like wet
jockeys/panties because it is very
uncomfortable...Although every once in a
while he still made a mistake.
I would say it took me a full month to get
him potty trained starting from the day I
put him in jockeys. After he was fully
potty trained I started to let him go into
the bathroom with his father to see how
men stand up and pee (because it is less
confusing during the potty training to let
boys pee while sitting down). He got
that down after about a week all the way
down to the end where you "shake it shake
it" lol and he says the words when he
shakes (his dad taught him that part).
Even now he misses the toilet sometimes
when he is distracted. And we are still
trying to teach him how to clean himself
properly after stinky.
But all in all, it takes alot of patience
and consistency....Find a method that is
comfortable for you and your child and
keep at it until they get the hang of it,
you can't start and then give up.
Also pull-ups are not good for potty
training because they feel just like
pampers.
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Kia
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Posted: 12-06-06 09:50am
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It scares the heck out of me that you all
wait so long  if a kid can walk
s/he is old enough to be potty trained.
Why cost yourself all the expense of
nappies for what 12-18+ months longer than
you need to?
Me and graham were potty trained by 12
months, rob was a little later but he was
trained by 14 months.
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foxy
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Posted: 12-06-06 09:59am
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | it scares the heck out of me
that you all wait so long if a kid can walk
s/he is old enough to be potty trained.
Why cost yourself all the expense of
nappies for what 12-18+ months longer than
you need to?
Me and graham were potty trained by 12
months, rob was a little later but he was
trained by 14
months. |
lol kia
i waited so long because tre was and early
walker but a late talker and I wanted to
make sure he was able to talk back to me
so that I could know that he understood
what was going on.....Hence making the
whole process easier.
Also on this side of the world, age 2 - 3
is the normal time for potty training.
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Jules
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Posted: 12-06-06 10:05am
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Yeah, I feel my son is too young right
now. He's not talking well yet and I
want to be able to communicate better with
him before I start trying to potty train.
I know he understands more than he can
speak but I still feel it's too early for
him.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 12-06-06 10:13am
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My mom tried to potty train me when I was
1 1/2, and again at 2, and neither times
worked. I flat-out refused to go in my
potty seat.
The only thing that worked was when they
started bringing me to day care. I got so
jealous of the other little girls wearing
"big girl" panties and was embarrassed
that I was still in diapers. That's what
did it for me.
Yay for vanity. 
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 12-06-06 10:38am
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I'm not going to potty train chu until
he's ready to be potty trained, I think
that otherwise you're just fighting an
uphill battle...
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Jolie_3110
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Posted: 12-07-06 05:02am
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I trained aydan at 2 1/2 and trained lucas
at 2.
Buy him a potty now and explain what its
for, just encourage him to sit on it
sometimes, like when hes getting dressed
in the mornings. But if he doesnt want to
thats fine, he will when hes ready!!!
Just take your time and dont worry about
rushing anything! I remember with both of
mine I had a potty in the house ages
before they needed to use it so they were
used to it. Then at first I would just
try in the mornings, every so often
sitting them on it and asking if they
wanted a wee. Neither of them actually
took themselves to the potty for quite a
while.
Warning... Potty training can be very
frustrating!!!! But just stick with it
and be calm. I would leave it till hes
abit older and maybe try in the summer
then he can wear less clothes and that
will make it easier for him also if hes
out in the garden alot you wont have to
scrub your carpets after accidents!!!!
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 12-07-06 08:36am
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Foxy, I didn't know our kids had the same
name! Just spelled a tad differently!
I bought trey a potty a few months ago and
because he sees kids at daycare using one,
he knows that if I say poo or pee then he
sits and grunts (it's quite funny) or if
i'm peeing, he'll sit on it. But he
doesn't know exactly what it is yet.
Everyone I know said for boys wait till
they are about 2 1/2 even 3. Don;t know
if i'll wait till 3 but by 2 1/2 i'd like
him to use the potty.
As for if they can walk they should use
the potty, trey was running around at
9-10months. No way was I able to potty
train him then, lol.
They say it's bad for their systems to
force it on them too young too. I know a
lot of kids who were potty trained young
and now have bed-wetting probs.
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foxy
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Posted: 12-07-06 10:50am
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His name is actually dylan trevon
(pronounced trey-vaughn) but we call him
tre for short. 
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 12-07-06 10:52am
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One of my sil just started potty training
and her boy is 2 1/2. He wasn't even
interested in the potty before then. Now
he wants to use it because he saw a
commercial for spiderman underoos and he
wants them.
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Kia
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Posted: 12-07-06 13:01pm
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I don't know if this is a culture thing or
a generation thing.
But at 2 years old I went to play group
(pre school) and all of the kids there
were potty trained and there were never
any problems.
Myself and my bro's never had any problems
at all.
Maybe it's because my mom didn't work or
whatever, but during the day (like after
feeding/drinking) she'd sit us on the
potty, it was just always there.
Oh and none of the 3 of us ever wore a
disposable.
Until coming on here i'd never heard of
people leaving potty training so late and
it does shock me. I mean I accept thats
how you guys do it (there sure is a lot of
you) but it's just something I can't get
my head around.
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tigresacanela24
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 12-07-06 13:43pm
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| foxy
wrote: | his name is actually dylan
trevon (pronounced trey-vaughn) but we
call him tre for short.  |
and mine's is michael trey (we were gonna
do treyson) but we call him trey.
Neat!!!!
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Kia
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Posted: 12-07-06 13:47pm
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Yup, one biased view
while I accept you guys do it that way,
it's never been my experience, and none of
use were ever in dispoables either so we
knew when we were wet and learnt to
recognise the feeling of needing to pee
before the nasty wetness occured.
I don't agree with that site or the
waiting until child is 2-3 years old - in
fact I passionately disagree.
But there you go, I have quite a lot of
old fashioned views on raising children.
But here's some biased more to my views
htt
p://www.White-boucke.Com/reviews/infantpot
tytraining.Html
http://www.Timl.Com/ipt/
just because you can find anything to show
anyone's point of view.
At the end of the day, my nan raised 3
boys who were all potty trained byt the
time they were walking and never had bet
wetting, my mom had 3 kids - exactly the
same and my mom along with both her
brothers were trained the same too.
Maybe it's generation maybe it's culture -
I don't know, but I do know that any child
of mine will not be in nappies at 18
months, 24 months - 3 years or more.
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 12-07-06 14:07pm
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Get him pee and poo panties......Lol and
if you reward him with a stuffed turd I am
sure he will start to pee in the
potty.....I sure would. Lol
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 12-07-06 14:08pm
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I'm showing you the reason people think
the way they do here. Now you see what
we're told so now you know why we do it
the way that we do.
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Kia
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Posted: 12-07-06 14:10pm
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No, I accept, that I really do. Like I
said I don't know if it's culture or
generation based, but it seems all of you
guys do it that way and I accept that.
But accepting, it doesn't mean I agree

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Melissa_20
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Posted: 12-07-06 15:37pm
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I potty trained myself and was out of
diapers by the time I was 1.I didn't like
wearing a diaper.
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