Ok there is this guy he is 26 an I am 16
me and him have been sexual with each
other and he has told me that he reall
cares for me. I would do anything in the
world for him I mean anything. I think
that about 2 weekends ago he had off on a
sunday so that saturday I was just hanging
out with him and doing what I always do
just talk to him and later that night
around 4 am he brings his ex over an
sleeps with her and I found out about it
all an it hurts me but he wont talk to me
at all about anything. But I mean I love
him he is my world and he has told me that
he would do anything for me but I dont
know what to do im am so lost from this
happing I dont think I can trust him but I
can't let hm go out of my life for good,
he wantes to be the father f my kids when
ever I decide to have one..So can I have
some hepl plz..Thanks
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mommywannabe78
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2006 Posts: 161
Posted: 12-06-06 13:18pm
Your relationship does not sound very
loving or trusting, which are two things
that you really need from the father of
your children, not to mention from someone
that you would commit yourself to or do
anything for.
You are 16, which is kinda young to be in
such a serious relationship. It's been
done before, of course, but this doesn't
sound very healthy. Find someone who
values you and your feelings! Someone who
loves you should not be sleeping with
other people unless you've agreed to an
open relationship, and should also be
openly communicating with you, which he is
obviously not.
My best advice would be to break it off
with this guy and find someone who truly
cherishes you through his actions, not
just his words.
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proudmommy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Nov 2005 Posts: 12 Location: california
Posted: 12-06-06 21:50pm
I got married when I was 17, pretty young
I know, but my husband and I are very
happy and have 2 children and a third on
the way!! You are still very young and
if he really loved you he wouldn't have
slept with his ex!! He should also be
man enough to sit you down and talk to you
about where you guys are in your
relationship. My advice to you would be
is to really look inside your heart, maybe
you guys can work it out, maybe not, but
like I said you are still young and you
can always find someone else, I know when
your in love with someone it's hard to let
them go!! I pray that everything will
work out fine with you!! God bless!
